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In this episode of MilesFromHerView, host Kat sits down with licensed mental health therapist Nicole McNelis, who specializes in perinatal counseling. They delve deep into the topic of maternal rage, also known as mom rage, discussing its prevalence, underlying causes, and its distinction from other mental health issues like anxiety and depression. Nicole shares insights based on her clinical experience and ongoing research, including a study on maternal rage being conducted with the Philadelphia College of Osteopathic Medicine. They explore how societal and cultural factors contribute to maternal rage, the importance of acknowledging and understanding this emotion, and practical coping strategies for mothers. The episode emphasizes the need for systemic changes to better support mothers and reduce maternal rage, highlighting how paid leave and other policies could make a significant difference. Kat and Nicole also discuss the critical role of modeling healthy emotional responses for children. The episode concludes with Nicole offering a mantra for mothers experiencing rage: 'It's not a meltdown, it's a message.
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00:00 Introduction to Maternal Rage
01:33 Diving Deeper into Maternal Rage
02:11 Research and Findings on Maternal Rage
04:43 Cultural and Systemic Issues
08:32 Symptoms and Coping Strategies
12:14 Impact on Family Dynamics
13:41 Gender Differences in Parental Rage
16:37 Inclusive Definition of Motherhood
17:11 Caretaking Labor Across Different Stages
20:55 Understanding the Cycle of Maternal Rage
21:35 Acknowledging and Engaging with Rage
23:22 Curiosity Over Judgment
24:29 Practical Strategies for Managing Rage
26:49 Modeling Healthy Emotional Responses
29:12 Cultural Shifts to Support Mothers
32:28 Advocacy for Structural Support
36:45 Final Thoughts and Takeaways
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