Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) gets back in bed with clinical psychologist and relationship coach Gaby Balsells to unpack one of the hardest questions in love: how do you know whether to stay in a relationship or walk away?

Together they explore:

• how to tell the difference between a temporary rough patch and true incompatibility
• the danger of ignoring red flags during the honeymoon phase
• emotional vs. sexual compatibility
• settling vs. honoring your needs
• trusting your desires
• healthy communication
• overcoming defensiveness
• becoming "us vs. the problem”
• emotional labor
• the initiator/receiver dynamic
• why actions matter more than words
• consistency over empty promises
• repairing conflict, couples therapy,
• sexual compatibility, mismatched libidos & feeling desired
• knowing when you've waited long enough
• guilt around leaving
• selective effort & weaponized incompetence
• and why love alone isn't always enough

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Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) gets back in bed with urologist Dr. Jed Kaminetsky to unpack everything you need to know about men's sexual health: from vasectomies, erectile dysfunction, testosterone, fertility, sperm count, pornography, performance anxiety, lifestyle habits, microplastics, prostate health, post-nut clarity, and why great sex is about so much more than penetration.

In this episode, Dr. Jed shares insights from performing over 6,000 vasectomies, explains why vasectomies don't affect erections, orgasms, ejaculation, libido, or masculinity, and discusses who should (and shouldn't) get one. We also dive into why more young men are experiencing erectile dysfunction, the difference between psychological and physical ED, performance anxiety, refractory periods, Viagra vs. Cialis, low testosterone, healthy ways to increase testosterone naturally, pornography's impact on arousal, penis pumps and rings, fertility, declining sperm counts, microplastics, prostate health, ejaculation frequency, steroids, testosterone therapy, men's fears around penis size, micro-penis stigma, post-nut clarity and more.

Topics discussed:

• ​Dr. Jed's experience performing 6,000+ vasectomies
• ​Why vasectomies don't affect erections, orgasms, ejaculation or libido
• ​Who should and shouldn't get a vasectomy
• ​Vasectomy reversals and success rates
• ​More childfree men choosing vasectomies
• ​Psychological vs. physical erectile dysfunction
• ​Performance anxiety and first-time sex nerves
• ​What erectile dysfunction actually means
• ​Lifestyle causes of ED (sleep, obesity, smoking, alcohol, exercise)
• ​Stress, anxiety and blood flow to the penis
• ​Refractory periods and why they change with age
• ​Viagra, Cialis and how they work
• ​Daily Cialis vs. as-needed dosing
• ​Testosterone testing and common misconceptions
• ​Natural ways to increase testosterone
• ​Weightlifting vs. endurance running for hormone health
• ​Penis pumps and cock rings
• ​Pornography, masturbation habits and sexual conditioning
• ​Low libido vs. erectile dysfunction
• ​Fertility, declining sperm counts and modern lifestyle
• ​Microplastics and male fertility
• ​Sauna use, heat exposure and sperm health
• ​Prostate enlargement, prostate cancer and ejaculation research
• ​Steroids, bodybuilding and infertility
• ​Testosterone replacement therapy risks
• ​Women's testosterone and libido
• ​Post-nut clarity explained
• ​Why men's physiology isn't an excuse to neglect a partner's orgasm
• ​Communication, sex therapy and relationship dynamics
• ​Micro-penis myths and penis size insecurity
• ​Why erectile dysfunction is a symptom, not a disease

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Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) gets back in bed with sex educator, relationship coach, and OnlyFans creator Ashley Manta for a deep dive into pussy worship, oral sex, receiving pleasure, and what truly creates incredible sex. They discuss what pussy worship actually means, why enthusiasm and verbal reassurance matter and creating safety for the receiver.

Topics covered:

• What pussy worship really is
• Why enthusiasm changes everything
• Verbal reassurance before oral sex
• Creating emotional safety during sex
• The ideal 60-minute pussy worship session
• Foreplay being needed before oral sex
• Labia massage techniques
• Consent before penetration
• Pleasure-focused vs orgasm-focused sex
• Tension orgasms vs relaxed orgasms
• Betty Dodson's orgasm techniques
• Breathing through orgasm
• Why sex educators have higher standards
• Escaping performative sex
• Raising your standards for pleasure
• Porn vs real-life sex
• Learning to receive instead of always giving
• Overcoming people-pleasing in bed
• Mutual masturbation as education
• Giving and receiving feedback during sex
• Hormonal changes and changing preferences
• Pussy worship fantasies
• Bisexual experiences and women's play parties
• Breast worship and body worship
• Toys during oral and hand sex
• Why everyone should use lube
• Oral-anal hygiene tips
• Choosing partners who prioritize your pleasure

Follow Ashley Manta:Instagram: @cannasexual

Website: pussywhisperer.coach

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