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  • What Does My Husband's Porn Type Say About Me? Healing the Body-Image Wound of Betrayal

    What Does My Husband's Porn Type Say About Me? Healing the Body-Image Wound of Betrayal
    2026/08/17
    For the betrayed partner who saw exactly what kind of porn their husband was watching, and hasn't felt at home in their own body since. Caleb and Verlynda explain why his porn type reflects conditioning rather than a verdict on you, what to do with the impossible comparison, and how to heal the body-image wound of betrayal trauma without carrying his recovery. https://therapevo.com/healing-for-the-betrayed/?utm_source=podcast
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    25 分
  • Meeting the Needs Porn Was Meeting: How to Rebuild Real Connection in Recovery

    Meeting the Needs Porn Was Meeting: How to Rebuild Real Connection in Recovery
    2026/08/17
    If you know why you watch porn but your needs still feel unmet, this episode is the "now what." Caleb and Verlynda walk through how to actually meet the connection, comfort, and validation needs porn was faking, with a concrete roadmap for rebuilding real relationships over time. For the person who's tired of white-knuckling recovery and wants the long game that lasts. https://therapevo.com/porn-addiction/?utm_source=podcast
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    22 分
  • Why Does Porn Escalate? Tolerance, Arousal Templates, and the Way Back Down

    Why Does Porn Escalate? Tolerance, Arousal Templates, and the Way Back Down
    2026/08/10
    If your porn tastes have intensified over time, even into content that disturbs you, this episode explains the mechanism behind the drift: tolerance, novelty, and your arousal template. Certified sex addiction therapist Caleb Simonyi-Gindele unpacks why the gap between what you watch and what you'd want in real life is so common, why the shame compounds, and how the drift can be reversed at the right level of intervention. Free consultation: https://therapevo.com/porn-addiction/?utm_source=podcast
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    28 分
  • Intrusive Images During Sex After Betrayal: How to Stay Present Instead of Powering Through

    Intrusive Images During Sex After Betrayal: How to Stay Present Instead of Powering Through
    2026/08/06
    If trauma images interrupt intimacy since the betrayal, this episode is for you. Verlynda explains why the freeze, lost arousal, and dissociation are your body's protection, and walks through five somatic pacing tools for staying present on your own timeline, plus a direct word for the partner who betrayed. Support from a betrayal trauma specialist: https://therapevo.com/healing-for-the-betrayed/?utm_source=podcast
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    26 分
  • A Relapse Is Not a Reset: Why Counting Days Sets You Up to Binge

    A Relapse Is Not a Reset: Why Counting Days Sets You Up to Binge
    2026/08/03
    If one slip keeps turning into a three-day binge, the problem may not be your willpower. It may be your day counter. This episode is for anyone in porn addiction recovery who has stared at the "reset to Day 0" button: we cover why a relapse cannot erase your brain's progress, the researched reason broken streaks trigger binges, and the three moves that turn a relapse into fuel for more resilient sobriety. https://therapevo.com/porn-addiction/?utm_source=podcast
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    20 分
  • Surviving Infidelity When Your Partner Won't Do the Recovery Work

    Surviving Infidelity When Your Partner Won't Do the Recovery Work
    2026/07/27
    You have waited one year, or three, or seven, and the person who broke your trust still isn't really doing the recovery work. This episode is a discernment framework for the betrayed partner: how to tell real recovery from performed recovery on a calendar, what the research says about kids and high-conflict homes, and how to build the power to choose when finances keep you stuck. Get support at https://therapevo.com/healing-for-the-betrayed/?utm_source=podcast
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    25 分
  • How to Stop Thinking About Porn: The White Bear Effect and Urge Surfing

    How to Stop Thinking About Porn: The White Bear Effect and Urge Surfing
    2026/07/20
    If trying not to think about porn has only made the urges louder, this episode is for you. Caleb, a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist, explains why willpower fails by design, what actually happens in your brain during the 27 minutes an average urge lasts, and the four-move urge surfing skill that works instead. By the end you'll know exactly what to do the next time a wave hits. https://therapevo.com/porn-addiction/?utm_source=podcast
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    27 分
  • The Repair Most Couples Skip: How to Reconnect After a Fight

    The Repair Most Couples Skip: How to Reconnect After a Fight
    2026/07/16
    If your fights technically end but the distance lingers for hours or days, this episode is for you. Caleb and Verlynda unpack why repair, not the absence of conflict, is what actually keeps a marriage close, how to calm a flooded nervous system before you talk, and what a real apology sounds like versus the hollow "you're right, I'm sorry." Start here: https://therapevo.com/couples-counseling/?utm_source=podcast
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    21 分