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  • 273 - Ratchet Reflections with Boonie
    2025/07/07

    In this solo episode closing out Season 14, I’m sounding off on everything from chaotic reality TV to the very real “romance recession” y’all are living through.

    Then we get into the good stuff:

    💋 Love Island drama and the emotional chaos of bingeing 20+ episodes—why is everyone kissing everybody?!
    🎤 Getting hyped for the Cowboy Carter concert and celeb beauty products that actually do what they say.
    🧳 The struggle of packing. Because why does it take this much energy now??
    💔 The “romance recession”—a real convo about why so many women are tired of the dating scene.

    And of course—I end with a major announcement: Boonie Live is BACK, baby! We’re hitting multiple cities and the vibes are unmatched. Don’t wait on tickets 👀

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    Chapters 0:12 Season 14 Finale 1:36 Sorority Shoutouts 3:02 Boonie 5 Spot Begins 8:38 Cowboy Carter and Hair Care 10:30 The Packing Struggle 14:39 The Romance Recession 17:29 Boonie Live is Back!
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    23 分
  • 272 - Unlearning the BS with Dr. Donna Oriowo
    2025/06/23

    In this episode, I welcome back Dr. Donna Oriowo—the brilliant therapist, dynamic speaker, and now author of Drink Water and Mind Your Business: A Black Woman’s Guide to Unlearning the BS and Healing Your Self-Esteem. Known for her candid insights and unapologetic approach to mental wellness, Dr. Donna returns to break down what it really means to heal, unlearn, and radically embrace self-worth as a Black woman.

    We dive deep into:

    🧠 The difference between self-esteem and self-confidence—and why it matters
    😞 How shame shows up in our lives and keeps us disconnected from ourselves
    📝 The power of journaling, reflection, and doing the work beyond the page
    💔 Why unlearning childhood conditioning is necessary for growth and freedom
    🪞 How to stop confusing external validation with internal self-worth

    Dr. Donna keeps it real as we unpack the ways the world teaches Black women to shrink—and how her book offers a roadmap to expand, heal, and thrive. If you’ve ever questioned your worth, struggled with shame, or felt stuck in a cycle of people-pleasing, this conversation is for you.

    Follow Dr. Donna here:
    📌 Instagram: @drdonnaoriowo
    🔗 Website & Book: https://www.drdonnaoriowo.com

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    Chapters 0:16 Welcome Back, Dr. Donna Oriowo 2:24 Housekeeping and Episode Feedback 4:01 Upcoming Events: Boonie Live 5:01 Journey to Self-Esteem 6:34 Love Island and Social Media Influence 9:58 The Concept of Self-Esteem 16:23 The Impact of Childhood on Self-Concept 18:42 Understanding Shame vs. Guilt 25:13 Breaking Down Self-Worth 35:53 The Role of Shame in Relationships 46:49 The Difference Between Loneliness and Alone 51:34 Quickfire Thoughts: A Final Breakdown
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    56 分
  • 271 - Why You’re Not Ready for the Love You Say You Want with Brian & KG
    2025/06/16
    In this episode, I’m joined by two of my favorite guests—Brian, our problematic fav, and KG, our responsible fav—for a real, unfiltered conversation about dating in today’s world. For the first time, we explore the game from both of their perspectives, diving into the chaos, calm, confusion, and comedy that comes with it. We talk about the shift from “Brian-type” energy—thrilling but unstable—to “Kenny-type” stability and why so many women say they want the latter but still get caught up in the former. There are moments that left me speechless (literally) as we unpack the roles gender expectations, pop culture, and past relationships play in how we all show up in love. We also discuss: 💥 Why some women aren’t ready for “healthy” love 👩🏾‍❤️‍👨🏽 Dating apps, emotional baggage & the illusion of high-value partners Support The Boonie Breakdown: ✨ Join Boonie on Patreon: Patreon.com/TheBoonieBreakdown 🛍️ Shop The Store: thebooniebreakdown.com/shop Let’s Keep in Touch! 📲 Instagram & Threads: @TheBoonieBreakdown 📘 Facebook: facebook.com/TheBoonieBreakdown 📩 Email: thebooniebreakdown@gmail.com | Contact: thebooniebreakdown.com/contact 💬 Use #TheBoonieBreakdown and #PodIn to share your thoughts! Chapters 0:15 Welcome to Episode 271 3:06 Feedback from Last Week's Episode 4:09 Upcoming Live Show Announcement 5:29 The Drag of the Week 5:41 Introducing Our Guests 6:17 Perspectives on Dating 8:01 The Dating Gap 11:49 Accountability in Relationships 13:36 The Role of Friends in Dating 16:03 Navigating Modern Dating 17:57 The Reality of Sex in Relationships 23:06 Expectations from Dating Apps 28:36 Understanding the Good Men Out There 31:18 Baggage and Trust Issues 35:32 The Importance of Being Present 41:28 Insights on Long-Term Relationships 43:29 Advice for Daters 45:02 The Realities of Modern Dating 49:52 The Struggles of Relationships Today 56:59 The Impact of Social Media 1:00:52 Celebrating Fatherhood 1:01:42 Final Thoughts on the Episode
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    1 時間 3 分
  • 270 - What If You Let It All Go? with Samia Burton
    2025/06/09

