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In this episode, I talk about the vital role that community plays in supporting mental health for bi+ individuals, asking questions about whether you have experienced the pressure of conforming to political ideologies within communities and inviting you to share your experiences and thoughts on the topic.

**Bi+ Therapy & Support**

If you're looking for a therapist who understands the unique experiences of being bisexual or bi+ — including identity, belonging, invisibility, relationships, coming out, and navigating assumptions — you're very welcome to get in touch with me via my website (https://www.thistrustedplace.co.uk). I offer therapy and support that’s grounded, non-judgemental and informed by lived experience.

**🎁 My FREE personal development course 'Life Unlimited: 10 Steps to Real Change'** is now available on this channel in a playlist on the homepage.

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In this episode, I explore the pressure that therapy trainees, and therapists more generally, can sometimes feel to go along with dominant views within training groups, supervision, or wider therapy spaces.

What happens when we don’t feel safe to express a different opinion?
What are the effects on our growth, learning and sense of self when we hold back?
And how do we create environments where difference is truly welcome?

I’d really love to hear your thoughts on this one, especially if you’ve experienced something similar in your own training.

🎯 **1:1 Mentoring & Consultancy**
Thinking about changing career to become a therapist? Already qualified and wanting to start up a private therapy practice? In private practice and looking to grow? Or maybe you're curious about sharing your voice on YouTube? I offer supportive, one-to-one mentoring on career change and becoming a therapist, starting and building a private practice, and creating meaningful content on YouTube. All the details are on my website:
(https://www.thistrustedplace.co.uk)

✅ If you're thinking about exploring therapy generally, I’d love to hear from you and you’re very welcome to get in touch with me via my website (https://www.thistrustedplace.co.uk) to find out more or to arrange an initial conversation.

🎁 **My FREE personal development course 'Life Unlimited: 10 Steps to Real Change' is now available on this channel in a playlist on the homepage.**

Whether you’re looking to move through anxiety, stress, depression, chronic anger, addictive behaviour, co-dependency, narcissism, low self-esteem/confidence, relationship problems, feeling stuck, lost or lacking in purpose – or simply want to experience more happiness, contentment and fulfilment in your life – this course is carefully designed to help you do just that.

**‘Life Unlimited’ Course testimonials include:**

"John-Paul's course Life Unlimited more than lives up to its promise as a practical and accessible guide to making meaningful, positive changes in your life. He takes you on a clear path towards self-awareness and self-acceptance, helping you to set healthy boundaries in your relationships with others."
"The course is packed with valuable content, yet John-Paul's warm, non-judgemental style makes it feel more as if a friend is sharing some wonderful wisdom. 100% recommend."
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If you're a therapist or therapist-in-training looking to enhance your social media presence while staying true to your values, hopefully this video is for you.

I explore your WHY, your WHO, and your WHAT — three key questions if you want to grow on social media in a way that feels sustainable and authentic. Drawing from my own experience, I share how social media can support (rather than drain) both your practice and your personal life.

In this video, I cover:
1. Why social media matters – The potential benefits and the costs of putting yourself out there
2. Intentional use – How to make sure it adds value rather than overwhelm
3. Authenticity – Why showing your real self can help build deeper connections (while also staying aware of boundaries and ethics!)
4. Do you need a niche? – Thoughts on whether to start with one, and how it can naturally evolve
5. Managing the challenges – Including anxiety, comparison, and the psychological impact of being online

Whether you're just starting out or trying to grow, I hope this gives you encouragement and clarity.
🎯 **1:1 Mentoring & Consultancy**

Thinking about changing career to become a therapist? Already qualified and wanting to start up a private therapy practice? In private practice and looking to grow? Or maybe you're curious about sharing your voice on YouTube? I offer supportive, one-to-one mentoring on career change and becoming a therapist, starting and building a private practice, and creating meaningful content on YouTube. All the details are on my website: (https://www.thistrustedplace.co.uk)

✅ If you're thinking about exploring therapy generally, I’d love to hear from you and you’re very welcome to get in touch with me via my website (https://www.thistrustedplace.co.uk) to find out more or to arrange an initial conversation.


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🌐 Website at: (https://www.thistrustedplace.co.uk)

🎁 **My FREE personal development course 'Life Unlimited: 10 Steps to Real Change' is now available on this channel in a playlist on the homepage.**

Whether you’re looking to move through anxiety, stress, depression, chronic anger, addictive behaviour, co-dependency, narcissism, low self-esteem/confidence, relationship problems, feeling stuck, lost or lacking in purpose – or simply want to experience more happiness, contentment and fulfilment in your life – this course is carefully designed to help you do just that.

