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  • Human Rights Progress and the Cost of Silence
    2025/02/19

    In this episode, we dive into the tapestry of transformational history over the last fifty years and explore how these pivotal moments intertwine with human rights, the gospel, and our roles as advocates in midlife. Michelle Rayburn shares her heart in a vulnerable plea for seeing and listening and then speaking up. If you're searching for inspiration and practical wisdom to navigate the complexities of midlife while making a positive impact, you're in the right place.

    In this episode, Michelle reflects on the monumental shifts in human rights and societal norms that have unfolded during her lifetime, highlighting how these changes have redefined our world. Yet, she emphasizes the fragility of such progress and the risk of it vanishing overnight. As midlifers, we've witnessed cycles of change, reminding us of our responsibility to protect and preserve these hard-won advancements.

    Listeners will gain valuable insights into how the gospel calls us to advocate for human dignity beyond political divides and to embrace the interconnectedness of our global community.

    Equip yourself with the knowledge that our silence has a cost, and that by standing together, we can champion a future where justice and human rights aren't temporary. So, tune in to discover how repurposing your midlife with intention and courage can leave a lasting legacy of advocacy, love, and impact.

    Want more? Check out this essay: https://open.substack.com/pub/michellerayburn/p/what-we-lose-if-we-stay-silent

    Find Midlife Repurposed on Substack

    https://michellerayburn.substack.com



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    17 分
  • Relation-Tips for Your Midlife Classic Marriage
    2025/02/12

    In this episode, we dive into the nuances of long-lasting relationships and finding purpose in midlife. In this special episode, Michelle Rayburn takes us on a reflective journey back in time to when she and her husband had been married for 28 years. Now, after 35 years of marriage, she revisits her past thoughts, sharing insights on what has changed and what remains true in her perspective on marriage.

    Join us as we explore the critical elements of staying connected, honoring a covenant, and effective communication, all while embracing the ups and downs that come with midlife transitions.

    Whether you're navigating the complexities of marriage, empty nesting, or simply seeking inspiration for a renewed sense of purpose, this episode offers timeless wisdom and practical takeaways. Let's repurpose this season of life together with encouragement and insights drawn from Michelle's own experiences.

    There are also some fun printable bonuses in the show notes!

    You'll find shownotes and more at https://michellerayburn.substack.com



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    26 分
  • Intuitive Productivity: Tips for Less Pressure, More Joy
    2025/01/08

    If you caught my recent article about intuitive productivity, then I hope you enjoy this follow-up podcast with 12 practical tips for practicing it daily.

    Key Points in the Episode

    12 Practical Tips for Intuitive Productivity

    * Start each day by checking in with yourself. Before you dive into your to-do list, take a moment to pause and reflect. Ask yourself, 'What feels most exciting or meaningful today?'

    * Break free from rigid schedules. If you’re feeling energized and creative in the morning, tackle your most challenging or creative tasks. Flexibility allows you to work in harmony with your natural rhythms instead of fighting against them.

    * Use joy as a compass. Pay attention to the tasks that bring you a sense of joy or flow. If something feels draining, pause and ask yourself if it’s truly necessary. Can you approach it differently or delegate it?

    * Set intentions, not deadlines. Instead of rigid deadlines, focus on broad intentions. This approach moves you forward without the unnecessary pressure to be perfect or rushed.

    * Honor your energy cycles. Productivity ebbs and flows—that’s normal. When it’s low, give yourself permission to rest or shift to less demanding tasks. Trust that the flow will return.

    * Simplify your to-do list. Choose just one to three things to focus on each day. This clarity helps you avoid overwhelm and allows you to pour your energy into what matters most.

    * Celebrate small wins. Instead of focusing on what’s left undone, take time to acknowledge your progress.

    * Let go of multitasking. We often think doing more at once makes us productive, but it usually has the opposite effect. Intuitive productivity thrives when you’re fully present with one task at a time.

