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What if losing is the skill your child needs most? In this video, we dig into martial arts mindset, resilience, and how learning to lose actually builds confidence that lasts a lifetime. If your child struggles after tough sparring matches or setbacks, this one’s for you.
👉 What you’ll learn:
• Why losing builds resilience, grit, and perspective
• How to talk to your child after a hard match
• What not to say when emotions run high
• The questions that help kids take ownership
• How athletes bounce back stronger after failure
🎥 Watch next: Martial Arts Mindset and Confidence → https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLNG9pziJ_TmsBwBNbodowNFbT_XOouiUj&si=g944N1Wk31VALgQY
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⏱️ Timecodes
00:00 Why losing matters
00:20 Parents wanting to protect
00:45 Growth through challenge
01:05 Let kids feel the loss
01:30 Ask questions, not answers
01:55 Recovering builds confidence
02:10 Feedback and small goals
02:35 Stories of young athletes
02:55 Free community invite
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We help parents and martial artists raise strong kids through martial arts and mindset. Our mission is to share lessons on confidence, discipline, and character that last a lifetime — on and off the mats.
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Every athlete wants to be great… but very few are willing to feel uncomfortable long enough to actually get there. In this video, Josh breaks down the mindset shift that separates average athletes from high performers — and how parents can coach their kids to lean into discomfort instead of running from it.

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👉 What you’ll learn:
• Why comfort is the biggest trap in training
• The mindset elite athletes use to chase discomfort
• How to reframe hard drills and tough feedback
• Simple ways parents can help kids push through challenge
• The real reason tolerance, not talent, builds champions

🎥 Watch next: Martial Arts Mindset and Confidence → https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLNG9pziJ_TmsBwBNbodowNFbT_XOouiUj&si=g944N1Wk31VALgQY

⏱️ Timecodes
00:00 Comfort vs growth mindset
00:36 The gap between talent and challenge
01:20 Why discomfort is the entry fee
02:00 Hard drills and chasing the burn
02:48 Choosing tougher partners
03:20 Asking for honest feedback
04:10 Tolerance builds champions
04:40 Challenge for parents and athletes
05:18 Join the free community

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📌 About Off The Mat Podcast
We help parents and martial artists raise strong kids through martial arts and mindset. Our mission is to share lessons on confidence, discipline, and character that last a lifetime—on and off the mats.

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Email → championtkd15@gmail.com

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Parents say their kids can’t focus or get motivated for martial arts class... but it’s not about discipline—it’s about preparation. This one-hour tweak before training builds focus, confidence, and connection.
👉 Don’t miss out — Subscribe to our YouTube channel for weekly videos on martial arts, parenting, and raising strong kids: https://www.youtube.com/@offthematpodcast
👉 What you’ll learn:
• The hidden cost of screen time before class
• A simple one-hour ritual that builds focus and calm
• How to turn pre-class time into bonding time
• Why unplugging sharpens both body and mind
• The secret to helping kids love training again
🎥 Watch next: For Parents: Raising Strong Kids in Martial Arts → https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLNG9pziJ_TmtPAIOJr9RLanf-ALPJ_Wrr&si=mQIhTB2roAbrp3nF
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⏱️ Timecodes
00:00 The Focus Problem Most Parents Miss
00:25 The One-Hour Rule Before Class
00:55 Why Screens Kill Focus and Energy
01:30 The Power of Preparation
02:00 How to Connect Before Training
02:25 The Secret to Sharper Martial Arts Focus
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📌 About Off The Mat Podcast
We help parents and martial artists raise strong kids through martial arts and mindset. Our mission is to share lessons on confidence, discipline, and character that last a lifetime—on and off the mats.
👉 Subscribe now and join our community of parents, athletes, and coaches building stronger kids through martial arts.
STAY CONNECTED WITH US
Website → https://www.championtkd.ca
Josh’s Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/josh.dumoulin/
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Email → championtkd15@gmail.com

STAY CONNECTED WITH US
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Getting your kid to martial arts shouldn’t feel like a daily battle. In this video I give 5 real parent tips (schedule, mindset, rituals, language, encouragement) to help you build consistency, reduce whining, and protect their love for training. This is all about martial arts mindset, confidence, and routine… without the power struggle.