**‘Life Unlimited’ Course testimonials include:**

"John-Paul's course Life Unlimited more than lives up to its promise as a practical and accessible guide to making meaningful, positive changes in your life. He takes you on a clear path towards self-awareness and self-acceptance, helping you to set healthy boundaries in your relationships with others."
"The course is packed with valuable content, yet John-Paul's warm, non-judgemental style makes it feel more as if a friend is sharing some wonderful wisdom. 100% recommend."

#therapytraining #psychotherapy #counselling #mentalhealth #becomingatherapist

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Discover the top 5 reasons why I love being a therapist! From leading a more loved life to experiencing real human connection, constant learning, feeling part of a community, and avoiding negative impacts on my well-being.

If you find the video helpful, please feel free to SHARE it, tap 'LIKE' to show your support, and do SUBSCRIBE for more content like this!

🎯 1:1 Mentoring & Consultancy

Thinking about changing career to become a therapist? Already qualified and wanting to start up a private therapy practice? In private practice and looking to grow? Or maybe you're curious about sharing your voice on YouTube? I offer supportive, one-to-one mentoring on career change and becoming a therapist, starting and building a private practice, and creating meaningful content on YouTube. All the details are on my website: (https://www.thistrustedplace.co.uk)

✅ If you're thinking about exploring therapy generally, I’d love to hear from you and you’re very welcome to get in touch with me via my website (https://www.thistrustedplace.co.uk) to find out more or to arrange an initial conversation.


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🎧 My podcast with the audio of this video is at: (https://www.buzzsprout.com/2067601)
🌐 Website at: (https://www.thistrustedplace.co.uk)

🎁 My FREE personal development course 'Life Unlimited: 10 Steps to Real Change' is now available on this channel in a playlist on my YouTube homepage.

Whether you’re looking to move through anxiety, stress, depression, chronic anger, addictive behaviour, co-dependency, narcissism, low self-esteem/confidence, relationship problems, feeling stuck, lost or lacking in purpose – or simply want to experience more happiness, contentment and fulfilment in your life – this course is carefully designed to help you do just that.

‘Life Unlimited’ Course testimonials include:

"John-Paul's course Life Unlimited more than lives up to its promise as a practical and accessible guide to making meaningful, positive changes in your life. He takes you on a clear path towards self-awareness and self-acceptance, helping you to set healthy boundaries in your relationships with others."
"The course is packed with valuable content, yet John-Paul's warm, non-judgemental style makes it feel more as if a friend is sharing some wonderful wisdom. 100% recommend."

#therapytraining #psychotherapy #counselling #mentalhealth #becomingatherapist

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If there’s anything else you’d like to know about John-Paul and how he might be able to help you, please do contact him via his website www.thistrustedplace.co.uk

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In this episode, I welcome Patricia to discuss the complex subject of anxiety and the role of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) in managing it.

Key Topics:

1. Introduction to Anxiety:

- We look at what anxiety is, a fear-based emotion that can dominate life if not managed properly.
- How fear and anxiety, while often seen as negative, can be valuable when understood and managed correctly.

2. Using ACT skills to manage anxiety effectively:

- We look at the concept of 'becoming' through values-based actions.
- The importance of taking intentional steps towards who you want to be, despite internal fears, helping individuals become who they want to be.
- The importance of responding to both external and internal stimuli in a way that aligns with personal values.

3. Patricia shares her personal experiences with anxiety, including giving a TEDx talk, which was a significant anxiety-provoking event for her.

4. We talk about lots of practical advice and suggestions for people experiencing anxiety based distress.

5. Patricia also shares her advice for those entering the profession and her favourite piece of life advice for people generally!

Thank you for listening. If you do enjoy it, please feel free to SHARE it, don't forget to 'FOLLOW' to show your support, it would be much appreciated!

Patricia’s links:

Latest book: The ACT Workbook for the Anxious Procrastinator: How to Accept Yourself, Get Things Done and Do More of What Matters

Online classes: https://courses.thisisdoctorz.com

Personal website: www.thisisdoctorz.com

Therapy/coaching website: www.eastbaybehaviortherapycenter.com

Books: https://www.thisisdoctorz.com/books/

Instagram: Dr. Z.
https://www.instagram.com/dr.z.passionatebehaviorist/

Twitter
https://twitter.com/DrZ_behaviorist

Facebook East Bay Behavior Therapy Center https://www.facebook.com/EastBayBehaviorTherapyCenter

