It’s our five year anniversary, so naturally we decided to put each other on the spot.

Dara and Rara go head to head in a kink knowledge quiz to see what actually stuck after half a decade behind the mic. Expect laughs, a few surprises, and plenty of moments where you can shout your answers right from your car.

Play along and see how you do. Five years in, and we couldn’t have done it without you.

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People love to say how many years they’ve been in kink like it proves something. But time alone doesn’t create skill, knowledge, or care. In this episode, we talk about what real experience actually looks like, why growth matters more than longevity, and how to tell the difference between someone who’s just been around and someone who’s truly done the work.

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Ever sent a message that started with “hey” and then got silence?

This episode breaks down why first messages matter so much in dating and kink spaces, and how a few careless words can quietly kill connection before it starts. We talk about the common mistakes people make, why they happen, and what actually gets conversations moving.

If you’ve ever wondered why messages go unanswered, or you want your next DM to land better, this one’s worth a listen.

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For some people, impact play has a surprising effect on the nervous system, shifting the body out of constant alert and into something calmer and more present. This episode explores why that happens, how intentional sensation can change the way anxiety shows up in the body, and what makes the difference between something that soothes and something that overwhelms.

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Finding a good Dominant isn’t about rushing into a dynamic or ignoring red flags because you want to submit. In this episode, we talk about why self-understanding matters, how desire can cloud judgment, and what core qualities actually make someone a safe, ethical Dominant.

We discuss meeting people in the kink community, recognizing predators, using negotiation as a compatibility test, and why it’s okay if finding the right Dominant takes time. A practical, grounded conversation about consent, safety, and choosing power exchange that supports your well-being.

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This week, Dara and Rara are swapping notes from the road.

From packed classrooms to late-night conversations, they talk about the conferences they attended, the classes they taught, and the moments that stuck with them long after the events ended. It’s part behind-the-scenes, part honest reflection on what teaching and learning in kink actually looks like, and part “wow, I didn’t expect that about myself.”

If you’re curious about what really happens at kink conferences, how educators grow through the work they do, and why stepping into new spaces can change you, this episode is for you. Grab your favorite drink and come hang out with us.

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We’re talking about the things no one told us when we first joined the kink scene. The good, the complicated, and the stuff you usually only learn the hard way. From community and safety to frenzy, vetting, identity, and self-advocacy, this episode breaks down what we wish we had known so you can move through kink with more confidence and a lot less guesswork.

Whether you’re brand new or realizing you learned some things sideways, this one’s worth a listen.

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This episode is our annual reality check. We’re looking back at last year’s New Year’s resolutions, being honest about what stuck, what didn’t, and what we maybe wildly overestimated. Some goals turned into real growth. Others turned into lessons. And yes, there was a little humble pie involved.

Then we talk about how we’re approaching the year ahead. Not with pressure or perfection, but with intention, flexibility, and a better understanding of who we actually are in kink and life.

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