    * Trust your instincts when prioritizing. When you’re faced with competing demands, trust your gut to decide what truly needs your attention.

    * Create space for creative exploration. Set aside unstructured time to brainstorm, experiment, or simply let your mind wander.

    * Reflect and adjust regularly. At the end of each day or week, take a few minutes to reflect on what felt good and what didn’t.

    * Say no to what doesn’t align. If a task or commitment doesn’t align with your values or passions, give yourself permission to say no.

    Which one resonates most with you as something you can practice?



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    26 分
  • Awakening Awe and Wonder in Everyday Life
    2024/11/20

    Have you ever felt that the busyness of life has dulled your sense of curiosity and awe? It’s so easy to get lost in the hustle and bustle of daily responsibilities.

    Balancing work, family, and everything in between can leave us feeling drained and disconnected from the beauty around us. But here's something I've discovered: intentionally seeking moments of wonder can bring a breath of fresh air to our busy lives.

    Whether it’s a simple walk in the park, listening to your favorite piece of music, or watching a sunset, these moments can reignite a sense of amazement. They help us to slow down, appreciate the little things, and reconnect with our Creator. It’s in these moments that we can see God’s fingerprints in our everyday lives, and that is incredibly grounding and uplifting.

    This podcast episode reminds us of how reconnecting with wonder—in nature, art, travel, and through children's eyes—can shift our perspective, boost mental health, and deepen our connection with God. Rediscover how moments that once seemed fleeting can become sources of inspiration and renewed purpose.

    After you listen to the episode, here are a few ideas for next steps and ideas

    Cultivate Awe and Wonder

    * Identify Busyness:

    * List your top 5 daily responsibilities or commitments. How might these be affecting your ability to experience wonder?

    * Reflect: Are you making room for moments that "take your breath away"? What gets in the way?

    * Revisit Childhood Awe:

    * Recall a moment from your childhood that filled you with wonder. How does it feel to reconnection with the feelings?

    * The podcast episode mentions childhood delights such as chasing fireflies and rainbows. Think of crunching leaves or northern lights. What childhood wonder would you like to replicate?

    * Plan Nature Time:

    * Plan a simple outing for this week (e.g., a walk in the park, a visit to a nearby lake).

    * Pause on your outing to breathe deeply and notice the sights and sounds.

    * Appreciate Art and Music:

    * Choose a piece of art or music to explore today. Describe its elements that stir emotion or wonder in you.

    * How can you incorporate art or music into your routine to enhance your day-to-day life?

    For inspiration, here are a few photos of some of my recent nature adventures that took my breath away.



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    20 分
  • Spiritual Minimalism: The Art of Letting Go
    2024/11/13

    Are you ready to let go of the mental clutter that is affecting your spiritual well-being? The influences come from outside of us—social media, arguments, political angst, and busyness—but how we allow it to influence our spiritual health is up to us. Perhaps it’s time for spiritual minimalism.

    In today’s podcast episode, Michelle discussed the transformative power of letting go of mind clutter and how it can lead to a more meaningful midlife. As life tends to become increasingly complicated, especially around midlife, simplifying both our physical and spiritual spaces can pave the way for clarity, growth, and inner peace.

    Time to Redefine

    Outdated beliefs, spiritual baggage, and unhelpful thought patterns can weigh us down. Midlife presents an opportune moment to reflect and redefine what genuinely matters, allowing us to shed the excess and embrace a faith focused on love, compassion, and true spiritual alignment.

    It doesn’t mean abandoning your core faith. It means extracting it from the stuff that doesn’t belong there. And no, we don’t need to donate this to charity or dump it on someone else. If you have cleaned a closet or a room and dumped the stuff that filled every space, you know how freeing that is. That how it feels to say goodbye to the mental and spiritual clutter.

    Key takeaways from this episode include:

    Practical steps for spiritual decluttering

    Reassessing commitments driven by guilt

    Redefining relationships

    Simplifying spiritual focus.

