What happens when ADHD and power exchange collide? When a submissive struggles to complete a task, is it disobedience or executive dysfunction? And what happens when the Dominant is the one struggling?

This week, I'm joined by sex educator, author, and ADHD advocate Catieosaurus to talk about how ADHD affects rules, protocols, accountability, and communication in power exchange relationships. We also explore rejection sensitivity, sensory experiences, and how to create dynamics that work for both partners.

There's plenty of laughter, a few fruit snacks, and a lot to think about!

Find Catieosaurus:

Website: https://catieosaurus.com

Book: The ADHD Field Guide for Adults

Social media: @catieosaurus

Music Credits

Music by Phaedra Marlowe, produced by epiclevelrogue (Joe Dalton).

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A healthy D/s dynamic isn’t built only on rules, protocols, rituals, or great scenes. Those things can make the relationship feel distinctly kinky, but they aren’t what keeps two people connected over the long haul.

In this episode, I’m talking about the small, everyday habits that help a dynamic stay strong: making room for communication before there’s a crisis, following through on what you agree to, continuing to notice and appreciate each other, repairing the little hurts, and remembering that underneath the power exchange, this is still a relationship.

If you want to take the conversation a little further, the Small Habits, Stronger Dynamic workbook is available in the Pink Kink Etsy shop.

Music by Phaedra Marlowe, produced by epiclevelrogue (Joe Dalton).

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You finally get to try the thing you’ve been fantasizing about forever...and your brain goes, “Oh. Absolutely not.”

This episode is about that awkward little gap between fantasy and reality, what it feels like when something you were sure you wanted turns into a limit, and why that does not mean you failed at kink.

Sometimes the fantasy is great exactly where it is: in your head.

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