What if the most powerful boost for happiness, health, and stability isn’t found in a pill, a paycheck, or a new app—but in your marriage?

This week we welcome Dr. Brad Wilcox, professor of sociology at UVA, director of the National Marriage Project, and author of Get Married. He unpacks why marriage matters now more than ever—not only for kids, but for adults too. From lower mortality rates to greater joy, stronger finances, and deeper meaning, the evidence is in: marriage still wins.

Brad also reveals the 5 C’s of thriving marriages—Communion, Children, Commitment, Cash, and Community—and why simple habits like regular date nights and shared rituals make all the difference. We explore what elites aren’t saying about family life, how to de-politicize marriage, and why choosing “we” over “me” may be the most revolutionary step you take.

Tune in and discover why marriage isn’t just personal—it’s vital to our civilizational!

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What if the very struggles in your marriage — especially around sex and intimacy — are the fuel for growth?

In Part 2 of our conversation with Dr. Corey Allen (PhD, licensed marriage and family therapist, and host of Sexy Marriage Radio), we explore the deeper side of marital intimacy. Drawing on the Crucible Model of Dr. David Schnarch, Corey unpacks how true connection is built when two people hold onto themselves and the relationship — even in the most vulnerable areas of sex, desire, and closeness.

In this episode of Marriage IQ you’ll learn:

✅ How to balance individuality and togetherness in marriage

✅ Why sexual struggles can actually become catalysts for growth

✅ What “fusion” is — and why it can stifle intimacy

✅ How to build erotic energy without losing yourself

✅ Practical insights from Corey’s decades of work with couples and his own marriage journey

This is a candid, hope-filled conversation about what it takes to create not just a good marriage, but a vibrant one — where intimacy, identity, and insight come together.

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What happens when your marriage is tested by betrayal — and how do you grow through it instead of giving up?

In this powerful episode of Marriage IQ, Dr. Heidi and Dr. Scott Hastings sit down with Dr. Corey Allan — licensed marriage and family therapist, podcaster, and creator of Sexy Marriage Radio. Corey opens up about his own story of infidelity, the turning point when his wife handed back her wedding ring in a Texas food court, and the two years of deep therapy that reshaped him as a man, husband, and father.

Together, we explore:

✅ Why marriage exposes us to ourselves — for better or worse

✅ The role of identity and insight in building a thriving relationship

✅ How Dr. David Schnarch’s Crucible Model helps couples balance separateness and togetherness

✅ Why “Would I want to be married to me?” may be the most important question you ever ask

✅ How couples can move from reaction to reflection after betrayal or conflict

Corey’s honesty, combined with the Hastings’ research and coaching insights, will challenge you to stop blaming, start reflecting, and bring your best self to your marriage.

🔗 Don’t miss Part 2, where we dive deeper into sex, intimacy, and the lessons couples need most.

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What marriage advice would you give Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce as they head toward “forever”? In this playful, lighthearted episode of Marriage iQ, we celebrate their engagement by sharing relationship wisdom inspired by Taylor’s album discography.

From Debut’s lessons on individuality to Fearless growth, Speak Now’s open communication, Red’s emotional fluency, and 1989’s shared future-building, we explore practical tips for creating a strong foundation:

❤ Maintain your identity while building “we”

❤ Cultivate emotional intelligence and multiple forms of intimacy

❤ Prioritize couple check-ins and shared goals

❤ Keep playfulness and romance alive

Whether you’re a Swiftie, a newlywed, engaged, or simply seeking insights to strengthen your partnership, this episode blends celebrity fun, musical nostalgia, and expert marriage strategies you can start using today.

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In the last month, I lost both of my parents, who had been married for nearly 60 years. Their marriage had struggles, just like all marriages, but theirs was marked by deep devotion, rituals of connection, and faithfulness to the very end.

This episode is my tribute to them—and an invitation for you to discover the wisdom in their imperfect but inspiring love story.

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What if true intimacy in marriage isn’t about saying yes—but about having the freedom to choose?

In this honest and eye-opening episode of Marriage IQ, we sit down with relationship coach Amanda Louder to explore what consent, emotional safety, and self-awareness really look like in long-term, faith-based marriages. Amanda specializes in helping religious couples navigate sexual disconnect, and she brings wisdom, warmth, and practical tools to a conversation that’s too often avoided.

We dive into:

✅ Why consent still matters—even in marriage

✅ How to move from accommodation to agency in the bedroom

✅ The role of body awareness and curiosity in building desire

✅ What to do when your partner resists your growth

✅ How to express “no” with love—and keep connection alive

✅ Why desire is something we create, not just wait for

Amanda also shares how to overcome sexual inhibitions, communicate through conflict, and build a marriage where both partners feel safe, seen, and wanted.

If you’ve ever felt stuck in old roles, disconnected from your own desire, or unsure how to talk about sex in your marriage—this episode is for you. It’s vulnerable, empowering, and full of hope.

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What if sexual agency isn’t just about saying “yes” or “no”—but about knowing yourself deeply enough to choose with intention? And what does healthy sexuality really look like in marriage—especially when you're navigating faith, family expectations, and years of silence around sex?

In this eye-opening episode of Marriage IQ, we’re joined by certified sex and marriage coach Amanda Louder to unpack what it means to create a sexual relationship that aligns with your values and brings real joy. Whether you grew up in a conservative home or just never had the words to talk about sex, this conversation will give you the clarity and tools you’ve been looking for.

We explore:

✅ Why self-awareness, agency, and alignment are the foundation of healthy sexual identity

✅ How to navigate cultural and religious messages around sex

✅ The Six Pillars of Sexual Health (including why consent still matters in marriage)

✅ How to develop confident, connection-building language around intimacy

✅ Why broadening your definition of sex can deepen emotional and physical connection

This episode is a gentle but powerful invitation to rethink old narratives, reclaim your voice, and build intimacy that’s honest, mutual, and deeply satisfying.

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This is Part 2 of our two-part series on mastering intimacy by slowing down in the bedroom. Most men rush through love making—yet most women need time to truly feel desire. The result? Frustration, disconnect, and missed opportunities for deeper intimacy.

In this episode of Marriage IQ, we take a deeper dive into the Sloth Strategy—a powerful approach that helps men create more satisfying, connected, and passionate experiences for their partners.

You’ll learn:

✅ Why female arousal works differently—and how to honor her unique rhythm

✅ The science of mental engagement and its role in her pleasure

✅ Practical tools to upgrade intimacy, including sensate touch, mindful gaze, and foreplay mastery

✅ How to overcome common orgasm barriers through communication, confidence, and patience

Plus, take our Masculine Intimacy IQ Test to see if you’re the lover your wife deserves—or if it’s time to channel your inner sloth.

Slow down. Tune in. Create the connection you both crave.

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