Why do you keep attracting emotionally unavailable men? Why does breadcrumbing feel so addictive? Why do trauma bonds make it so hard to leave toxic relationships?

In this episode of the No More Breadcrumbs Podcast, I’m breaking down:

• The real reason you’re stuck in repeating toxic love patterns.

• Why breadcrumbing and trauma bonding wire your nervous system to chase love instead of receive it.

• How your self-concept and nervous system get trained to believe you’re “not enough.”

• The biblical truth about your worth — and how inviting God into your healing changes everything.

If affirmations, vision boards, and self-help haven’t worked… it’s because the wound is deeper. It’s not about forcing yourself to be chosen — it’s about rewiring your love story with God at the center.

✨ Ready to go deeper? 👉 Join the Healing Room Waitlist — a trauma-informed, Spirit-led space for women who are ready to stop craving crumbs and step into their God-given worth. 👉 Start the Rewritten Course — the self-paced step-by-step program to shift your self-concept and rewire your nervous system around love.

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Are you tired of asking questions like “Why won’t he choose me?” or “Why do I keep attracting emotionally unavailable men?”

In this episode of No More Breadcrumbs, we’re taking a devotional approach — giving you 3 powerful prayers to pray over your love life. These aren’t about begging God to fix someone else. They’re about healing your own heart, building discernment, and aligning your desires with God’s best.

Here’s what you’ll learn today:

• Prayer for Worthiness & Identity — to break free from the lie of “not enough.” (Ephesians 1:4)

• Prayer for Discernment — to spot red flags and stop confusing chemistry with God’s clarity. (James 1:5)

• Prayer for Alignment — to release counterfeits and prepare for covenant love. (Psalm 37:4)

If you’ve been searching “Why am I attracted to unavailable men?” or “Why do I keep attracting toxic relationships?” this episode will give you language to finally break those cycles.

God doesn’t give crumbs — He gives daily bread. And prayer is one of the most powerful ways to stop settling for less and step into the fullness of His design for love.

👉 Want to go deeper? Check out my Rewritten self-paced course — where we heal the root wounds, rewire your nervous system, and rebuild your self-concept in God’s truth. Join HERE

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Are you stuck googling things like “why am I attracted to emotionally unavailable men,” “why won’t he choose me,” or “why do I keep attracting toxic relationships?” You’re not alone.

In this episode, we break down:

• Why your brain and nervous system keep pulling you toward familiar pain (neuroscience + trauma wiring).

• How self-concept and low self-esteem cause you to settle for less than God’s best.

• What “breadcrumbing” and “trauma bonding” really mean, and how to break the cycle.

• A powerful practice where you ask God: “How do You see me? What do You want me to know about my worthiness?”

• Practical tools to rewire your thoughts, reset your nervous system, and start embodying the truth: You are already chosen and beloved.

💡 Whether you’ve searched “how to get him to commit,” “how to manifest love,” or “how to rewire negative thoughts,” this episode will help you stop chasing, stop settling, and start believing you are enough in Christ.

👉 For deeper support:

• Rewritten (self-paced course): Heal your self-concept, rewire old patterns, and build a new love identity. Learn More Here

• The Healing Room (live coaching): Join other Christian women healing unworthiness, rewiring their nervous system, and anchoring their worth in Jesus. Learn More Here

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Have you ever asked yourself: “Why won’t he choose me? Why won’t he commit? Why do I keep attracting unavailable men? Why do I feel like I’m not good enough for love?”

You are not alone. So many women spiral in these questions, waiting for a man to finally “pick” them. But here’s the truth: God already calls you chosen.

In this episode of No More Breadcrumbs, I’m breaking down: ✨ Why you keep being pulled toward emotionally unavailable men ✨ The real reason he won’t commit (and why it’s not your worth) ✨ How your self-concept and nervous system keep you stuck in chasing mode ✨ What changes when you stop waiting to be chosen and start living as already chosen by God

This is for Christian women who are tired of chasing, overthinking, and settling for breadcrumbs in love. It’s time to heal the root wound, rewire your identity, and experience the kind of love that reflects God’s truth about you.

👉 Ready to go deeper? Start with Rewritten — my self-led course to reprogram your love identity and stop the cycle of unworthy love. 👉 Or get on the waitlist for The Healing Room Live Coaching Group, where you’ll learn how to rewire your thoughts, regulate your body, and invite Jesus into your healing for lasting transformation.

