Why do you keep attracting emotionally unavailable men? Why does breadcrumbing feel so addictive? Why do trauma bonds make it so hard to leave toxic relationships?

In this episode of the No More Breadcrumbs Podcast, I’m breaking down:

• The real reason you’re stuck in repeating toxic love patterns.

• Why breadcrumbing and trauma bonding wire your nervous system to chase love instead of receive it.

• How your self-concept and nervous system get trained to believe you’re “not enough.”

• The biblical truth about your worth — and how inviting God into your healing changes everything.

If affirmations, vision boards, and self-help haven’t worked… it’s because the wound is deeper. It’s not about forcing yourself to be chosen — it’s about rewiring your love story with God at the center.

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Are you tired of asking questions like “Why won’t he choose me?” or “Why do I keep attracting emotionally unavailable men?”

In this episode of No More Breadcrumbs, we’re taking a devotional approach — giving you 3 powerful prayers to pray over your love life. These aren’t about begging God to fix someone else. They’re about healing your own heart, building discernment, and aligning your desires with God’s best.

Here’s what you’ll learn today:

• Prayer for Worthiness & Identity — to break free from the lie of “not enough.” (Ephesians 1:4)

• Prayer for Discernment — to spot red flags and stop confusing chemistry with God’s clarity. (James 1:5)

• Prayer for Alignment — to release counterfeits and prepare for covenant love. (Psalm 37:4)

If you’ve been searching “Why am I attracted to unavailable men?” or “Why do I keep attracting toxic relationships?” this episode will give you language to finally break those cycles.

God doesn’t give crumbs — He gives daily bread. And prayer is one of the most powerful ways to stop settling for less and step into the fullness of His design for love.

👉 Want to go deeper? Check out my Rewritten self-paced course — where we heal the root wounds, rewire your nervous system, and rebuild your self-concept in God’s truth. Join HERE

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Are you stuck googling things like “why am I attracted to emotionally unavailable men,” “why won’t he choose me,” or “why do I keep attracting toxic relationships?” You’re not alone.

In this episode, we break down:

• Why your brain and nervous system keep pulling you toward familiar pain (neuroscience + trauma wiring).

• How self-concept and low self-esteem cause you to settle for less than God’s best.

• What “breadcrumbing” and “trauma bonding” really mean, and how to break the cycle.

• A powerful practice where you ask God: “How do You see me? What do You want me to know about my worthiness?”

• Practical tools to rewire your thoughts, reset your nervous system, and start embodying the truth: You are already chosen and beloved.

💡 Whether you’ve searched “how to get him to commit,” “how to manifest love,” or “how to rewire negative thoughts,” this episode will help you stop chasing, stop settling, and start believing you are enough in Christ.

👉 For deeper support:

• Rewritten (self-paced course): Heal your self-concept, rewire old patterns, and build a new love identity. Learn More Here

• The Healing Room (live coaching): Join other Christian women healing unworthiness, rewiring their nervous system, and anchoring their worth in Jesus. Learn More Here

Topics Covered:

• why am I attracted to emotionally unavailable men

• why won’t he choose me

• why won’t he commit

• breadcrumbing in relationships

• trauma bonding love

• how to manifest love as a Christian woman

• rewire your nervous system for love

• self-concept in love

• Christian women podcast

• feeling not good enough for love