Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) gets in bed with sex educator Jill Lissner, aka @sexedprincesss, forconversation about performative sex, pleasure, body image, consent, communication, and the weird sex trends taking over the internet.

Topics covered:

• Performative sex and what it means
• Pleasure vs. performance
• Authentic/non-performative sex
• Gendered expectations around appearance
• Penis size, erections and stamina
• Moaning and performing sounds
• Staying quiet because of shame or expectations
• Soft penises and body acceptance
• Decentering penetration
• Mutual masturbation and vulnerability
• Porn as a performance
• Being perceived and worrying how you look
• Likeability, acceptance and social performance
• Reducing performance anxiety through exposure
• “Spectatoring” during sex
• Advocating for your needs during sex
• Defaulting to giving as a performance
• Preference vs. performance
• Orgasm faces
• “Cracked” and modern sexual terminology
• Active participation in sex
• Riding/on-top positions and performing for appearance
• Recording sexual experiences
• Penetration as a performance expectation
• Critical thinking about sexual norms
• Internet sex trends
• Ball maxing/scrotum maxing
• Scrotum size and attraction
• How sexual trends spread online
• The need for more scientific research on emerging sex trends

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