To the outside world, it looked like I just up and quit my job of 11 years on a whim. “Wow, you’re so lucky!” “I wish I could do that, but…” Nah, motherlover—this wasn’t random.

In this unapologetic episode of Sundays in the Shadows, I pull back the curtain on what it really took to leave the restaurant industry after over a decade. We’re talking years of shadow work, emotional prep, financial discipline, support systems, and yes—fuck ups. So if you’re sitting there dreaming of your own leap but thinking you can just jump without a plan, this one’s for you.

Inside this episode:
🔥 Why “fuck it, I’m out” moments are rarely spontaneous
🔥 How the pandemic sparked my escape plan
🔥 The shadow work (and self-sabotage) that almost kept me stuck
🔥 The difference between leaping from emotion vs. intention
🔥 4 no-BS tips to prep your OWN leap

If you’re asking yourself, Who would I be without this job, this identity, this paycheck?—you’re already on the right path. Let’s break it all the way down.

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You gave them your time. Your energy. Your talent. Hell, you gave them over a decade of your life. So what happens when you finally walk away?

In this raw, funny, and unapologetic episode of Sundays in the Shadows, I take you behind the scenes of my own identity crisis after quitting the job I crushed for nearly 12 years. No title, no routine, no constant chaos to manage—just me, myself, and a whole lot of freedom (and honestly, confusion).

Inside this episode, we dive into:
🔥 The surprising mindfuck of leaving a job that defined you
🔥 Why your old self doesn’t have to die when you walk away
🔥 How to channel your gifts into something that actually feeds your soul
🔥 The truth about people getting pissed when you tell your story
🔥 Why you should let your shitty job pay for your transformation before you go

If you’ve ever wondered, Who am I if I’m not that person anymore?—this one’s for you.

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In this episode of Sundays in the Shadows, we’re getting personal. What do you do when the job that once brought you purpose, pride, and connection slowly becomes the source of frustration, resentment, and exhaustion? Today, I’m pulling back the curtain on my own experience working over a decade in the same restaurant—how it shaped me, when the love started to fade, and how I’m navigating the decision to finally walk away. If you’re stuck in a role you’ve outgrown but feel guilty or scared to leave, this one’s for you.

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From the playground to the boardroom, we’re taught that being chosen means you’re valuable—and being overlooked means you’re not. But what if everything you’ve believed about rejection is a lie?

In this raw, unfiltered episode of Sundays in the Shadows, I’m diving into the pain of not being chosen—whether it’s in love, work, friendships, or business. I’m sharing the brutal truths of being the secret instead of the priority, chasing people who didn’t value me, and feeling like a failure when my coaching business flopped. But here’s the twist: Rejection isn’t a reflection of your worth—it’s a mirror of their fear, their comfort zone, or their lack of vision.

🔥 Why rejection triggers old wounds—and how to heal them
🔥 How not being chosen saved me from commitments I didn’t actually want
🔥 The truth about why people don’t choose you (it’s not about you)
🔥 How to reframe rejection as protection and redirection
🔥 A powerful mindset shift: “Their choice doesn’t decide my value.”

If you’ve ever felt like you weren’t good enough, this episode will remind you that not being chosen isn’t a curse—it’s a blessing in disguise.

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comparison, rejection, self-worth, personal growth, relationships, life lessons, coaching, self-improvement, overcoming obstacles, emotional healing

Let’s get real—hype feels good. Recognition feels damn good. But what happens when the likes fade, the shares stop, and the crowd goes silent? Do you stop too?

In this episode of Sundays in the Shadows, I’m talking about that invisible moment on the growth journey—when you’re still showing up but it feels like no one’s watching. I’ll share how I went from craving claps to clapping for my damn self. From launching a coaching business that fell apart, to racking up 72 five-star reviews on the job while working fewer hours than anyone else in the company—I’ve seen what happens when you choose your vision over their validation.

If you’ve ever felt unseen, underappreciated, or like your progress doesn’t matter unless it’s praised—this one’s for you.

