• Rewiring Your Thoughts With Jesus So You Stop Spiraling in Love
    2025/08/19

    Rewiring Your Thoughts With Jesus So You Stop Spiraling in Love

    You’ve tried journaling, affirmations, and mindset hacks to stop overthinking in love — but somehow you still spiral. I get it. Self-led healing tools are powerful (I still use neuroscience and somatic practices daily), but they can feel exhausting when the whole burden is on your shoulders.

    In this episode of No More Breadcrumbs, I share what happened when I stopped white-knuckling my healing and started partnering with Jesus. You’ll learn:

    ✨ Why self-led healing works but still leaves you striving ✨ What supernatural healing with God looks like (and how fast He can move) ✨ How to practice receiving instead of self-efforting ✨ A simple shift to rewire your thoughts with Jesus at the center — so you can finally feel secure in love

    If you’re ready to go deeper:

    💡 Start with Rewritten — my self-led course that shows you exactly how to reprogram your identity and break free from toxic love patterns. 👉 [Rewritten]

    🤝 Or get on the waitlist for The Healing Room Live Coaching Group — where you’ll learn neuroscience + somatic rewiring in partnership with Jesus and receive live coaching support so you don’t have to do it alone. 👉 [ Healing Room Waitlist]

    This episode is especially for Christian women who are tired of overthinking, chasing, and settling for breadcrumbs in love. It’s time to release the pressure, rewire your identity, and experience the healing only He can bring.

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    25 分
  • Why You Keep Attracting Emotionally Unavailable Men (and How to Stop Waiting to Be Chosen)
    2025/08/12

    Are you tired of waiting for a man to finally choose you — only to end up disappointed, confused, or questioning your worth?

    In this episode, we’re talking about the “pick me” dynamic — when your mood, self-worth, and even your future plans hinge on whether someone else finally commits. We’ll unpack why you keep attracting emotionally unavailable men, why you confuse mixed signals with love, and how your past wounds can make crumbs feel like a feast.

    You’ll learn:

    • The truth about the “pick me” pattern

    • Why he hasn’t chosen you (and why it’s not your fault)

    • The trauma patterns behind chasing unavailable men

    • How father wounds and early abandonment shape your attraction

    • One step to start reclaiming your power today

    If you’ve been asking, “Why won’t he choose me?”, “Why do I keep attracting unavailable men?”, or “Why am I drawn to hot and cold relationships?” — this is your wake-up call.

    God’s love is steady, consistent, and never withholding — and that’s the kind of love you’re worthy of.

    👉 Ready to heal at the root, rewire your nervous system, and stop settling? Join us inside The Healing Room — where we break these patterns for good.

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    11 分
  • No More Breadcrumbs in Dating: How to Stop Settling and Start Receiving Real Love (Christian Women)
    2025/08/06

    Tired of feeling confused, disappointed, or strung along in your love life? This episode is your wake-up call.

    In No More Breadcrumbs: Why You're Not Crazy for Wanting the Whole Loaf, we’re talking about breadcrumbing in dating and relationships — what it is, why you keep falling for it, and how to finally break free from emotionally unavailable men who offer just enough to keep you hoping... but never enough to feel secure.

    If you've been settling for situationships, one-sided love, or mixed signals that leave your nervous system in survival mode — this is the healing, revelation, and realignment your heart has been craving.

    We’ll unpack:

    • What breadcrumbing really looks like (even the subtle forms)

    • Why your self-concept keeps attracting the same emotional cycle

    • How trauma, father wounds, and fantasy bonding keep you stuck

    • What it means to rebuild your worth with Jesus at the center

    • Why it’s safe to want more — and how to receive it

    God doesn’t offer crumbs. He offers daily bread. This is your permission slip to walk away from confusion and into clarity, peace, and love that stays.

    👉 Ready to rewrite your story? Join us in [The Healing Room] for nervous system healing, self-concept rebuilding, and trauma-informed identity work rooted in God’s truth.

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    20 分
  • Healing Father and Abandonment Wounds: Why Self-Affirmation Isn’t Enough (Christian Women)
    2025/07/29

    Babe, if you’ve been repeating affirmations every morning, trying to speak life over your love life… but deep down you’re still scared love will leave — this episode is your wake-up call and your invitation to actual healing.

    We’re talking about how father wounds and abandonment wounds shape the way you see love, what you accept in relationships, and how safe your nervous system feels just being chosen.

    You’ll learn: • Why “I can fix this myself” is a trauma response, not a truth • What happens when you finally believe Jesus is more powerful than your pain • Why your body won’t believe affirmations when the root is still infected • How the authority of God as Father rewires the lie that love abandons you

    If you’ve tried everything… but still don’t feel free — this is where healing begins.

    📖 Psalm 68:5 — “A father to the fatherless, a defender of widows, is God in his holy dwelling.”

