In this week's episode, Jae brings on Pastor Freddie Cole Sr for a conversation about un-forgiveness and the crucial role forgiveness plays in moving forward in life. Many times in life when we hold on to un-forgiveness, we become bitter, and it will also affect our relationships with those surrounding us. Forgiveness is compassion and one of the things required to grow intimately in Christ. There are consequences of holding onto un-forgiveness. In exploring the emotional, physical, and relational consequences of harboring un-forgiveness, emphasizing the transformative power of forgiveness and love, we shine light on Christ being the mirror example of what true Forgiveness is.

Takeaways

• Forgiveness is a choice
• Un-forgiveness leads to bitterness and hurt
• Love and forgiveness go hand in hand Forgiveness is essential for true freedom
• Un-forgiveness affects relationships and physical health

Chapters

• 00:00 The Consequences of Un-forgiveness
• 44:06 Consequences of Un-forgiveness

Verse to reflect on:

Matthew 6:14-15

"If you forgive those who sin against you, your heavenly Father will forgive you. But if you refuse to forgive others, your Father will not forgive your sins."

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In this episode of Purposely Crossed, Jae speaks on the revelation God gave of isolation, spiritual growth, and the purpose of coming out of isolation. It delves into the notion that isolation is not meant to be permanent, but is significantly important for the building of character traits of Christ. Jae use's her testimony of her weight loss journey and how God guided her to the knowledge of "dead weight" keeping you from the places you're actually destined for. While isolation is in fact necessary for preparation, there must be actual moves made in order to fulfill the defeat of Goliath, in whatever way he appears in our lives. In conclusion, this conversation emphasizes the work of God and the need to come out of isolation to fulfill that work.

Takeaways

• Isolation is not meant to be permanent
• Every person must receive opportunity of Christ
• The purpose of isolation is to build character traits of Christ

Some Key Verses to study:

• Matthew 5:16
• Mark 4
• John 8:12

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This conversation is part 2 of "Trusting God's plans". Balancing life, parenthood, marriage, and ministry, can be a struggle, but requires an active prayer life. Trauma and stress, often impacts the love, affection, and communication in marriage when you don't have the proper strategy of healing. The Holy Spirit is our greatest support in maneuvering through life's challenges. Grace is highlighted in rediscovering one's self in relationships, and works with loving others as Christ loves, and seeing other's as Christ's creation. In this walk of faith, it is important too remember that God uses every detail in life in his planned Will. Every single thing happens for a reason, guided by God's plan and purpose in life.

Takeaways

• Balancing life and ministry can be challenging, requiring prioritization and effective time management.
• Prayer plays a significant role in marriage, fostering a deeper understanding of each other's needs and desires.
• The impact of trauma and stress on individuals and relationships underscores the importance of communication and support.
• Struggles and support during a difficult time Emotional turmoil and anger towards God.
• Divine revelation often requires obedience and acceptance of God's plan.
• Spiritual vulnerability can be experienced in unexpected and challenging situations, leading to a deeper recognition of divine intervention and learning the voice of the Holy Spirit.

Chapters

• 00:00 Introducing Bae
• 01:04:02 Praying for Each Other
• 01:10:09 Love Languages and Affection
• 01:15:58 Understanding Love Languages
• 01:26:21 The Impact of Trauma and Stress
• 01:35:18 Struggles, support, and challenges.
• 01:53:55 Self-Discovery and Acceptance
• 02:05:00 Divine Revelation and Obedience
• 02:11:53 House Break-In and Spiritual Reflection
• 02:22:52 The Voice of the Holy Spirit
• 02:29:01 Purposeful Cross

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In this weeks conversation, Jae welcomes a very special guest, Bruce. Their conversation covers their first meeting, early interactions, the start of their relationship. They provide insight into the development of their relationship and the key moments that shaped their journey together. It then delves into their realization of conviction in their relationship, leading to an exploration of transparency, and bargaining with God. It explores the perspectives of both individuals on marriage and the role of faith in their journey. This conversation will highlight the impact of faith and patience during difficult times and the role of faith in overcoming challenges.

Takeaways

• The start of their relationship
• The power of prayer and specific requests Trusting God's plan
• Conviction and obedience
• Faith and Patience in Challenging Times

Chapters

• 00:00 First Meeting and Early Interactions
• 05:01 The Start of Their Relationship
• 13:03 The First Date and Initial Impressions
• 18:04 Prayer and Answered Prayers: Specific Requests and Unique Qualities
• 27:58 Transparency and Conviction: Fornication and Bargaining with God
• 33:26 God's Hand in It
• 41:59 Perspectives on Marriage

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The conversation delves into the importance of obedience as an act of love and trust in God, highlighting the consequences of delayed obedience and the impact of disobedience on relationships, rejection, and the kingdom of God. It emphasizes the significance of obedience over sacrifice and the transformation it brings, encouraging listeners to walk in obedience with an understanding of its impact on others.

Takeaways

• Obedience is a demonstration of love and trust in God
• Delayed obedience is disobedience with consequences

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The conversation delves into the experience of grief as a pruning process, highlighting the trust in God through grief and the transition to the next assignment. It explores the emotional journey of grief, the spiritual significance of pruning, and the transformative impact of trusting God through the process.

Takeaways

• Grief as a Pruning Process
• Trusting God Through Grief

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The conversation delves into the birth of 'Purposely Crossed' and its significance, the impact of betrayal, the experience of grief and rebellion, the reminder of the crucifixion, the meaning of 'Purposely Crossed', the purpose of persecution, and Joseph's story of being crossed to save. The key takeaways emphasize the purpose behind persecution and crucifixion.

Takeaways

Persecution happens for a purpose

Crucifixion happens for a purpose

Chapters

00:00 The Birth of Purposely Crossed

07:13 The Reminder of the Crucifixion

17:36 Joseph's Story: Being Crossed to Save

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