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👉 What you’ll learn:
• How to build a consistent training schedule so class stops feeling optional
• The “snack and pack” system I use so we’re not scrambling and hangry in the car
• A simple language shift that makes class feel like a privilege, not a chore
• Why a pre-class ritual (not video games) can flip their mood fast
• How to use encouragement instead of pressure to get them out the door
• What to do if your child “doesn’t feel like going” but you know they love it

🎥 Watch next: For Parents: Raising Strong Kids in Martial Arts → https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLNG9pziJ_TmtPAIOJr9RLanf-ALPJ_Wrr&si=mQIhTB2roAbrp3nF

⏱️ Timecodes
00:00 The daily battle to get them to class
01:39 Tip 1: Set the schedule (and stick to it)
03:03 Tip 2: Be prepared (snacks & gear ready)
04:11 Tip 3: Change the language you use
05:52 Tip 4: Create a pre-class ritual
07:36 Tip 5: Use encouragement, not pressure
08:46 Start with one win, build consistency
10:17 Your invite to our private parent community

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📌 About Off The Mat Podcast
We help parents and martial artists raise strong kids through martial arts and mindset. Our mission is to share lessons on confidence, discipline, and character that last a lifetime — on and off the mats.

STAY CONNECTED WITH US
Website → https://www.championtkd.ca
Josh’s Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/josh.dumoulin/
Nicole’s Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/nicole99kicks/
Email → championtkd15@gmail.com

STAY CONNECTED WITH US
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Josh's Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/josh.dumoulin/
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Your child’s inner critic is loud. Let’s train it to coach, not crush. In this episode we share five practical tools parents can use to help kids 6–12 build confidence in sparring and class with a strong martial arts mindset… starting today.

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👉 What you’ll learn:
• How to help your child “name the dragon” and lower its threat
• Simple if then plans kids can use when they get flustered
• Tiny wins ledgers that build real confidence, not hype
• A pregame script and postgame debrief any parent can run
• The single word that flips negative self talk into growth: yet
• How to stop the comparison trap and focus on their path

🎥 Watch next: Martial Arts Mindset and Confidence → https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLNG9pziJ_TmsBwBNbodowNFbT_XOouiUj&si=g944N1Wk31VALgQY

📌 About Off The Mat Podcast
We help parents and martial artists raise strong kids through martial arts and mindset. Our mission is to share lessons on confidence, discipline, and character that last a lifetime… on and off the mats.
👉 Subscribe now and join our community of parents, athletes, and coaches building stronger kids through martial arts.

STAY CONNECTED WITH US
Website → https://www.championtkd.ca

Josh’s Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/josh.dumoulin/

Nicole’s Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/nicole99kicks/

Email → championtkd15@gmail.com

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Ever feel stuck in a cycle of excuses, self-sabotage, and “I’ll start tomorrow”? You’re not alone. In this episode, Nicole breaks down her simple 5-step method to beat your own damn excuses—the same mindset she uses in martial arts training and everyday life to stay consistent even when motivation fades.

👉 Don’t miss out — Subscribe to our YouTube channel for weekly videos on martial arts, parenting, and raising strong kids: https://www.youtube.com/@offthematpodcast

👉 What you’ll learn:

• The truth about motivation (and why you don’t need more of it)
• How to catch yourself in the act of self-sabotage
• The power of one tiny aligned action
• Why visualizing success creates real momentum
• How small wins build lasting self-trust

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⏱️ Timecodes
00:00 Be proud you kept your promise
01:18 Why this matters
02:36 One good choice leads to another
03:14 Step 1 – Awareness: Stop and name it
05:12 Step 2 – Ask: What am I protecting myself from?
07:19 Step 3 – Take the smallest aligned action
09:10 Step 4 – Visualize success 5 minutes out
10:42 Step 5 – Celebrate the small wins
12:34 Quick recap of the 5 steps
14:17 Final thoughts: Say no to your excuses

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📌 About Off The Mat Podcast
We help parents and martial artists raise strong kids through martial arts and mindset. Our mission is to share lessons on confidence, discipline, and character that last a lifetime—on and off the mats.

👉 Subscribe now and join our community of parents, athletes, and coaches building stronger kids through martial arts.

