Most high achievers believe being hard on themselves is what keeps them sharp.

The research disagrees.

People with higher self-compassion show greater motivation after failure, not less. And they procrastinate significantly less.

New episode of the Playing-It-Safe Podcast: why the second arrow might be the thing most keeping you stuck.

What would you do this week if you weren't playing-it-safe?

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STOP LETTING ANXIETY MAKE YOUR DECISIONS

WHO AM I?

My name is Patricia E. Zurita Ona, but my clients call me Dr. Z.

I’m a psychologist, a passionate behaviorist, and a person that loves to make behavioral science accessible for day-to-day life. I specialize in Acceptance and Commitment skills (ACT), a form of Cognitive Behavior Therapy (CBT).

I have significant experience – over 18 years – working with individuals dealing with anxiety-based struggles such as perfectionism, procrastination, chronic indecision, phobias, OCD, panic, worry, and any other anxiety-related difficulties.

I've published books on ACT, given a TEDx talk with 260K+ views, founded East Bay Behavior Therapy Center, and spent two decades proving one thing: Your anxiety doesn't need fixing. It needs listening to. Because most of the time, anxiety is just trying to keep you safe, the problem is when "safe" becomes "stuck." And once you know the difference, everything changes.

My website is packed with resources, courses and content that will help you break free from those "playing-it-safe" moves and make the most out of your life!

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External achievements account for only about 10% of lasting happiness.

The 40% within your control? How you spend your time and what meaning you attach to it.

New episode of the Playing-It-Safe Podcast: the research on values, meaning, and the birthday party exercise that shows you exactly where the gap is.

What would you do this week if you weren't playing-it-safe?

_______

STOP LETTING ANXIETY MAKE YOUR DECISIONS

WHO AM I?

My name is Patricia E. Zurita Ona, but my clients call me Dr. Z.

I’m a psychologist, a passionate behaviorist, and a person that loves to make behavioral science accessible for day-to-day life. I specialize in Acceptance and Commitment skills (ACT), a form of Cognitive Behavior Therapy (CBT).

I have significant experience – over 18 years – working with individuals dealing with anxiety-based struggles such as perfectionism, procrastination, chronic indecision, phobias, OCD, panic, worry, and any other anxiety-related difficulties.

I've published books on ACT, given a TEDx talk with 260K+ views, founded East Bay Behavior Therapy Center, and spent two decades proving one thing: Your anxiety doesn't need fixing. It needs listening to. Because most of the time, anxiety is just trying to keep you safe, the problem is when "safe" becomes "stuck." And once you know the difference, everything changes.

My website is packed with resources, courses and content that will help you break free from those "playing-it-safe" moves and make the most out of your life!

GET ACT SKILLS IN YOUR INBOX:

Sign up to my newsletter to get actionable skills into your inbox! https://www.thisisdoctorz.com/playing-it-safe-newsletter/

HERE IS WHERE TO START:

1. TAKE THE PLAYING-IT-SAFE QUESTIONNAIRE: https://www.thisisdoctorz.com/playing-it-safe-questionnaire/

2. ONLINE COURSES: https://courses.thisisdoctorz.com/

3. PODCAST: https://www.thisisdoctorz.com/playing-it-safe-podcast/

4. BOOKS: https://www.thisisdoctorz.com/books/

5. BLOG: https://www.thisisdoctorz.com/playing-it-safe-blog/

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Your mind isn't lazy!

Researchers found that people who chronically procrastinate are more threat-sensitive. Not less motivated.

What would you do this week if you weren't playing it safe?

RESOURCES:

Values-based Review: Life Audit

_______

STOP LETTING ANXIETY MAKE YOUR DECISIONS

WHO AM I?

My name is Patricia E. Zurita Ona, but my clients call me Dr. Z.

I’m a psychologist, a passionate behaviorist, and a person that loves to make behavioral science accessible for day-to-day life. I specialize in Acceptance and Commitment skills (ACT), a form of Cognitive Behavior Therapy (CBT).

I have significant experience – over 18 years – working with individuals dealing with anxiety-based struggles such as perfectionism, procrastination, chronic indecision, phobias, OCD, panic, worry, and any other anxiety-related difficulties.

I've published books on ACT, given a TEDx talk with 260K+ views, founded East Bay Behavior Therapy Center, and spent two decades proving one thing: Your anxiety doesn't need fixing. It needs listening to. Because most of the time, anxiety is just trying to keep you safe, the problem is when "safe" becomes "stuck." And once you know the difference, everything changes.

My website is packed with resources, courses and content that will help you break free from those "playing-it-safe" moves and make the most out of your life!

GET ACT SKILLS IN YOUR INBOX:

Sign up to my newsletter to get actionable skills into your inbox! https://www.thisisdoctorz.com/playing-it-safe-newsletter/

HERE IS WHERE TO START:

1. TAKE THE PLAYING-IT-SAFE QUESTIONNAIRE: https://www.thisisdoctorz.com/playing-it-safe-questionnaire/

2. ONLINE COURSES: https://courses.thisisdoctorz.com/

3. PODCAST: https://www.thisisdoctorz.com/playing-it-safe-podcast/

4. BOOKS: https://www.thisisdoctorz.com/books/

5. BLOG: https://www.thisisdoctorz.com/playing-it-safe-blog/

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.