Friend drama? Roommate tension? Dating someone who says “I’m not great at texting” but mysteriously lives on snapchat?

In this episode of Hot Mess Help Desk, we’re unpacking the glorious chaos of relationships — the good, the bad, and the “we need to talk” texts. We cover everything from healthy boundaries (aka not answering texts at 2am), to conflict resolution that doesn’t end in ghosting, to spotting red flags before you invest six months and your Hulu login.

Whether you’re navigating friendships, situationships, or a roommate who definitely eats your snacks--we've got something for you.

Two counselors, total hot messes, helping you survive love, roommates, and everything in between.

Between late-night study sessions, early classes, and “just one more episode,” college sleep schedules are… chaotic, to say the least. In this episode, Mya and Lainie break down what happens when your brain doesn’t get enough rest (hint: it’s not just about feeling tired), why all-nighters don’t actually help you ace exams, and how rest is more than just sleeping — it’s how your body resets. They’ll share real-life ways to get better rest without overhauling your whole schedule, plus myth-bust the idea that sleep is optional in college. Takeaway: Sleep isn’t lazy — it’s maintenance. And your brain deserves the upgrade.

Stress is real, snacks are life, and sleep… well, sometimes it’s just a rumor. In this episode of Hot Mess Help Desk, Mya and Lainie break down what stress actually does to your brain and body (spoiler: it’s not just in your head), why pulling all-nighters and living off energy drinks backfires, and how small things like water, naps, or texting a friend can make a big difference.

From exam pressure to money stress, we’re covering it all — plus myth-busting the idea that you just have to “push through” until finals. Grab your stress toolkit and learn how to hit reset (even if it’s just for two minutes).

Takeaway: Stress is normal. Burnout doesn’t have to be. And yes, snacks totally count as coping.

Welcome to Episode 0 of Hot Mess Help Desk. Get to know your hosts, find out what to expect, and why your counselors are tackling technology in the first place. Follow us on Instagram @ HotMess.HelpDesk for updates, behind the scenes and more!

When your mind’s racing, your chest feels tight, and everything just feels too loud — this one’s for you. In this calming guided mini-episode, Lainie walks you through a few minutes of gentle grounding to help you slow down, reconnect to your senses, and remind your body that you’re safe in the present moment.

No pressure, no perfect breathing — just space to pause, notice, and come back to yourself.

Takeaway: You don’t have to fix everything. You just have to be here, one moment at a time.

Welcome to the Hot Mess Help Desk Mini Mental Reset with Mya.

Whether you're running on fumes, drowning in readings, or just need a few minutes to breathe — press play. No pressure, no fixes, no “productivity hacks.” Just calm your body, notice your breath, and give yourself permission to rest.

Feeling tense? In this quick mini episode, Lainie guides you (& Mya) through a short Progressive Muscle Relaxation (PMR) practice to help you release tension, reset your nervous system, and finally unclench your jaw. No prep, no pressure — just hit play and breathe.

College is amazing....until it is a full blown dumpster fire. We are two mental health counselors here to say-same. We've seen it all: stress meltdowns, friendship drama, midterm panic....and that mysterious crying in the library moment. Welcome to Hot Mess Help Desk-where we tackle the big mental health stuff like anxiety, relationships and everything in-between without the boring textbook vibes. We'll share coping skills that actually work-plus some real stories that prove you're not the only hot mess out there. So grab your coffee...or let's be real your third energy drink, hit subscribe and join us for laughs, real talk, and a mental health tune up. Hot Mess Help Desk, two counselors, total hot messes, here to help you thrive.