    In this episode, I welcome back Samia—the vibrant creator behind Sexual Essentials, Not Just Another Sex Podcast, and The Art Exhibit—for an honest, raw, and refreshing conversation about reinvention, resilience, and redefining success. Known for her bold takes and fearless transparency, Samia returns in a new light as The Bankrupt Millionaire, sharing the powerful story of what it means to lose everything—and gain yourself.

    We also discuss:

    💸 Why she walked away from successful platforms and content creation
    🧠 The mental toll of pretending everything’s fine when it’s not
    🔥 What “Bankrupt Millionaire” really means—and how joy became the goal
    📉 The myth of success and why transparency is a revolutionary act

    Samia gets real about navigating the messy middle—the part no one talks about—and offers encouragement for anyone questioning their next step. This episode is for the folks at a crossroads, for those who feel like they’re starting over (again), and for anyone learning to trust themselves in the process.

    Follow Samia here:
    📌 Instagram: @_thebankruptmillionaire
    🔗 LinkTree: https://linktr.ee/SamiaBurton

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    Chapters 0:20 Welcome Back, Samaya 9:10 Transformation and Resilience 19:43 Community and Connection 30:28 The Shift in Identity 42:32 Learning from the Past 56:30 Embracing the Unknown 1:07:00 The Journey Ahead
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    1 時間 12 分
  • REPLAY - From $1Million in Debt to Millionaire with Naseema McElroy
    2025/06/02

    We’re hitting replay on one of the most jaw-dropping and inspiring conversations we’ve had on the podcast.

    In this episode, I’m joined by Naseema McElroy—nurse, mom, money coach, and the powerhouse behind Financially Intentional. We dive deep into her incredible story of paying off over $1 MILLION in debt in under 3 years (yes, you read that right), and how that financial freedom unlocked a new purpose: helping others—especially Black women—build lasting wealth and take control of their money story.

    We also discuss:

    💰 What it really looks like to pay off 7 figures of debt
    🧠 Why mindset is the biggest barrier to wealth building
    💸 Practical steps to stop surviving and start thriving financially
    👩🏾‍⚕️ Navigating money as a working mom and healthcare professional

    Whether you’re just starting your financial wellness journey or looking for inspiration to keep going, this episode is for you.

    Follow Naseema + Financially Intentional:
    📌 Instagram: @financiallyintentional
    💻 Website: www.financiallyintentional.com

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    45 分
  • 269 - Naked, Unashamed & Holy with Brittany Broaddus-Smith
    2025/05/26

    In this episode, I sit down with Brittany Broaddus-Smith—a Christian sexologist and the bold, brilliant founder of The Intimacy Firm—for an eye-opening conversation at the intersection of faith, sexuality, and healing. We dive into taboo topics often brushed aside in the church, including the legitimacy of soul ties, the emotional confusion they can bring, and why over-spiritualizing these concepts can cause more harm than good. Brittany keeps it all the way real, offering clarity, nuance, and a path to healing that doesn’t require abandoning your faith.