In this episode, you'll learn:
🔥 How to spot the sneaky ways your shadow craves validation
🔥 3 soul-check questions to reignite your WHY
🔥 A behind-the-scenes look at the birth of Unforgettable Hospitality
🔥 4 powerful steps to stay lit when the crowd goes quiet

Whether you're moving in silence or questioning your impact, this episode will remind you: you don’t need applause to make noise.

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Self-worth Internal validation Shadow work Growth journey Burnout prevention

You finally get the win. The opportunity lands. The dream starts to unfold. And then—bam!—panic. Your shadow starts whispering: “What if I can’t deliver?” “What if I mess it all up?” “What if I don’t really deserve this?”

In this raw and real episode of Sundays in the Shadows, we’re unpacking what most people won’t admit—success can be just as triggering as failure. I’m sharing the story of how I spiraled after launching my first coaching biz, how fear almost made me quit this podcast, and why even your biggest wins can bring up your deepest wounds.

Inside this episode:
🔥 Why self-sabotage shows up when shit starts going right
🔥 3 toxic beliefs that kill momentum (even after you “succeed”)
🔥 How to stop downplaying your wins and start owning your power
🔥 4 grounding tools to stay focused, hyped, and present when you’re winning
🔥 A weekly reflection prompt to help you stop running from success

If you’ve ever been scared of your own greatness, this one’s for you.

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• Fear of success Self-sabotage Shadow work Imposter syndrome Personal development Nervous system regulation Mindset coaching Entrepreneur journey Growth mindset Owning your power

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You finally take the leap—start that project, business, or dream—and then... you stop. Motivation fades, doubt creeps in, and suddenly you’re back at square one. Sound familiar? You’re not alone.

In this episode of Sundays in the Shadows, I get raw and personal about the times I almost quit—on my podcast, my coaching business, and on myself. We’re unpacking the real reasons we stop after we start, the shadow beliefs that sabotage our progress, and how to turn motivation into real momentum so you can keep going when shit gets hard.

You’ll learn:
🔥 What resistance really means (hint: it’s not a red flag—it’s a sign you’re growing)
🔥 3 hidden beliefs that secretly kill your progress
🔥 Why your past doesn’t define your potential
🔥 3 powerful action steps to rebuild momentum—even after you’ve stopped
🔥 A weekly reflection prompt to help you rewrite your story

If you've ever quit on something you cared about and wondered if it’s too late to start again—this one’s for you.

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Self-sabotage, Fear of failure, Quitting patterns, Shadow beliefs Personal growth, Motivation vs. momentum, Perfectionism Inner work ,Mindset shifts Tony Robbins

You’ve got the idea, the dream, the vision—but you never actually start. You hype yourself up, maybe even buy the supplies, and then… nothing. You convince yourself you need more time, more skills, more confidence. Sound familiar?

In this episode of Sundays in the Shadows, we’re diving into why we don’t start—where this fear comes from, how it’s tied to old wounds, and what we can do to finally break free from this self-sabotaging cycle. I’m even sharing a personal story about how getting in trouble just for being good at something planted a belief that kept me playing small for years.

We’ll cover:
🔥 The 3 biggest reasons we never start (and how they show up in sneaky ways)
🔥 My own battle with perfectionism, fear of failure, and subconscious conditioning
🔥 The truth about success—done is better than perfect
🔥 3 actionable steps to get out of your own way and finally take action

If you’ve been waiting for a sign to start that project, that business, that creative pursuit—this is it. Press play and let’s go.

Chapters

00:00 The Fear of Starting: An Introduction

02:59 Understanding the Barriers to Action

05:35 The Impact of Perfectionism

07:56 Subconscious Conditioning and Its Effects

09:51 Strategies to Overcome Fear and Take Action

11:37 Change Shit 3.mp3

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Keywords

fear of starting, fear of failure, perfectionism, subconscious conditioning, taking action, self-sabotage, creative projects, personal growth, overcoming fear, motivation, shadow work