Today, I want to talk about how hard of a job it is to be a parent. There is not a lot of talk about the absolute difficulty of raising children. Planning to have kids is a very bad thing to do as it is. Planning to have children is the same as saying, yes, I want to be tortured for the next 18 years, as long as I do not die, I am completely fine with pain. The first thing to know about being a parent is that pain can not be directed; it just happens to everyone, usually without notice. There are things that can be done to avoid pain, if we know about the pain first. For example, we know that having children causes major, prolonged, drawn-out pain, but because there is a chance that something good may happen from that event, we do not care about that pain at all. I will tell you that the chance of something good happening does not outweigh the absolutely horrible life of suffering that those parents and their newborn child are going to go through. There will be times when bad things happen that you have no control over. Like when your toddler comes home from the sitter with bite marks on their arm? What can a parent do about that? Sure, you can call the sitter and be like WTF? This is what they are going to say to you. “I saw that, I am pretty sure I know how that happened, and as soon as I noticed it, I separated them right away.” That is all that can be done about that. The sitter noticed it and separated them immediately, and that is all that can be done. You absolutely can find a new sitter or take your child elsewhere. This problem is rampant, and it happens everywhere. There is no way to avoid it. The only way to avoid this problem is to employ a family member or friend to watch your child. There are risks there also. Raising children is a very hard thing to do, and something that needs to be considered is how that child is going to be cared for in the first 3 years of their life. The best thing to do is to imagine what your life will be like after that child is born. There is so much to know, and especially young parents do not know anything pretty much. The hospital will put all of you right out on the street after that child is born, and the mother is stable again. The real things start happening right then. The parents don't even consider what is happening at that moment. There are so very many things happening at that time, there is a new life now, we need to create folders and classifications for this new life. Let’s see here. What sex is that kid? Is that kid a twin (hopefully not)? Is that kid retarded? Does that kid have all of its limbs? Does that kid have all of its fingers and toes? Oh, it has an extra toe? Extra toes and fingers are okay, I guess we can just chop one of them off. It is when things are missing that we consider them to be a problem. No matter how that child appears, it is all the same, their parents have to love and care, and protect that child no matter what. Except right now, you can prevent all of that well-known torture with an abortion. It is a very invasive and barbaric surgery. If you remember exactly how bad of an event that was, you will forever understand and be grateful like I am that the condom was invented.

This can happen to anyone at any time, all you have to do to qualify is have a child.

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Today, I want to talk about the time when the mother was pregnant with her first child. Remember when you looked at that pregnancy test and it was positive. I am like, “UMM, CAN I PLEASE GET A DO-OVER?” I go to the closest drug store, lol. I get a name brand version of the test, for this purpose, I will spare no expense, I want the best damn pregnancy test that money can buy lol. I splurged and paid the full $24.99 (like paying more money would lead to a better result). I got home and eagerly gave her the test. She went into the bathroom to take the test, and when she came out of that bathroom, the result was the same; there was, in fact, a child on the way. I imagine there are mothers out there who had that same feeling. I did not know what to do. I have already paid for 2 abortions, and we have already talked about this. If she got pregnant again, she was going to have that child. I had already agreed to go through with this. So at the time, she was working for Bright House Networks and had good insurance, Mandatory for American parents, because in Amerika, there is no universal healthcare. That is a business in Amerika and in Amerika everything is a business. It was in that previous conversation that I got into this mess in the first place. I just did not see that until it was way too late. There have been many times that I wished I had never agreed to that. I did not analyze the mother of my child. She was good in bed, she had dark skin, and she was of Mediterranean descent. That was all the analyzing I did in my 20s. Now, when I see her, I am disgusted at myself. I didn't know yet about how evil the “Child Support” system was, but I was about to learn. When we split up, I understood how this was going to work, I had done this before, without a kid, though. I knew that I was going to have other girlfriends, and she was going to have other boyfriends. That meant there were going to be other men and women making contact with my child. That is a large mistake that I made. That was an invitation for the “Family” courts and “Child Support” to come into my life. There is no way to prevent “Child Support” from entering your life. It works like this: they have a number to contact if you want their “services” or if you submit an application for government assistance. That is also how they acquire “new customers,” the customers are parents. So there is nothing that you can do to prevent that from happening at all. I was told that “Child Support” even goes into families that still have both parents. It is the decision that is made right then and there, when that 2nd pregnancy test comes back positive, that changes everything.

The judge sent my child to live in a foreign country with this person, he is alive still and everything!

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Today I want to talk about a very hot subject, and that is abortion. A lot of people have strong views on this subject, and I think that is a very good thing. I do not have a problem with abortion at all. I am a male, so I do NOT ever get pregnant. I have to pay for abortions, and that is all. In my life so far, I have had to pay for a total of 6 abortions. I made a mistake, though; that number should have been 7 abortions in total. I do not have to actually get them performed on me, I just have to pay for them. The last time I had to pay for an abortion was around 2008. Everything was inflated, but not hyperinflated yet. Back then, the cost for an abortion was about $450.00 USD. That is a lot of money, but in exchange for all the absolute trouble they negate $450.00 is a really good deal. Just the amount of headache it saved me from having to deal with “family” court judges and the “Child Support” agency, that was money very well spent! Those 6 abortions were separated evenly between 3 women. Abortions are very barbaric, invasive, and tragic, and there are usually people outside the building when you enter that call you a murderer too.The fact that it is so tragic is a good thing because it resolves the issue of becoming a parent (becoming a parent now is a very bad thing), but there is a traumatic effect that is left with the mother. It is that effect that reminds a prospective parent about the time that she had to traumatically deal with a problem. It is that trauma that will forever prevent a pregnancy from happening again. I do know that the number of abortions that I have paid for is excessive, I am grateful for them. Now, the U.S. government has repealed Roe VS. Wade and that law was replaced by each state. Now the abortions that I paid for in the past would not be possible under this new state law, it is called “The heartbeat” bill or law. That law makes abortions illegal after only 6 weeks of pregnancy. So parents who have daughters need to be even more vigilant. As a father, I would (Which I despise) need to check every month and make certain that your kid is not pregnant (yes, it is now up to the parents), and if they are, an abortion is happening period. I do not want to go through that either, so do not force it!

This can happen at any time to any parent.

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