Ever notice when someone says "I'm fine" but their energy screams otherwise? You're picking up on real signals—and it's time to actually do something about it.

Cam is an absolute MASTER at reading the room and voicing what everyone sees but no one brings up. Not only that, he navigates uncomfortable conversations that ensue with incredible skill too.

In this episode, Elle and Cam break down exactly how he does it through real-time roleplay scenarios.

From handling a partner's sudden energy shift to creating space for difficult emotions, they reveal the magic phrase that changes everything: "How can I help you feel that more?" They also explore why presence truly is spelled L-O-V-E and how emotions are just energy that can never truly be hidden.

If you're ready to close the gap between noticing and speaking up—and transform your relationships in the process—this episode is your roadmap! ✨

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⁠⁠Cameron Hogan⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who’s coached dozens of high-performers to shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. Cameron also writes (he published 100 ⁠⁠newsletters⁠⁠ in 100 days!), hosts men’s circles and retreats for men, plays NBA2K, and speaks at conferences.

⁠⁠Elle Beecher⁠⁠ helps people build confidence, attract love, and find soul-nourishing community. Elle ⁠⁠writes⁠⁠ every day, created a ⁠⁠weekly walk⁠⁠ for meaningful conversations that’s in 10 cities (more soon!), and consults companies on culture and community building. Elle worked at Meta for 7 years and was named Forbes 30 Under 30 for her work with ⁠The Board Walks⁠⁠.

💌 CHAPTERS

0:00 The Art Of Reading The Room (And Voicing The Truth Masterfully)

5:59 Closing the Gap Between Seeing and Speaking

8:38 The Myth Of Hiding Emotions—Energy Never Lies

14:40 "How Can I Help You Feel That More?”

21:31 How to Hold Space Without Adding Drama

29:26 Presence is Spelled L-O-V-E