In this week's episode, Jae brings on Pastor Freddie Cole Sr for a conversation about un-forgiveness and the crucial role forgiveness plays in moving forward in life. Many times in life when we hold on to un-forgiveness, we become bitter, and it will also affect our relationships with those surrounding us. Forgiveness is compassion and one of the things required to grow intimately in Christ. There are consequences of holding onto un-forgiveness. In exploring the emotional, physical, and relational consequences of harboring un-forgiveness, emphasizing the transformative power of forgiveness and love, we shine light on Christ being the mirror example of what true Forgiveness is.

Takeaways

• Forgiveness is a choice
• Un-forgiveness leads to bitterness and hurt
• Love and forgiveness go hand in hand Forgiveness is essential for true freedom
• Un-forgiveness affects relationships and physical health

Chapters

• 00:00 The Consequences of Un-forgiveness
• 44:06 Consequences of Un-forgiveness

Verse to reflect on:

Matthew 6:14-15

"If you forgive those who sin against you, your heavenly Father will forgive you. But if you refuse to forgive others, your Father will not forgive your sins."

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In this episode of Purposely Crossed, Jae speaks on the revelation God gave of isolation, spiritual growth, and the purpose of coming out of isolation. It delves into the notion that isolation is not meant to be permanent, but is significantly important for the building of character traits of Christ. Jae use's her testimony of her weight loss journey and how God guided her to the knowledge of "dead weight" keeping you from the places you're actually destined for. While isolation is in fact necessary for preparation, there must be actual moves made in order to fulfill the defeat of Goliath, in whatever way he appears in our lives. In conclusion, this conversation emphasizes the work of God and the need to come out of isolation to fulfill that work.

Takeaways

• Isolation is not meant to be permanent
• Every person must receive opportunity of Christ
• The purpose of isolation is to build character traits of Christ

Some Key Verses to study:

• Matthew 5:16
• Mark 4
• John 8:12

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This conversation is part 2 of "Trusting God's plans". Balancing life, parenthood, marriage, and ministry, can be a struggle, but requires an active prayer life. Trauma and stress, often impacts the love, affection, and communication in marriage when you don't have the proper strategy of healing. The Holy Spirit is our greatest support in maneuvering through life's challenges. Grace is highlighted in rediscovering one's self in relationships, and works with loving others as Christ loves, and seeing other's as Christ's creation. In this walk of faith, it is important too remember that God uses every detail in life in his planned Will. Every single thing happens for a reason, guided by God's plan and purpose in life.

Takeaways

• Balancing life and ministry can be challenging, requiring prioritization and effective time management.
• Prayer plays a significant role in marriage, fostering a deeper understanding of each other's needs and desires.
• The impact of trauma and stress on individuals and relationships underscores the importance of communication and support.
• Struggles and support during a difficult time Emotional turmoil and anger towards God.
• Divine revelation often requires obedience and acceptance of God's plan.
• Spiritual vulnerability can be experienced in unexpected and challenging situations, leading to a deeper recognition of divine intervention and learning the voice of the Holy Spirit.

Chapters

• 00:00 Introducing Bae
• 01:04:02 Praying for Each Other
• 01:10:09 Love Languages and Affection
• 01:15:58 Understanding Love Languages
• 01:26:21 The Impact of Trauma and Stress
• 01:35:18 Struggles, support, and challenges.
• 01:53:55 Self-Discovery and Acceptance
• 02:05:00 Divine Revelation and Obedience
• 02:11:53 House Break-In and Spiritual Reflection
• 02:22:52 The Voice of the Holy Spirit
• 02:29:01 Purposeful Cross

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