90 Day Fiancé star Kara Bass joins Alexandria Rizik on Love Sex LA: Unfiltered for an unfiltered conversation about life after her marriage to Guillermo Rojer, returning to reality TV on 90 Day: Hunt for Love, and how her experience on 90 Day Fiancé and 90 Day: The Last Resort completely changed the way she approaches relationships.

Kara opens up about why she believes being on reality TV exposed the cracks in her marriage faster, why she now values actions over words, and what dating looks like as a single mom. She also reveals where things currently stand with Guillermo, the realities of their hot-and-cold co-parenting relationship, and why she says she may have been “way too kind” to him on The Last Resort.

Plus, Kara talks about entering her self-described “Kara era,” taking another chance on love, separating chemistry from compatibility, whether she would ever get married again, potentially having more children, and what she actually wants from a man now.

The conversation also gets into Kara’s life beyond 90 Day Fiancé — including her adult-content business, launching her own adult product, turning criticism into a business opportunity, her post-breakup glow-up, and her move into English pop music with her upcoming song “Freak Bitch.”

And of course, Kara plays Date or Ghost and closes out the episode with rapid-fire dating questions about red flags, green flags, older men, making the first move, masculinity, and why she believes women are much simpler than people make them out to be.

Why do you keep dating the same person in a different body? Why does an unanswered text send you spiraling? And how do you stop confusing someone’s attention with an actual connection?

Sabrina Zohar returns to Love Sex LA: Unfiltered with host Alexandria Rizik to unpack anxious attachment, avoidant attachment, texting anxiety, and the relationship patterns that keep us stuck. Discussing her book, Why Am I Like This?, Sabrina explores how childhood experiences and core beliefs can shape who we choose, what we tolerate, and why we sometimes abandon ourselves to feel chosen.

Sabrina gets honest about sending 173 text messages to a guy she wasn’t exclusive with, falling for potential, and the lessons she’s learned in her relationship with her partner, Ryan. She shares her perspective on why inconsistent attention can feel so compelling, how texting can create a false sense of intimacy, and the difference between a calm connection that feels unfamiliar and someone you genuinely aren’t interested in.

Alexandria and Sabrina also explore the anxious-avoidant dynamic, whether avoidant partners can change, and why understanding your attachment style isn’t the same as taking responsibility for your behavior. Sabrina breaks down her “bullshit blueprint” and what changing your patterns can look like in everyday life—from pausing before reacting to having the conversations you’ve been avoiding.

Plus, Date or Ghost and listener questions on sex before exclusivity, when to define the relationship, and what it means when someone likes every Instagram story but never makes a plan.

An honest, funny, no-BS conversation about dating with intention, setting boundaries, and learning to stop losing yourself in the pursuit of a relationship.

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What does it actually take to change your life?

Michael Chernow—entrepreneur, wellness expert, and founder of Kreatures of Habit—joins Alexandria Rizik to talk about the habits, discipline, and consistency that helped him rebuild his life after addiction and ultimately build multiple successful businesses.

Michael breaks down why discipline matters more than motivation, his approach to the 80/20 rule, morning routines, fitness, nutrition, creatine, entrepreneurship, and why becoming too rigid about wellness can actually work against you.

He also opens up about his years as a professional bodybuilder, what addiction and recovery taught him about behavior, why lifestyle compatibility matters in relationships, and his belief that progress—not perfection—is success.

If you’re trying to build better habits, become more disciplined, improve your health, start a business, or reinvent your life, this episode is a reminder that you don’t need to have everything figured out.

You just have to keep moving.

Has modern dating actually made women happier — or have hookup culture, dating apps, and the pressure to “have it all” left a generation questioning what empowerment is supposed to look like?

This week on Love Sex LA: Unfiltered, Alexandria sits down with Brittany Hugoboom, founder and editor-in-chief of Evie Magazine, for an unfiltered conversation about modern dating, hookup culture, feminism, marriage, motherhood, traditional relationships, and the decline of the girlboss era.