    We also explore how millennials are redefining their relationship with the church, why many are stepping away, and what it would take to bring them back. Brittany shares her thoughts on creating church spaces that support open conversations about sexuality, pleasure, and identity—with no judgment attached.

    We also discuss:

    💒 What it means to be a Christian sexologist
    🧠 The truth about soul ties and spiritual-emotional connections
    🙅🏽‍♀️ Why shame has no place in sex or faith
    📉 The church’s disconnect with millennials and Gen Z

    If you’ve ever felt torn between your faith and your sexuality—or if you’re just curious about what it looks like to embrace both without compromise—this episode is for you.

    Follow Brittany here:
    📌 Instagram: @TheIntimacyFirm
    💻 Website: www.theintimacyfirm.com

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    Chapters 0:13 Introduction to the Episode 5:13 Brittany's Journey as a Sexologist 20:15 Discussing Soul Ties 24:59 The Millennial Shift from Church 42:01 Navigating Faith and Sexuality 46:09 Naked and Unashamed Program 50:04 Wrap Up and Final Thoughts
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    53 分
  • 268 - America Is Crashing Out! with KG
    2025/05/12

    In this episode, I’m joined by my favorite political analyst, KG for a deep, unfiltered convo on the state of American politics, the economy, and the emotional toll it’s all taking—especially on men. From Trump’s possible 2028 run to supply chain fears and the media’s obsession with crisis, we unpack what’s real, what’s hype, and what it means for everyday people.

    We also dig into how young men are navigating their political identity, why they’re often left out of campaign messaging, and the deeper existential question—do men even believe they deserve happiness? The conversation blends politics, masculinity, and mental health in a way that’s honest, layered, and timely.

    We also discuss:
    🗳️ Trump 2028 and the media machine
    💸 How tariffs and poor negotiations hurt Americans
    🧠 Political identity, emotional repression & young men

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    Chapters 0:14 Introduction to the Chaos 3:46 The Pick of the Week 11:27 Political Fractures 17:44 The 2028 Election Landscape 28:24 Preparing for Food Shortages 32:28 The Lies in Politics 46:20 Addressing Forgotten Voters 53:48 The Future of Male Happiness
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    56 分
  • 267 - Cutting Through the Silence: Black Women, Fibroids & the Hysterectomy Decision with Melissa
    2025/05/05

    In this episode, I sit down with Melissa of Fab Glance—a lifestyle influencer, digital strategist, and one of the realest voices online—to have a deeply personal conversation about women’s health, fibroids, and her decision to have a hysterectomy. After sharing my own story in a previous episode, I opened the door for others to speak up—and Melissa walked through it with vulnerability, courage, and honesty.

    We talk through the emotional and physical realities of living with fibroids, navigating the decision to be child-free, and how society often places unfair expectations on women’s bodies. Melissa also shares what it was like to date after surgery and the fear of how people would react to her health decisions. This episode is a heartfelt reminder that women's health journeys are never one-size-fits-all.

    We also discuss:

    🩸 Living with fibroids and the trauma of heavy periods
    🧠 The emotional labor of making life-altering health decisions
    💔 Grieving motherhood and embracing a child-free life
    🛌 Healing from surgery—both physically and emotionally

    If you’ve ever dealt with reproductive health issues, questioned societal norms about motherhood, or just want to hear two Black women talk candidly about life, love, and healing—this episode is for you.

    Follow Melissa here:
    📌 Instagram: @fabglance
    💻 Website: www.fabglance.com

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    Chapters 0:08 Intro and Apologies 4:19 Hysterectomy Journey Begins 7:33 Clickbait Fatigue 7:43 Special Guest Melissa 7:49 Personal Stories of Hysterectomies 18:13 Navigating Grief and Acceptance 28:15 Life After Hysterectomy 31:32 Benefits of No More Periods 40:14 Educating Others on Hysterectomy 49:18 The Breakdown Game 50:45 Conclusion and Farewell
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    52 分