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Listen Before Love

Listen Before Love

著者: Elle Beecher and Cameron Hogan
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Explore relationships with people who are madly in love. Our show is designed to be a “Start Here” guide for anyone who wants to find and keep a lifetime of romance.Elle Beecher and Cameron Hogan 人間関係 社会科学
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  • What To Do When You Piss Your Partner Off
    2025/08/25
    Have you noticed how "Are you okay?" after a fight makes everything ten times worse?Most people handle relationship conflict completely backward, turning small moments into relationship-ending blowouts.Cam and Elle get vulnerable about their real fight over email automations (yes, really) and break down exactly what happens when you upset your partner. From the physical fight-or-flight response to why women disappear to bathrooms, they reveal the hidden dynamics destroying relationships.Learn the exact words that heal instead of harm, why taking responsibility beats playing detective, and the breathing technique that stops emotional flooding in its tracks. Plus, discover how to avoid the "HR Rep" response that kills intimacy.This episode transforms conflict into connection—because the couples who handle fights well are the ones who last. ✨We're picking questions from our 5-star reviewers for future episodes; DM us a screenshot of your review to @listenbeforelove on IG along with your question or situation. ❤️🌟Our communities:✨ Our free monthly workshop to kick off your month with intention✨ Weekly walks for meaningful conversations (and newsletter sign up)More from us:✨ Listen on Spotify, Apple, & all platforms HERE✨ Listen Before Love youtube✨ Elle’s socials and links HERE & Cam’s socials and links HERESupport our work:✨ Send us a tip if you receive valuable insights from our episodes✨ Donate to The Board Walks to bring weekly connection around the world✨ Buy us a spring water to keep us hydrated in Texas heatWho are these people? 👀⁠⁠Cameron Hogan⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who’s coached dozens of high-performers to shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. Cameron also writes (he published 100 ⁠⁠newsletters⁠⁠ in 100 days!), hosts men’s circles and retreats for men, plays NBA2K, speaks at conferences, and hosts a monthly gratitude call alongside Elle called ⁠⁠Great Morning⁠⁠.⁠⁠Elle Beecher⁠⁠ helps people build confidence, attract love, and find soul-nourishing community. Elle ⁠⁠writes⁠⁠ every day, hosts a monthly ⁠gratitude call⁠⁠ alongside Cam (230+ so far), and consults companies on culture and community building. Elle leads 4 communities – for women in love, deep talk lovers, and spiritual seekers. Elle worked at Meta for 7 years and was named Forbes 30 Under 30 for her work with ⁠The Board Walks⁠⁠.💌 CHAPTERS0:00 Reading The Signs: How To Tell When Your Loved One Is Upset5:11 A Real Example: When Cam Upset Elle14:17 What NOT To Do: "Are You Okay?" vs Taking Responsibility23:43 The Woman's Side: Self-Regulation and Avoiding The "HR Rep"29:46 How To Get Your OWN Dedicated Listen Before Love Episode!
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    30 分
  • How to Read the Room And Speak What You See Masterfully
    2025/08/11

    Ever notice when someone says "I'm fine" but their energy screams otherwise? You're picking up on real signals—and it's time to actually do something about it.


    Cam is an absolute MASTER at reading the room and voicing what everyone sees but no one brings up. Not only that, he navigates uncomfortable conversations that ensue with incredible skill too.


    In this episode, Elle and Cam break down exactly how he does it through real-time roleplay scenarios.


    From handling a partner's sudden energy shift to creating space for difficult emotions, they reveal the magic phrase that changes everything: "How can I help you feel that more?" They also explore why presence truly is spelled L-O-V-E and how emotions are just energy that can never truly be hidden.


    If you're ready to close the gap between noticing and speaking up—and transform your relationships in the process—this episode is your roadmap! ✨


    We're picking questions from our 5-star reviewers for future episodes; DM us a screenshot of your review to @listenbeforelove on IG along with your question or situation. ❤️🌟


    Our communities:

    ✨ Our free quarterly workshop to reflect and reset your intentions alongside growth-oriented humans

    ✨ Weekly walks for meaningful conversations (and newsletter sign up!)