Brittany breaks down why she believes so many women are rethinking the rules they were given about sex, relationships, careers, and independence — and why terms like “girlboss” and “trad wife” may no longer capture what modern women actually want.

They get into whether feminism has unintentionally contributed to loneliness, why hookup culture may not be delivering the freedom women were promised, waiting to have sex in relationships, masculine and feminine relationship dynamics, 50/50 dating, body count, attraction versus compatibility, and why more women seem to be craving marriage, family, and a softer life without giving up their ambition.

Plus, Brittany shares what building Evie Magazine taught her about women, culture, virality, entrepreneurship, and challenging mainstream narratives around modern womanhood.

In this episode:

• Has hookup culture failed women? • Is the girlboss era officially over? • Feminism, loneliness, and modern womanhood • Why women are reconsidering traditional relationships • Dating for marriage vs. casual dating • Waiting to have sex • 50/50 relationships and gender roles • Does “body count” actually matter? • Marriage, motherhood, career, and ambition • Masculinity and femininity in modern relationships • Why dating culture feels so different in 2026 • Brittany Hugoboom on building Evie Magazine and creating viral media

If you’ve ever questioned whether modern dating is actually working — or wondered why traditional relationships are suddenly back in the cultural conversation — this episode is for you.

What do men actually want in modern dating — and are women making dating harder by trying to control the outcome?

Dating coach and Daddy Academy host Niko Emanuilidis returns to Love Sex LA: Unfiltered for an unfiltered conversation with Alexandria Rizik about how to date like a man, why men pull away, masculine and feminine dynamics, attraction, sex, commitment, and the dating behaviors that can make or break a relationship.

Niko breaks down why a woman can make the first move — but why what a man does after that matters more. They talk about what healthy pursuit actually looks like, why inconsistent behavior shouldn't be confused with normal dating, and how women can take control of their dating lives without chasing a man or forcing a relationship forward.

Alexandria and Niko also get into dating apps, modern hookup culture, when to have sex in a new relationship, exclusivity, performance anxiety, body count, male and female friendships, long-distance relationships, boundaries, anxious dating patterns, and knowing when to walk away.

Plus, Niko explains why appreciation and admiration matter to men, what he means by “leaning into wifey,” and why the right relationship should leave you feeling secure rather than constantly questioning where you stand.

In this episode: • How to “date like a man” without playing games • Why men pull away in the early stages of dating • Should women make the first move? • The difference between showing interest and chasing • Masculine vs. feminine energy in relationships • What men actually want from women • Why appreciation and admiration matter to men • Dating apps vs. meeting men in real life • When should you have sex with someone you're dating? • Sex, exclusivity and performance anxiety • Why boundaries matter in modern relationships • How to stop anxious dating behaviors • Can men and women really be best friends? • When long-distance relationships can actually work • Why being willing to walk away changes your dating life • And a round of Date or Ghost

If you're navigating modern dating, relationships, situationships, dating apps, commitment, masculine and feminine energy, or trying to understand how men think, this episode is for you.

Love Sex LA: Unfiltered is hosted by Alexandria Rizik and features candid conversations about dating, relationships, sex, culture, health and everything people are thinking but not always saying out loud.

90 Day Fiancé stars Paula and Thomas join Alexandria Rizik on Love Sex LA: Unfiltered to unpack their unconventional love story, the drama viewers didn’t see coming, and what their marriage is really like after filming.

Before they were a couple, Paula and Thomas were best friends living in two different countries. Then Thomas flew to Brazil and confessed his feelings for Paula — while she still had a boyfriend. Years of long distance, an engagement and a move later, the two discovered that being in love and actually living together are two very different things.

In this episode, Paula and Thomas get candid about whether opposites really attract, the difference between chemistry and compatibility, family involvement in relationships, money, cultural differences, boundaries vs. control, and the clashes over perfume and their home that became major storylines on 90 Day Fiancé.

They also break down the 90 Day Fiancé Tell All, including the prank Thomas says left him feeling gaslit, who surprised them most, and Paula’s upcoming revelation — without spoiling what’s still to come.

