Does sex feel like rejection instead of affection? Or duty instead of delight?

In this episode we’re pulling back the curtain on something so many couples feel, but few talk about out loud: what happens when sex feels one-sided in your marriage.

Maybe you’re the one initiating and feeling rejected over and over or maybe you feel pressured, obligated, or emotionally disconnected every time sex comes up. Either way, when one person’s needs or desires are consistently unmet, sex stops feeling like intimacy and starts feeling like pain.

There is healing and hope. Learn to reconnect and enjoy each other again.

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What if the anxiety, exhaustion, or even chronic health issues you’re dealing with aren’t random, but connected to how emotionally unsafe your marriage feels?

In this episode, we unpack how emotional disconnection, ongoing conflict, and the pressure to hold it all together can take a real toll on your body and nervous system. You’ll learn why your symptoms aren’t just “in your head,” how trauma in marriage shows up physically, and what healing can look like: spiritually, emotionally, and even physiologically.

Whether you're feeling constantly on edge, shut down, or just plain numb, this conversation will give you language for what’s happening and hope for what’s possible.

You’re not crazy. You’re not weak. And you’re not alone. This is your invitation to step out of survival mode and start healing for real.

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Shame is often the shadow behind a hurting marriage.

It keeps you quiet when you should speak, passive when you should lead, and stuck when God is calling you to grow.

In this episode of Marriage Unmasked, we’re peeling back the layers of shame and how it secretly sabotages connection, leadership, and healing in marriage. You’ll learn why shame doesn’t just affect how you see yourself, it affects how you show up in your marriage.

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What do you do when you're not attracted to your spouse anymore?

If the attraction isn't there, does it mean it's over?

In this episode, we’re unmasking what’s really underneath the loss of attraction in marriage and why it’s not just about physical appearance or effort. We explore how rebuilding attraction is less about trying harder and more about healing what's underneath and we give some practical ways to start getting that attraction back again.

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In this episode of Marriage Unmasked, we’re exposing the abandonment wound, where it starts, how it silently drives your reactions, and why it shows up so often in hurting marriages.

Whether you cling tighter, get controlling, or emotionally check out, this wound can sabotage connection even when you're desperate to repair your connection.

Listen in to understand this better and learn practical ways to start the healing journey.

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Have you ever looked at your marriage and thought,
“If I were prettier… stronger… sexier… more patient… maybe my spouse would love me better”?

You’re not alone.

In this episode we break down the lie so many spouses silently carry: the belief that you’re not enough. Whether it’s unspoken disappointment, emotional disconnection, or years of feeling unseen, this episode exposes the root of that ache and what to do with it.

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Not all apologies are created equal.

In this episode we’re unmasking the kinds of apologies that do more harm than good. From defensive “sorrys” to guilt-tripping or emotionally manipulative ones, we explore why these surface-level apologies don’t bring true healing and what to do instead.

If you've ever left a conflict feeling more confused or hurt after an apology, this episode is for you.

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In this powerful episode, we explore a topic that doesn’t get enough airtime: the importance of men supporting men, especially in the context of marriage.

Marriage thrives when a man is surrounded by other men who speak truth, offer encouragement, and hold him accountable to his highest self. These are the men who don’t just pat you on the back, they challenge you to grow, stand firm in your commitments, and lead with love and strength at home.

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