Facebook: Dr. Z.
https://www.facebook.com/Dr-Z-102029237841421

Linkedin:
https://www.linkedin.com/in/patricia-e-zurita-ona-psy-d-949b5a15/

***My FREE personal development course 'Life Unlimited: 10 Steps to Real Change is now available on this channel in a playlist you'll find on the channel homepage. Whether you’re looking to move through anxiety, stress, depression, chronic anger, addictive behaviour, co-dependency, narcissism, low self-esteem/confidence, relationship problems, feeling stuck, lost or lacking in purpose – or simply want to experience more happiness, contentment and fulfilment in your life – see this free course and you’ll discover it’s carefully designed to help you to do this.***

'Life Unlimited' Course testimonials include:

“John-Paul’s course Life Unlimited more than lives up to its promise as a practical and accessible guide to making meaningful, positive changes in your life. He takes you on a clear path towards self-awareness and self-acceptance, helping you to set healthy boundaries in your relationships with others.” and

“The course is packed with valuable content, yet John-Paul’s warm, non-judgemental style makes it feel more as if a friend is sharing some wonderful wisdom. 100% recommend.”

For additional resources and insights, be sure to visit my website at: https://www.thistrustedplace.co.uk?sub_confirmation=1.

Stay tuned for future videos on various topics related

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***NOTE: I'd love to have more stories, experiences and journeys about bisexuality/bi+ on this channel, whether that's in-person guests like this one, or reading out someone's story. If you feel you'd like to do either of these, do just either message me in the comments below, or email me on jpdttp@gmail.com to have a chat about it
Thanks! John-Paul***

In the latest in my ongoing series focused on bisexuality and bi+ identities, in this episode, I welcome Rob Cohen @twobiguys , author of the book 'Bisexual Married Men: Stories of Relationships, Acceptance, and Authenticity', to discuss the nuances of bisexuality, identity, and authenticity and the broader themes of acceptance and self-discovery within a straight or 'straight facing' relationship.

Some topics covered:

- some statistics about the bisexual community, emphasising the prevalence of bisexual people in mixed-gender relationships.

- Rob shares his personal story of identifying as straight until his late 20s and the subsequent exploration of his bisexual identity, highlighting the significance and life-changing benefits of being authentic and vulnerable,

- the challenges and benefits of 'coming out' within a straight facing relationship,

- challenges bisexual people face in terms of acceptance and the importance of self-acceptance and community support generally,

- discussion about the relationships that tend to last when someone discloses their bisexuality,

- an exploration of the differences between the sexual and romantic aspects of relationships in this context,

- lots of insights from Rob's book as he shares his thoughts on living authentically and the impact it can have on oneself and the world - healing oneself and influencing others positively,

- a discussion about community for bisexual/bi+ people looking to establish or join some kind of bisexual community,

- great advice from Rob for anyone at the early stages of discovering a bi identity and his favourite piece of life advice!

Thank you for listening. If you do enjoy it, please feel free to SHARE it, don't forget to 'FOLLOW' to show your support, it would be much appreciated!

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Rob's links:
My coaching website: https://www.robertbrookscohen.com/coaching
Two Bi Guys: https://zencastr.com/two-bi-guys
Me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/robertbrookscohen/
Two Bi Guys on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/twobiguys/
Me/Two Bi Guys on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@robertbrookscohen
Fluid Conversations Series: https://calendly.com/robertbrookscohen/fluid-conversations

My podcast with the audio of this video is at: https//www.buzzsprout.com/2067601

Website at: https://www.thistrustedplace.co.uk

***My FREE personal development course 'Life Unlimited: 10 Steps to Real Change is now available on this channel in a playlist you'll find on the channel homepage.
'Life Unlimited' Course testimonials include: "The course is packed with valuable content, yet John-Paul's warm, non-judgemental style makes it feel more as if a friend is sharing some wonderful wisdom. 100% recommend."***

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Therapy Training: the CONs (and some PROs!) ft Charlotte Battista

In this episode, I welcome Charlotte Battista to discuss the challenges and some of the benefits of therapy training. Charlotte is in the early stages of her counselling and wellbeing career, with a passion for corporate work and an interest in relationships. This episode provides a comprehensive look into the world of therapy training, offering practical advice and personal experiences.

Charlotte shares her background and what drew her to the field of therapy, influenced by her father's career as a mental health nurse. The conversation then delves into the potential challenges faced during therapy training, including time management, getting placements and balancing academic commitments, as well as what she might plan to do looking into the future.

We talk in detail about all aspects of Charlotte's experiences to date in the training, including being one of the youngest people on her course and what that's been like for her. She also offers valuable advice for those considering a career in therapy and the significance of social media in building a professional presence and networking and shares her favourite piece of life advice: "Worry is a waste of the imagination"!