    Ready to stop striving and start receiving? The Healing Room is open — but Founders Pricing ends July 31st. This is your container to: ✅ Regulate your nervous system ✅ Rewire your identity at the root ✅ Change the story of your love life while partnering with Jesus

    Click here to join The Healing Room before doors shift. You weren’t created to heal alone.

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    20 分
  • You Keep Settling in Love Because You Don’t Trust God Yet — What Surrender Really Looks Like
    2025/07/22

    You say you trust God... But in your love life, you’re still chasing, fixing, and overthinking. You're still waiting on his reply, still trying to be chosen, still repeating patterns you swore you were done with.

    In this episode, we’re getting real about what it actually looks like to surrender your heart, healing, and love life to God.

    We’ll talk about:

    • Why trusting yourself more than God is not strength — it’s survival

    • How relying on you is the slowest way to heal

    • What fear of surrender really means (and how to break it)

    • How Jesus can rewrite your identity in one moment

    • What it looks like to actually submit your love life to God — without fear, shame, or delay

    This is not just another “trust the process” pep talk. This is a Holy-Spirit-led call to stop settling for pain and start receiving what God actually wrote for you in love.

    Want to break this pattern for good? Join Rewritten — a Christ-centered experience to rebuild your identity in love, stop settling, and start receiving the kind of love God actually has for you.

    👉 [Link to Rewritten]

    🎧 Subscribe + leave a review if this spoke to you.

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    17 分
  • God Doesn't Breadcrumb- So Why Are You Accepting That From A Man?
    2025/07/15

    Are you tired of chasing clarity from a man who keeps you confused?

    In this raw and honest episode of No More Breadcrumbs — the Christian podcast for women healing from toxic love and reclaiming their identity — we’re talking about why emotionally unavailable men feel so magnetic… and why God’s love is nothing like that.

    You’ll learn:

    • What breadcrumb love actually is (and why you keep accepting it)

    • How trauma wires you to equate chaos with chemistry

    • Why striving for love is a symptom of broken self-worth

    • What divine love looks and feels like — and how to start receiving it

    If you’ve ever asked, “Why do I feel not good enough in love?” — this episode is going to feel like truth and freedom all at once.

    💥 Want to break this pattern for good? Join Rewritten — a Christ-centered experience to rebuild your identity in love, stop settling, and start receiving the kind of love God actually has for you.

    👉 [Link to Rewritten]

    ✨ Take the Free Love Identity Quiz: [Download Here]

    🎧 Subscribe + leave a review if this spoke to you.

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    15 分
  • Why You Keep Attracting Emotionaly Unavailable Men (Even Though You Want Real Love)
    2025/07/14

    You know what to do — but your heart keeps getting stuck in the same pattern.

    Because emotionally unavailable love feels familiar — not because it’s good, but because it's known. That magnetic pull? You've been trained to chase what's unpredictable.

    In this episode of No More Breadcrumbs, we dive into:

    • Why your nervous system craves what feels like home – even if he can’t give you real intimacy
    • How believing you're not enough rewires love to look like effort, not rest
    • Why your body sometimes chooses pain over peace — trauma mislabels danger as "connection"
    • What Jesus actually says about your worth — that you're chosen, whole, and loved
    • How to rewire your self-concept and open your heart to safe, real love

    You’re not broken. You’re not unfixable. You’ve just been playing by a distorted playbook — and it’s time to rewrite it. 👇 Ready to break the cycle once and for all? 🔗 Take the Love Identity Quiz – find out why you keep attracting what you don’t want, and how to shift that pattern fast 👉

    🔗 Join Rewritten – a Christ-centred journey to rebuild your identity and receive real, lasting love 👉 [Start the Reset]

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    14 分
  • Still Feeling Not Good Enough In love- Here's What God Says About You
    2025/07/14

    You’ve done the healing work. You’ve journaled. You’ve prayed. But when it comes to love… you still feel like you’re not enough.

    If you’ve ever found yourself Googling things like:

    • “Why do I always feel not good enough in love?”
    • “How do I stop feeling not good enough for my boyfriend?”
    • “Why do I feel unworthy in relationships?”

    …then this episode was made for you.

    In this powerful teaching, trauma therapist and Christ-led coach Kim Velez walks you through the real reason you still feel unworthy — even after all the inner work — and how to finally anchor your identity in what God already said about you.

    Inside this episode, you’ll learn how to: ✅ Break free from rejection-based identity ✅ Stop needing to be picked to feel worthy ✅ Start seeing yourself the way God sees you in love ✅ Shift from not-enough to secure, chosen, and wholeYou’re not broken.

    You’re not too much. You’re not unworthy. You just haven’t agreed with God yet.

    👑 Start your reset now: → Begin Rewritten Course: [Get Access Here]

    topics covered: feeling not good enough in lovenot good enough in relationshipsidentity in Christhow God sees youhealing from rejectionself-worth in loveChristian dating podcastemotionally unavailable mentrauma-informed identityfeeling not good enough for boyfriend

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    9 分