STAY CONNECTED WITH US
Website → https://www.championtkd.ca

Josh’s Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/josh.dumoulin/

Nicole’s Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/nicole99kicks/

Email → championtkd15@gmail.com

STAY CONNECTED WITH US
Website | www.championtkd.ca
Josh's Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/josh.dumoulin/
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Struggling to get your kid to practice at home? You’re not alone. In this episode, we give you five practical ways to build the habit, keep it fun, and boost progress fast. Think martial arts mindset meets real parent tips that actually work.

👉 Don’t miss out — Subscribe to our YouTube channel for weekly videos on martial arts, parenting, and raising strong kids: https://www.youtube.com/@offthematpodcast

👉 What you’ll learn:
• How to give kids ownership so they want to train
• The simple “start with why” script that sticks
• Schedule, plan, strategize — the 3-step routine
• Why you should train with them, not at them
• Fun over form: the habit that leads to black belt
• A free at-home training matrix to make it easy

⏱️ Timecodes
00:00 Why training together matters
00:22 Welcome + the big question
01:28 Tip 1: Let them have a say
04:40 Tip 2: Start with why
06:06 Make the vision board visible
07:11 Tip 3: Schedule, plan, strategize
12:28 Put practice on the calendar
14:28 Tip 4: Do it with them, not at them
17:56 Ask their coach’s cues
19:58 Tip 5: Fun over form
22:40 Free Victory Blueprint details
23:43 Rapid recap + subscribe

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📌 About Off The Mat Podcast
We help parents and martial artists raise strong kids through martial arts and mindset. Our mission is to share lessons on confidence, discipline, and character that last a lifetime—on and off the mats.
👉 Subscribe now and join our community of parents, athletes, and coaches building stronger kids through martial arts.

STAY CONNECTED WITH US
Website → https://www.championtkd.ca

Josh’s Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/josh.dumoulin/

Nicole’s Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/nicole99kicks/

Email → championtkd15@gmail.com

STAY CONNECTED WITH US
Website | www.championtkd.ca
Josh's Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/josh.dumoulin/
Nicole's Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/nicole99kicks/
Email | championtkd15@gmail.com

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This one’s for the dads. For parents who want to raise strong boys with martial arts mindset, character, and courage. If I were gone tomorrow… these are the 10 rules I need my sons to live by. Straight talk. Real tools. Parent tips martial arts that stick.

👉 Don’t miss out — Subscribe to our YouTube channel for weekly videos on martial arts, parenting, and raising strong kids: https://www.youtube.com/@offthematpodcast

👉 What you’ll learn:
• The simple discipline routine that builds grit
• How to make integrity non-negotiable at home and on the mats
• Why comfort kills growth… and how to seek challenge
• A practical way to set higher standards for your family
• Work ethic vs talent and how to coach your kid through it
• The “serve first” rule that opens doors in sport and life

🎥 Watch next: For Parents: Raising Strong Kids in Martial Arts → https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLNG9pziJ_TmtPAIOJr9RLanf-ALPJ_Wrr&si=mQIhTB2roAbrp3nF

⏱️ Timecodes
00:00 Cold open: serve first
00:20 Why this message for dads
02:06 Rule 1: Discipline first
02:58 Rule 2: Live with integrity
03:57 Rule 3: Growth over comfort
05:05 Rule 4: Adapt to change
05:40 Rule 5: Set high standards
06:38 Rule 6: Work ethic beats talent
08:10 Rule 7: Serve first
09:11 Rule 8: Be courageous and kind
10:04 Rule 9: Guard your health
10:58 Rule 10: Protect the tribe
12:07 Bonus Rule 11: Always remember to love
13:20 Final challenge to dads

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📌 About Off The Mat Podcast
We help parents and martial artists raise strong kids through martial arts and mindset. Our mission is to share lessons on confidence, discipline, and character that last a lifetime… on and off the mats.
👉 If this helped your family, thank you for subscribing. It truly supports the mission and means a lot.

STAY CONNECTED WITH US
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Email → championtkd15@gmail.com

STAY CONNECTED WITH US
Website | www.championtkd.ca
Josh's Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/josh.dumoulin/
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Email | championtkd15@gmail.com

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