In this episode of Sisters in Law of Attraction, Sam and Christine continue their PIVOT series by diving into the “V”: Value Yourself.

After exploring Purpose and Innovate in earlier episodes, this conversation turns inward to something foundational and often misunderstood: self-worth. What does it really mean to value yourself when the world is constantly measuring success through accolades, productivity, and external validation?

Sam and Christine unpack the difference between self-worth and self-esteem, and why confusing the two can keep us stuck chasing approval instead of living authentically. Self-esteem, they explain, is often tied to outcomes, praise, and achievements. Self-worth, on the other hand, is intrinsic. It exists regardless of wins, losses, or public failures.

Through personal stories, including parenting moments, public setbacks, and everyday examples, they explore how early messages about achievement can shape how we measure ourselves. Christine shares a powerful story about her daughters and the realization that plaques, points, and recognition never define a person’s true value. Sam reflects on running for office, losing publicly, and what it taught her about ego, resilience, and the freedom that comes from knowing who you are beyond the result.

This episode also touches on the idea of “being” versus “doing,” and why valuing yourself starts with understanding who you are when everything external is stripped away. Sam introduces reflective questions designed to help listeners build self-understanding, challenge internal narratives, and reconnect with their inherent worth. Christine adds insight on self-reflection, perception, and the importance of honest inner work without shame or excuses.

Together, they emphasize that valuing yourself is not about arrogance, perfection, or constant positivity. It is about showing up with joy, gratitude, and authenticity. It is about trying big things, failing sometimes, and still knowing you matter. And it is about being the light, not just for yourself, but for others who are watching and wondering if they are allowed to take the leap too.

If you’ve ever tied your worth to outcomes, felt discouraged by failure, or struggled to believe you are enough as you are, this episode is a reminder that your value is not negotiable. It is already there.

Next up in the PIVOT series: the “O” for Opportunity, where Sam and Christine explore how valuing yourself opens the door to new chances, people, and paths you may not have seen before.

Thanks for listening, and as always, remember to love yourself.

In this episode of Sisters-in-Law of Attraction, Sam and Christine dive into the “I” in the PIVOT method: Innovate. This conversation explores creativity, reinvention, and giving yourself permission to imagine what is next during life transitions like career changes, motherhood, and empty nesting.

They explain why innovation is not reserved for “creative people,” how quiet space fuels new ideas, and how to mute the inner critic so you can build a new version of yourself. If you have ever felt stuck in an identity that no longer fits, this session is an invitation to dream bigger, think differently, and choose again.

What We Cover

• Why innovation starts with awareness rather than talent

• How white space such as walks or stillness fuels creativity

• The neuroscience behind creative thinking and how different brain networks work together

• Divergent thinking compared with convergent thinking

• Letting go of old identities and imagining who you get to be next

• Creativity as a tool for change during transitions like motherhood or empty nesting

• Silencing the critical inner voice that blocks new ideas

• Why your purpose is a guidepost and not a fixed destination

• Choosing curiosity and excitement over fear during change

Key Takeaways

• Creativity is a practice, not a personality trait

• Innovation requires space, stillness, and intention

• You do not need to be realistic when imagining your future because you are creating it

• Fear during transitions is normal, and it does not get to drive your decisions

• Your identity can and should evolve over time

• If one pivot does not work, you are allowed to pivot again

Memorable Quotes

• “Innovation does not have to be rooted in reality because you are creating reality.”

• “Who am I now and who do I want to be?”

• “Just because it was, does not mean it has to continue to be.”

• “If your pivot is not working, pivot again.”

Resources Mentioned

• You Are a Badass by Jen Sincero

• The idea of the default mode network and creative thinking

• Gabby Bernstein’s phrase ‘choose again’

If nothing was off limits, who would you allow yourself to become next?

In the next episode, Sam and Christine explore the “V” in PIVOT, Value, and why valuing yourself is an important step before stepping into new opportunities.

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The “P” in Pivot

In this episode of Sisters-in-Law of Attraction, Sam and Christine continue exploring the Pivot Method by focusing on its foundation: P for Purpose.

As life changes and new seasons unfold, our sense of purpose evolves with us. From parenting teenagers and approaching the empty nest, to career changes, relocations, and personal reinvention, this conversation explores how purpose is not something you find once and lock in forever. It is something you build, revisit, and redefine over time.

Sam and Christine reflect on why purpose is not a dramatic light-bulb moment, but a slow and meaningful process shaped by experience, curiosity, and self-awareness. They discuss people-pleasing tendencies, the pressure to make others happy, and what happens when you finally unshackle yourself from that responsibility and focus on showing up as your best self.

You will hear insights on:

• Why purpose shifts with different seasons of life

• How valuing yourself positively impacts everyone around you

• Why playing it emotionally safe can keep you stuck

• How opportunity requires action and about 20 seconds of courage

• How to recognize clues to your purpose through energy, excitement, and flow

• The difference between passion, purpose, and how you earn a living

Sam references research and commentary from Psychology Today on how purpose develops over time, along with ideas from Scott Galloway’s The Algebra of Happiness, including the counterintuitive perspective that fulfillment often comes from getting good at something rather than chasing passion alone.

This episode is for anyone who feels restless, uncertain, or quietly asking themselves, “Is this all there is?” Whether you are navigating parenthood, career dissatisfaction, or a major life transition, this conversation offers reassurance, practical perspective, and permission to evolve.

Purpose is not fixed.

You are not behind.

You are allowed to change.