We ended this season with style, substance, and no shortage of side-eye as we celebrated identity, fashion, community, and trans resilience. From Black dandyism to queer travel safety tips, and a healthy dose of real talk—you already know we came ready.

Show Notes:

• Hosts: Felicia “Fefe” Minor and Freddy Prinze Charming

Housekeeping:

• Join our Patreon: patreon.com/livewithfefeandfreddy

• Exclusive merch drops available—stickers, mugs, tees, and totes

• Huge thanks to our patrons and sponsor WigsofaKind for their support this season

Let’s Talk About Us:

• Freddy:

  • Long night in Tucson

  • Weekend rehearsals

  • Started watching Poly Family

• Felicia:

  • Got her first Cameo request

  • Watched the Met Gala live for the first time

Just the Tip – ALL THE TIPS (Season Finale Edition):

• Tapping into Your Inner Dandy:

  • Style as self-expression, especially within the Black community

  • How Black dandyism evolved as resistance and identity

  • Ways to elevate your fashion game: tailoring, accessories, color, and confidence

  • This year’s Met Gala theme celebrated Black dandyism with stunning results

• Trans History Week:

  • Highlighted influential trans pioneers including Dora Richter, Dr. Alan Hart, Lou Sullivan, and Coccinelle

  • Honoring the legacy and impact of trans individuals in medicine, activism, and law

• Traveling While Trans and/or Queer:

  • U.S. carries a “Do Not Travel” advisory for trans individuals—safety matters

  • High-risk states include TX and FL

  • Tips for staying safe while on the road:

    • Keep ID documents current

    • Avoid solo long drives through high-risk areas

    • Share your location, stick to well-lit stops, and have a travel buddy

    • Trust your instincts—remove yourself from unsafe situations

A Closer Look at Current Events:

• Import tariffs driving prices up—145% increases on apps like Temu and SHEIN

• George Santos sentenced to 7+ years for fraud and identity theft

• Trump vs. Bezos: Amazon exposes tariff costs, and Twitler is mad

• Men are shaving off eyelashes because... masculinity?

• RFK Jr. says fluoride lowers IQ—what are we even doing

• Poland repeals final “LGBT-free zone”

• Harvey Fierstein to receive Lifetime Achievement Tony

• Met Gala raised $31 million for Black fashion history

• Former Memphis officers acquitted in Tyre Nichols’ death

• India-Pakistan tensions escalate with deadly missile strikes

Upcoming Shows & Events:

• May 16 – Drag Bingo + Cats at PHX Cat Cafe

• May 24 – Drag Story Hour AZ Annual Fundraiser (20% off with promo code)

• May 29 – Drag Bingo at Drink Me! Tea Room

• June 5 – Second Annual MPI AZ Drag Bingo at Warehouse 215

• June 6 – PFF Dragstravaganza (free with con pass)

• June 7–8 – Drag Story Hour AZ at Phoenix Fan Fusion

• September 4 – Sex Trivia returns to Gracie’s Tax Bar

End of Show:

• Thank you for an incredible Season 13

• Special thanks to our live viewers, replay watchers, and podcast listeners

• Over 15,000 downloads and growing

• See you soon for more honest, bold, fabulous conversations on Live! with Fefe & Freddy

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On this episode of Live! with Fefe & Freddy, we were joined by the stunning and insightful Kristofer Inez Onyx, current Gay America Esquire 2025. We got into his pageant journey, what it means to serve with purpose, and how he's using his platform to uplift community. We also had some real talk about trust, transparency, and emotional maturity in queer spaces. And yes—this week’s Just the Tip was one to remember.

