EPISODE 7 PART 3

I ignored all my spidey-senses and ended up being right. Typical.

Things got more delusional and apparent all at once. Cheating confirmed.

Sabotage, mind games, and more...oh my!

This contains ** explicit language ** my apologies, my sailor mouth came out a little bit.

Thanks for listening,

AJ

Part 2 of Episode 7

Odd behaviors began...

If it happens while you sleep, it is a violation.

This is part 2 of going downhill

Abusive narc and his other odd behaviors...the patterns never end.

it's a little humiliating in a sense, but I do not want to make anyone uncomfortable.

this contains explicit language and I talk about intimacy...odd things that never happened until over a decade into our relationship.

Recap of marriage counseling avoidance, delusions, loss of control and more...

Apologies for my amazing song intro I did at the beginning...

the delusions and illusions were strong with this one

This Episode 7 will come in parts as it is lengthy

Thanks for listening

💜 AJ

I speak a lot about what happened when medical ailments were almost the highlight of Moby's life, whether he would admit that or not.

The delusions that everything was fine even after I said we need to go to marriage counseling. My eyes began opening, the doubt stayed, the cheating started again...and here we gooooo!

Rather lengthy :)

Thanks for listening,

AJ

Episode 5 of MY STORY - talking about how I allowed Moby to take control of our finances and some examples of how we ended up without a pot to piss in so to speak...

This starts off with what I've had going on the last few weeks. It is a bit emotional since it involves my daughters. So, if you want to hop to the part about financial control and abuse, it is about fifteen minutes into the podcast. That being said...

This episode exposes how Moby even stole our kids' money from their savings accounts. We're talking thousands of dollars from our children.

I forgot to mention in this rather lengthy podcast that when his mother was informed of this thievery of his own children's money (by my stepmother) she said there had to be a good reason and that she could replace the money as if it made up for the fact he stole their money. EMPTIED their savings of thousands of dollars.

Money that I felt so guilt about not knowing it was gone.

I only replaced some of the funds when I opened new bank accounts for them with funds from my retirement I had to dig into during dire times. Dark times.

I felt so guilty, kinda still do, for being so oblivious to his despicable actions.

This is barely tipping the iceberg in what was done as far as the finances went.

I thank all for listening!

Remember this: if something is off, listen to your instincts. It never hurts just to look into things to ease your mind.

-AJ-

The facade...in public, gatherings with family or pseudo friends, at work...an abusive narcissist or any abuser will put on an act to be seen as the center of attention and/or be seen as a great spouse, parent and all-around great human being.

The ridicule of my likes and suggestions behind closed doors and criticizing versus what was portrayed in front of others differed immensely.

Many masks were worn depending on the situation...in a sense similar to Jekyll and Hyde.

Thanks for stopping by!

AJ

Golden child 1, Golden Child 2, and the mini Scapegoat.....

I explain the kid dynamics dealing with the abusive narcissist. I may redo this to explain my explaining. This is my story and the truth about the treatment of my children. Apologies, but at least you know it is a real person.

Thanks

This is a soapbox intermission of my story. Many believe they would never fall prey to a narcissist or an abusive manipulative person in general...it's a lot easier than you think.

(AJ SOAPBOX MOMENT)