    I know. Some of your cultural expectations are tied to religious upbringing and the entanglement of political and spiritual identities. You can reclaim those spaces. There is room for even stronger faith when you clear out the stuff that doesn’t belong there.

    This is about going deeper, not wider.

    Look for bonus resources on Midlife Repurposed on Substack, including a 10-day spiritual decluttering challenge.

    Mentioned in the episode: Whiskers, Wags, and Woofs book. A gift for the dog or cat lover in your life. (affiliate link)



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    28 分
  • An Open Letter to Myself on the Eve of the Election
    2024/11/06

    Welcome to Episode 211 of Midlife Repurposed, where today's format takes a reflective turn. I'm your host, Michelle Rayburn, and in this episode, I'm sharing a heartfelt letter I wrote to myself just before the election, without knowledge of the outcome.

    I needed reassurance either way. The letter emphasizes the importance of grounding ourselves in faith, love, and community, no matter the political climate.

    Join me as I pour my thoughts onto paper and over the airwaves and explore how we can continue to be a force for kindness and unity in our immediate communities.

    Here are three key takeaways:

    🔹 Embrace Eternal Focus: It's crucial to anchor ourselves in what remains constant. While leaders and circumstances on earth change, our faith and values are unchanging. Our purpose in this world is far beyond any political outcome.

    🔹 Love and Compassion Above All: Politics may divide, but our calling to love and support others knows no boundaries. Kindness, empathy, and humility should guide our interactions, no matter the landscape around us.

    🔹 Navigate with Grace and Unity: Real progress is built on bridging differences. Extend a listening ear and an open heart, finding common ground in compassion and mutual respect. Our individual actions have the power to transform our communities positively.

    I'd love to hear how you're navigating this season, so feel free to share your thoughts on Substack. Just click through to the post, and you’ll see the comments section at the bottom!



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    9 分
  • Nature-Inspired Storytelling with Cheryl Grey Bostrom
    2024/10/30

    Ever wondered what it's like to embark on a creative journey in midlife while blending writing, faith, and a deep connection with nature? The latest podcast episode with Cheryl Grey Bostrom goes into just that, offering so much inspiration and practical takeaways.

    Cheryl really got to the heart of creativity, resilience, and faith in this discussion. She’s an accomplished author who shared her journey of shifting from nonfiction to fiction writing in midlife, exploring the inspirations behind her award-winning novels, such as Sugar Birds, and an inside peek at her writing process.

    Have you discovered that midlife isn’t as free of responsibilities as you once anticipated? We get it! We also explored the delicate balance between creativity and responsibilities, urging listeners to embrace midlife as a season brimming with new opportunities and personal growth. Cheryl invites us to reflect on the interplay of productivity and fruitfulness, integrating spiritual insights from nature into creative endeavors.

    This episode offers encouragement and wisdom to pursue divinely inspired dreams with perseverance and faith.

    Key Takeaways:

    * Creative Themes and Settings: Get a sneak peek into Cheryl's upcoming novels set against the stunning backdrops of the San Juan Islands and the Olympic Peninsula. Explore how themes of healing and resilience intertwine with lush natural settings to create a profound tapestry in her storytelling.

    * Faith and Creativity: Discover Cheryl's philosophy on time and faith, emphasizing divine timing and the importance of patience. Learn how she integrates her faith into her creative process, crafting stories that emphasize hope and positive outcomes despite life's challenges.

    * Midlife Transformation and Inspiration: Let's explore Cheryl's transition to fiction writing in midlife, providing encouragement for listeners exploring new passions. Her personal stories demonstrate the power of perseverance, divine guidance, and believing in one's dreams no matter your age.

    * Nature and Spirituality: Connect with the interplay of nature and spirituality that fuels Cheryl's photography and writing. Learn how she uses photo essays to mirror spiritual truths, showcasing the magnificence of God with minimal text.

    We invite you to celebrate midlife as a season ripe with opportunity for personal growth and creative exploration. Whether you're an aspiring writer or just curious about finding new paths in midlife, this episode offers rich insights and a sense of community for those who wish to align their passions with their life's purpose.