Plus, Paula explains her belief in manifestation, why she covers her belly button to protect her energy, and the miniatures she uses to manifest everything from money to houses. And Thomas shares what it was really like flying to Brazil to pursue Paula before they were ever officially together.

In this episode:

• How Paula and Thomas went from best friends to husband and wife
• Why Thomas flew to Brazil to confess his love while Paula had a boyfriend
• Dating long distance between Brazil and California
• Whether opposites actually make better couples
• Chemistry vs. compatibility
• Family boundaries and cultural differences in marriage
• Their infamous perfume disagreements
• Paula’s manifestation rituals and miniatures
• The 90 Day Fiancé Tell All prank and aftermath
• Paula’s mysterious Tell All revelation
• What their marriage looks like today
• A very chaotic round of Date or Ghost

Watch until the end for Paula and Thomas on where their relationship stands now — and whether living together has made them more compatible or just better at navigating their differences.

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Serena Kerrigan joins Alexandria Rizik on Love Sex LA: Unfiltered for an unfiltered conversation about dating in your 30s, confidence, relationships, egg freezing, and what it actually takes to find healthy love.

Serena — creator of the “You Are the Prize” philosophy and author of Let’s Fucking Date — opens up about the heartbreaks that shaped her, becoming “Serena Fucking Kerrigan,” and what happens when the dating expert has to confront her own patterns.

Alexandria and Serena get into dating with intention without letting the biological clock or societal pressure send you into panic, the difference between confidence and emotional armor, wanting to be taken care of while still being fiercely independent, and Serena’s decision to freeze her eggs at 28.

They also talk about why so many women mistake anxiety for chemistry, what changed when Serena finally experienced safe and healthy love with Felix, how female friendships influence our romantic relationships, and which Sex and the Citycharacter Serena really is.

Plus, Serena puts her own dating philosophy to the test with Date or Ghost, rapid-fire dating questions, and one very important question: can “I’m the prize” ever become “I’m never the problem”?

In this episode:

• Dating in your 30s without panicking about your timeline
• Serena Kerrigan’s “You Are the Prize” philosophy
• Let’s Fucking Date
• Egg freezing and fertility timelines
• Anxiety vs. chemistry in dating
• Secure love vs. toxic attraction
• Dating while independent and successful
• Confidence vs. defense mechanisms
• Female friendships in your 30s
• Sex and the City dating archetypes
• Modern dating red flags
• Finding healthy love

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What can a divorce lawyer teach you about choosing the right person to marry?

James Sexton, New York City divorce attorney, bestselling author, and one of the internet’s most recognizable voices on marriage, divorce, dating, sex, and infidelity, joins Alexandria Rizik on Love Sex LA: Unfiltered to reveal the relationship red flags people often ignore before marriage — and the problems that eventually lead couples to divorce.

After more than two decades of watching relationships fall apart, James explains what separates someone who is great to date from someone who is actually great to marry.

In this episode, Alexandria and James discuss:

• The biggest red flags to look for while dating • How to tell if someone is marriage material • Chemistry vs. compatibility — and whether “the spark” is overrated • The most common reasons couples get divorced • The warning signs that often appear before cheating • Whether a marriage can survive infidelity • Sex, desire, and sexual compatibility in long-term relationships • Money, separate finances, and financial incompatibility • Whether everyone should get a prenup • The questions every couple should ask before getting married • The qualities James sees in couples whose marriages actually last • His most controversial opinions about modern dating, hookup culture, relationships, and marriage

They also get into celebrity and high-net-worth divorce, crazy prenup clauses, dating after divorce, falling in love with someone’s potential, whether people really change after marriage, and James’s perspective on what actually makes love last.

If you’re dating, considering marriage, engaged, navigating a long-term relationship, or simply wondering how to avoid choosing the wrong partner, this episode is a masterclass in relationships from someone who has spent his career seeing exactly how marriages fall apart.

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