    More from us:

    ✨ Listen on Spotify, Apple, & all platforms HERE

    ✨ Listen Before Love youtube

    ✨ Elle’s socials and links HERE & Cam’s socials and links HERE


    Support our work:

    ✨ Send us a tip if you receive valuable insights from our episodes

    ✨ Donate to The Board Walks to bring weekly connection around the world

    ✨ Buy us a spring water to keep us hydrated in Texas heat


    Who are these people? 👀

    ⁠⁠Cameron Hogan⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who’s coached dozens of high-performers to shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. Cameron also writes (he published 100 ⁠⁠newsletters⁠⁠ in 100 days!), hosts men’s circles and retreats for men, plays NBA2K, and speaks at conferences.


    ⁠⁠Elle Beecher⁠⁠ helps people build confidence, attract love, and find soul-nourishing community. Elle ⁠⁠writes⁠⁠ every day, created a ⁠⁠weekly walk⁠⁠ for meaningful conversations that’s in 10 cities (more soon!), and consults companies on culture and community building. Elle worked at Meta for 7 years and was named Forbes 30 Under 30 for her work with ⁠The Board Walks⁠⁠.


    💌 CHAPTERS

    0:00 The Art Of Reading The Room (And Voicing The Truth Masterfully)

    5:59 Closing the Gap Between Seeing and Speaking

    8:38 The Myth Of Hiding Emotions—Energy Never Lies

    14:40 "How Can I Help You Feel That More?”

    21:31 How to Hold Space Without Adding Drama

    29:26 Presence is Spelled L-O-V-E

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    32 分
  • Reconnecting With Feminine Energy: Why We’re Going Off The Grid For 14 Days
    2025/07/28
    Ever feel exhausted from constantly "showing up" no matter how you actually feel?Elle and Cam get vulnerable about the hidden cost of extreme consistency and why our productivity-obsessed culture is burning everyone out.After hosting 156 weekly walks with less than 10 missed sessions, Elle discovers through human design that her true gift isn't consistency—it's teaching people to follow their natural rhythms. 🌙They dive into the difference between feminine "being" energy and masculine "doing" energy. From showering in silence to breathing from your belly instead of your chest, they share real ways to reconnect with your intuition.Plus, they announce their radical 14-day tech detox where they're literally putting all devices in a closet. 📱Sometimes the most productive thing you can do is absolutely nothing.If you're tired of feeling like a human doing instead of a human being, this episode will give you permission to finally rest!We're picking questions from our 5-star reviewers for future episodes; DM us a screenshot of your review to @listenbeforelove on IG along with your question or situation. ❤️🌟Our communities:✨ Our free monthly workshop to kick off your month with intention✨ Elle’s dating community for high-achieving women ready to shift from exhaustion to excitement✨ Cam’s community for men with big visions who want to keep up momentum✨ Weekly walks for meaningful conversations (and newsletter sign up)More from us:✨ Listen on Spotify, Apple, & all platforms HERE✨ Listen Before Love youtube✨ Elle’s socials and links HERE & Cam’s socials and links HERESupport our work:✨ Send us a tip if you receive valuable insights from our episodes✨ Donate to The Board Walks to bring weekly connection around the world✨ Buy us a spring water to keep us hydrated in Texas heatWho are these people? 👀⁠⁠Cameron Hogan⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who’s coached dozens of high-performers to shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. Cameron also writes (he published 100 ⁠⁠newsletters⁠⁠ in 100 days!), hosts men’s circles and retreats for men, plays NBA2K, speaks at conferences, and hosts a monthly gratitude call alongside Elle called ⁠⁠Great Morning⁠⁠.⁠⁠Elle Beecher⁠⁠ helps people build confidence, attract love, and find soul-nourishing community. Elle ⁠⁠writes⁠⁠ every day, hosts a ⁠⁠weekly walk⁠⁠ for meaningful conversations in Austin (131 so far), hosts a monthly ⁠gratitude call⁠⁠ alongside Cam (120 so far), and consults companies on culture and community building. Elle leads 4 communities – for women in love, deep talk lovers, and spiritual seekers. Elle worked at Meta for 7 years and was named Forbes 30 Under 30 for her work with ⁠The Board Walks⁠⁠.💌 CHAPTERS0:00 Balancing The Feminine And Masculine Energies4:55 Why We Need To Balance Doing And Being13:49 Why And How To Reconnect With Your Feminine Energy22:44 What Elle's Exploration Of Human Design Revealed About Her Gifts29:43 Elle's Consistency Docket (And What She Realized About Burnout)38:23 Permission To Rest (Yes, Really—It's Okay)43:03 Moving Cyclically Between Rest And Action Cycles For Greatest Impact45:03 Our 14 Day Technology Detox Experiment (And Why We Decided To Do It)
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    54 分
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