    Links

    Cheryl Grey Bostom - Birds in the Hand on Substack

    Cheryl’s website

    Books

    Sugar Birds

    Leaning on Air



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    51 分
  • Grief Is Not an Emotion: It's a Journey of Growth | Clarissa Moll
    2024/10/16
    In the latest episode of "Midlife Repurposed," I had the pleasure of welcoming back Clarissa Moll, whose journey through grief offers incredible insights into resilience and empathy. Clarissa's experience with loss and her dedication to helping others through similar challenges are truly inspiring.Here are three key takeaways from our enriching conversation:* Grief as a Journey: Clarissa highlights that grief is not a singular emotion or moment but an ongoing part of life. Rather than viewing it as a problem to solve, embracing it as part of our daily routines and personal growth can lead to profound change. She called it a journey.* Empathy in Action: Her own story shows how personal experiences of pain can develop deep empathy and compassion. Clarissa discusses how this empathy empowers her to engage with news stories in a way that connects with the humanity behind the headlines.* Balancing Information Consumption: In navigating midlife challenges, it's essential to recognize personal burdens before overwhelming oneself with global issues. Establishing boundaries around media consumption can reduce stress and enhance our ability to cope with changes.About Clarissa MollClarissa Moll is an award-winning writer and podcaster who helps bereaved people find flourishing after loss. Clarissa’s writing appears in Christianity Today, The Gospel Coalition, RELEVANT, Modern Loss, Grief Digest and more. She co-hosted Christianity Today’s Surprised by Grief podcast and produces Christianity Today's flagship news podcast, The Bulletin. Clarissa’s debut book, Beyond the Darkness: A Gentle Guide for Living with Grief and Thriving After Loss, was a best-selling new release in 2022. She is the author of the Beyond the Darkness Devotional, Hurt Help Hope: A Real Conversation about Teen Grief and Life after Loss, and Hope Comes to Stay (forthcoming 2025). Clarissa is a remarried widow and lives with her large blended family in the Boston area.Quotes from ClarissaEvery new beginning comes out of a place of absence, and there is grief attached to that. It requires a reorienting time.Our woundedness gives us wisdom. . . . You can hold joy and sorrow in the same hand. You can live with both and survive. We learn how to take our grief to the grocery store, to the office, to the boardroom, to the kitchen table. We let it be a part of who we are and a part of our journey knowing that it isn't the only thing that defines us.I am a road-tripper, and there is nothing I like more than an itinerary and a map. And the reality is that grief offers us neither of these. Instead, it invites us to a journey that really goes on to the horizon. And when we take that sort of long-game perspective, we can slow down, order our steps a little bit differently, take 40 days, and meditate on what it means to include grief into your life in a way that is honest and sustainable and allows you to grow. And that's what I hope that readers will come away with as they read this book.For most of us, we've always thought until we interact with grief that it's an emotion. And emotions are something that we sort of process in our heads. We talk about with our friends. We stuff them down and pretend they don't exist. We're not quite sure how to embody our emotions. But, you know, if grief is a companion, if it's sticking around, if it's not leaving you, you can't stay in your head forever. And it helps to have concrete things that you can do that give you a sense of forward motion. Okay. I am making an effort to engage with this unwanted companion. I'm making an effort to rebuild my life.LinksClarissa on Life Repurposed (previous interview)The Bulletin–Christianity Today PodcastBeyond the Darkness Devotional – New!Beyond the Darkness: A Gentle Guide for Living with Grief and Thriving after LossHurt Help Hope: A Real Conversation about Teen Grief and Life after LossSubstack - Hand in HandClarissaMoll.comI hope you’ll tune in to our conversation! Clarissa shares so many nuggets of wisdom. And do check out her books. The devotional is a beautiful new resource that has so many practical actions with each day. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit michellerayburn.substack.com
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    36 分