Show Notes:

• Hosted by Felicia “Fefe” Minor and Freddy Prinze Charming

• Special guest: Kristofer Inez Onyx

  • Gay America Esquire 2025

  • Shared his journey in national pageantry and what motivates him to lead with intention

  • Talked about emotional intelligence, community building, and representation in the LGBTQ+ pageant world

• Housekeeping:

  • Support us on Patreon: patreon.com/livewithfefeandfreddy

  • Merch available for patrons at all levels—stickers, mugs, tees, totes

  • Thanks to our Patreon supporters and season sponsor, WigsofaKind

• Let’s Talk About Us:

  • Freddy

    • Attended his kid’s school play

    • Rehearsals for Phoenix Fan Fusion

    • Yard work and pig house progress

  • Felicia

    • Hosted Drag Bingo at Drink Me! Tea Room

    • Reconnected with a group of birthday queens all born the same month and year—what a vibe

• Just the Tip:

  • Topic: How to build—and rebuild—trust

  • Trust requires consistency, not just apologies

  • Red flags, accountability, and learning how to move forward without rushing resolution

  • What transparency looks like in friendships, relationships, and community spaces

• Upcoming Shows & Events:

  • May 2 – Entice Burlesque in Tucson

  • May 16 – Drag Bingo + Cats at PHX Cat Cafe

  • May 24 – Drag Story Hour Arizona Annual Fundraiser (20% off with promo code)

  • May 29 – Drag Bingo at Drink Me! Tea Room

  • June 5 – MPI AZ Drag Bingo at Warehouse 215

  • June 6 – PFF Dragstravaganza (free with Phoenix Fan Fusion badge)

  • June 7–8 – Drag Story Hour AZ at Phoenix Fan Fusion

  • September 4 – Sex Trivia Night returns to Gracie’s Tax Bar

• End of Show:

  • Huge thanks to Kristofer Inez Onyx for joining us and sharing his brilliance

  • Shoutout to our live viewers, replay watchers, and podcast listeners

  • 15,000+ downloads and still growing

  • Join us next week for YOUR Wednesday night conversation

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This week on Live! with Fefe & Freddy, we were joined by artist, leatherman, and all-around creative powerhouse Erick Turner. We talked about artistic expression, queer identity, and the power of telling authentic stories through art. Plus, we unpacked this week’s chaos in politics, tech scandals, and some moments that made us go, “is this real life?”

Show Notes:

• Hosted by Felicia “Fefe” Minor and Freddy Prinze Charming

• Special guest: Erick Turner

  • Artist, leatherman, and founding member of Open Circle Art Collective

  • Shared updates on his erotic art show and how his work reflects leather culture, body politics, and queer joy

  • Talked about artistic evolution, influence, and pushing boundaries while staying grounded in community

• Housekeeping:

  • Support the show on Patreon at patreon.com/livewithfefeandfreddy

  • Exclusive merch for patrons: stickers, mugs, shirts, totes

  • Thank you to our patrons and season sponsor WigsofaKind

• Let’s Talk About Us:

  • Freddy

    • Hosted Sex Trivia Thursday

    • Family dinner in Apache Junction and officially adopted Dee into the fam

    • Rehearsals and pig house project over the weekend

  • Felicia

    • Helped host Sex Trivia at Gracie’s

    • Easter weekend was mellow

    • Doctor visit and a nail refresh

    • Stayed home with a sick kid on Monday

• A Closer Look at Current Events:

  • Signal app security: how it's being used by government officials to avoid transparency

  • Defense Secretary shared sensitive information in Signal chats with his wife, brother, and attorney

  • Trump refused to declare Arkansas a disaster zone after tornadoes—leaving victims without aid

  • Elon Musk officially dropped DOGE and returned to Tesla after the brand started unraveling

  • Trump’s Easter message focused on the “radical left,” ignoring the actual holiday

  • Pope Francis passed away, raising uncertainty about the future of the Vatican

• Upcoming Shows & Events:

  • April 24 – Drag Bingo at Drink Me Tea Room

  • May 2 – Entice Burlesque in Tucson

  • May 24 – Drag Story Hour Arizona Annual Fundraiser (use promo code for 20% off tickets)

• End of Show:

  • Thanks to everyone who joined us live or listened later

  • Over 15,000 podcast downloads and counting

  • We’ll see you next Wednesday for YOUR Wednesday night conversation

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