Episode 8 – AITAH? Poly Edition + Gravy Boat of Poly Terms
Get ready to judge (and be judged). In this episode, we dive into Reddit's Am I the Asshole?—but with a polyamorous twist. We react to posts that center around relationships, communication fails, and ethically questionable behavior, sharing our hottest takes and personal insights. Plus, we’re back with another Gravy Boat of Poly Terms to stir the pot just right.

Whether you're here for the drama, the learning, or the laughs, this one’s got layers.

🎧 Listen now and decide: are they the asshole—or are you just seeing your old self in the story?

Get ready for some hot takes and heartfelt truths in this spicy and insightful episode of Modern Polyamory! Jan and Kyle dive into the big question: What do women really want in dating, sex, and relationships? Spoiler: it's not just flowers and good morning texts. From emotional safety to shared responsibility, clear communication to spontaneous joy, this episode unpacks the desires, boundaries, and expectations that many women wish men understood.Plus, don’t miss our fan-favorite segment, the Gravy Boat of Knowledge, where we serve up a savory scoop of polyamorous wisdom—this time, about how unmet expectations can derail connection, and what to do instead.Whether you're a woman nodding along or someone trying to love one better, this episode is for you.🎧 Listen now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, YouTube, or at modernpolyamory.com🔗 Follow @modernpolyamory for updates and extra content💌 Got a question or want to share a story? Email us at jan@modernpolyamory.com

Episode 6: People-Pleasing & Monogamy Myths

In this episode, we delve into the intricacies of people-pleasing within polyamorous dynamics. Are you constantly prioritizing others' needs over your own? We explore how this behavior can impact your relationships and personal well-being.

Additionally, we address some of the most common—and often humorous—misconceptions that monogamous individuals have about polyamory. From misunderstandings to outright myths, we shed light on the realities of non-monogamous relationships.

Topics Covered:

• Recognizing and overcoming people-pleasing tendencies

• Setting and maintaining healthy boundaries

• Debunking common myths about polyamory

• Navigating conversations with monogamous friends and family

Whether you're new to polyamory or have been practicing for years, this episode offers valuable insights and practical advice.

Join the conversation:What’s the most surprising or amusing thing a monogamous person has said to you about your polyamorous lifestyle? Share your experiences in the comments below!