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Rewiring Your Thoughts With Jesus So You Stop Spiraling in Love

You’ve tried journaling, affirmations, and mindset hacks to stop overthinking in love — but somehow you still spiral. I get it. Self-led healing tools are powerful (I still use neuroscience and somatic practices daily), but they can feel exhausting when the whole burden is on your shoulders.

In this episode of No More Breadcrumbs, I share what happened when I stopped white-knuckling my healing and started partnering with Jesus. You’ll learn:

✨ Why self-led healing works but still leaves you striving ✨ What supernatural healing with God looks like (and how fast He can move) ✨ How to practice receiving instead of self-efforting ✨ A simple shift to rewire your thoughts with Jesus at the center — so you can finally feel secure in love

If you’re ready to go deeper:

💡 Start with Rewritten — my self-led course that shows you exactly how to reprogram your identity and break free from toxic love patterns. 👉 [Rewritten]

🤝 Or get on the waitlist for The Healing Room Live Coaching Group — where you’ll learn neuroscience + somatic rewiring in partnership with Jesus and receive live coaching support so you don’t have to do it alone. 👉 [ Healing Room Waitlist]

This episode is especially for Christian women who are tired of overthinking, chasing, and settling for breadcrumbs in love. It’s time to release the pressure, rewire your identity, and experience the healing only He can bring.

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Are you tired of waiting for a man to finally choose you — only to end up disappointed, confused, or questioning your worth?

In this episode, we’re talking about the “pick me” dynamic — when your mood, self-worth, and even your future plans hinge on whether someone else finally commits. We’ll unpack why you keep attracting emotionally unavailable men, why you confuse mixed signals with love, and how your past wounds can make crumbs feel like a feast.

You’ll learn:

• The truth about the “pick me” pattern

• Why he hasn’t chosen you (and why it’s not your fault)

• The trauma patterns behind chasing unavailable men

• How father wounds and early abandonment shape your attraction

• One step to start reclaiming your power today

If you’ve been asking, “Why won’t he choose me?”, “Why do I keep attracting unavailable men?”, or “Why am I drawn to hot and cold relationships?” — this is your wake-up call.

God’s love is steady, consistent, and never withholding — and that’s the kind of love you’re worthy of.

👉 Ready to heal at the root, rewire your nervous system, and stop settling? Join us inside The Healing Room — where we break these patterns for good.

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Tired of feeling confused, disappointed, or strung along in your love life? This episode is your wake-up call.

In No More Breadcrumbs: Why You're Not Crazy for Wanting the Whole Loaf, we’re talking about breadcrumbing in dating and relationships — what it is, why you keep falling for it, and how to finally break free from emotionally unavailable men who offer just enough to keep you hoping... but never enough to feel secure.

If you've been settling for situationships, one-sided love, or mixed signals that leave your nervous system in survival mode — this is the healing, revelation, and realignment your heart has been craving.

We’ll unpack:

• What breadcrumbing really looks like (even the subtle forms)

• Why your self-concept keeps attracting the same emotional cycle

• How trauma, father wounds, and fantasy bonding keep you stuck

• What it means to rebuild your worth with Jesus at the center

• Why it’s safe to want more — and how to receive it

God doesn’t offer crumbs. He offers daily bread. This is your permission slip to walk away from confusion and into clarity, peace, and love that stays.

👉 Ready to rewrite your story? Join us in [The Healing Room] for nervous system healing, self-concept rebuilding, and trauma-informed identity work rooted in God’s truth.

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Babe, if you’ve been repeating affirmations every morning, trying to speak life over your love life… but deep down you’re still scared love will leave — this episode is your wake-up call and your invitation to actual healing.

We’re talking about how father wounds and abandonment wounds shape the way you see love, what you accept in relationships, and how safe your nervous system feels just being chosen.

You’ll learn: • Why “I can fix this myself” is a trauma response, not a truth • What happens when you finally believe Jesus is more powerful than your pain • Why your body won’t believe affirmations when the root is still infected • How the authority of God as Father rewires the lie that love abandons you

If you’ve tried everything… but still don’t feel free — this is where healing begins.

📖 Psalm 68:5 — “A father to the fatherless, a defender of widows, is God in his holy dwelling.”

Ready to stop striving and start receiving? The Healing Room is open — but Founders Pricing ends July 31st. This is your container to: ✅ Regulate your nervous system ✅ Rewire your identity at the root ✅ Change the story of your love life while partnering with Jesus

Click here to join The Healing Room before doors shift. You weren’t created to heal alone.

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