Do you ever feel like you’re working hard all day, yet still ending the day exhausted, behind, and wondering where your time and energy went?
In this episode of The Art and Science of Thriving, I answer one of the most important questions high-achieving professionals face: How do I regain control, reduce overwhelm, and perform at my best — without burning out?
I explain why overwhelm isn’t a personal failure or lack of discipline, but a performance state that happens when demand exceeds your brain’s capacity, stress stays elevated, and you lose a sense of control. When this happens, focus narrows, decision quality drops, and even simple tasks start to feel heavy.
From there, I introduce the Thrive Model — a science-based framework built on five interconnected pillars: well-being, purpose, high performance, growth, and connection. Instead of trying to fix overwhelm with more effort or better willpower, I show you how to change the system you’re operating in so your brain, energy, and motivation start working with you again.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
- Why pushing harder and “gritting it out” often makes overwhelm worse
- The neuroscience behind why you feel scattered, reactive, and drained under pressure
- The three key shifts that restore control: regulation before optimization, capacity before productivity, and agency before execution
- How each pillar of the Thrive Model reduces overwhelm and builds sustainable high performance
- A simple, practical way to start applying the model right away — even if you feel like you have no time
If you’re tired of just getting through your days and want to feel clear, capable, and in control again, this episode will help you understand what’s really happening in your brain — and what to do about it.
For a summary of the Thrive Model and a self-check to help you apply it in your own life, visit Invictus.coach/resources.
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