Charlotte's social media links:

https://www.linkedin.com/in/charlotte-battista-bacp-b3b534286/
https://www.instagram.com/charlotte.battista?igsh=d2lubmdkMGVnbHVm&utm_source=qr
https://www.tiktok.com/@charlotte.battista?_t=ZN-8uodwzHNETW&_r=1

Thank you for listening. If you do enjoy it, please feel free to SHARE it, don't forget to 'FOLLOW' to show your support, it would be much appreciated!

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Maria Parker - https://youtu.be/ajWo-N_PSRU
Lee Rasberry - https://youtu.be/04j8fVhTVTw
Richard Campbell - https://youtu.be/FuBe9lghF9w
Robert Cuming - https://youtu.be/KYaD6-ARSnA
Michael Toller - https://youtu.be/ZxDuaHRnFEY
Bob Heath - https://youtu.be/AjXbtGgTidE
Fahim Ahmed - https://youtu.be/bS05Lt2WfOg

My podcast with the audio of this video is at: https//www.buzzsprout.com/2067601

Website at: https://www.thistrustedplace.co.uk

***My FREE personal development course 'Life Unlimited: 10 Steps to Real Change is now available on this channel in a playlist you'll find on the channel homepage. Whether you're looking to move through anxiety, stress, depression, chronic anger, addictive behaviour, co-dependency, narcissism, low self-esteem/confidence, relationship problems, feeling stuck, lost or lacking in purpose – or simply want to experience more happiness, contentment and fulfilment in your life – see this free course and you'll discover it's carefully designed to help you to do this.***

'Life Unlimited' Course testimonials include:

"John-Paul's course Life Unlimited more than lives up to its promise as a practical and accessible guide to making meaningful, positive changes in your life. He takes you on a clear path towards self-awareness and self-acceptance, helping you to set healthy boundaries in your relationships with others." and

"The course is packed with valuable content, yet John-Paul's warm, non-judgemental style makes it feel more as if a friend is sharing some wonderful wisdom. 100% recommend."

Support the show

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In this episode, I welcome Mark Cusack from @notdefining an author, lecturer, content creator, and coach specialising in supporting individuals with complex, fluid, or undefined orientations and genders. Mark shares insights from his personal experiences and professional expertise, focusing on bisexuality and the broader spectrum of sexual orientation and gender identity.

1. Introduction to Mark:
- Mark's background as an author and content creator.
- His work with @notdefining a platform for educational content on sexuality and gender diversity

2. Mark's Personal Journey:
- Growing up with diverse attractions and the struggle with identity in a binary world
- The motivation behind starting his YouTube channel and writing his book "Fluid"

3. Understanding Bisexuality:
- Common misconceptions about bisexuality and the importance of visibility
- The challenges faced by bisexual individuals in relationships and society

4. Community and Support:
- The role of online platforms like YouTube in providing community and support
- Recommendations for finding bisexual communities and resources

5. The Five Things all Bisexual People should know:
- It's way more common than you think
- Can be very vulnerable to mental health issues / how to heal
- It often changes and shifts
- There are many different types of bi+
- Absolutely "queer enough"

6. Mark's Advice and Insights:
- Encouragement to embrace one's identity and live authentically
- The significance of self-acceptance and advocating for oneself

Thank you for listening. If you do enjoy it, please feel free to SHARE it, don't forget to 'FOLLOW' to show your support, it would be much appreciated!

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L5YIsXwH2mM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7QyFTqHQpjg

Mark’s book and YouTube links below:

https://www.hachette.co.uk/titles/mark-cusack/fluid/9781805013686/
https://www.youtube.com/@notdefining

My podcast with the audio of this video is at: https//www.buzzsprout.com/2067601

Website at: https://www.thistrustedplace.co.uk

***My FREE personal development course 'Life Unlimited: 10 Steps to Real Change is now available on this channel in a playlist you'll find on the channel homepage. Whether you're looking to move through anxiety, stress, depression, chronic anger, addictive behaviour, co-dependency, narcissism, low self-esteem/confidence, relationship problems, feeling stuck, lost or lacking in purpose – or simply want to experience more happiness, contentment and fulfilment in your life – see this free course and you'll discover it's carefully designed to help you to do this.***

'Life Unlimited' Course testimonials include "The course is packed with valuable content, yet John-Paul's warm, non-judgemental style makes it feel more as if a friend is sharing some wonderful wisdom. 100% recommend."

Support the show

If there’s anything else you’d like to know about John-Paul and how he might be able to help you, please do contact him via his website www.thistrustedplace.co.uk