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In this throwback episode, we talk about the podcast The Telepathy Tapes. This was a top episode with listeners and of course, we are big fans of TTT. We talk about the podcast’s interviews with parents and experts, the moments that hit us emotionally, and why an open mind can be a powerful part of any healing journey.

We also zoom out to the real-life takeaways: the mind is not the same as the brain, and our day-to-day “3D world” may not be the full story. We connect intuition, energy, and frequency to something practical, how you live, how you regulate your nervous system, and how you stop letting ego-driven noise run your life. If you’ve been stuck in survival mode, replaying the past or worrying about the future, this conversation offers a different lens: you’re a soul borrowing a body, and healing starts when you make space for stillness, reflection, and truth.

We get real about boundaries, compassion, and the inner child work that helps old programming loosen its grip. You’ll hear why we believe no practitioner “heals” you from the outside, how to choose action when change is possible, and how to let go when it isn’t without becoming a doormat. If any of this sparks curiosity, listen through with an open mind, then share it with someone who needs a new perspective. Subscribe, leave us an Apple review, and tell us what topic you want us to tackle next.

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Comparison can look harmless until it starts rewriting your self worth. We’re Denise, a speech language pathologist and self love coach, and Kira, a traditional naturopath and functional nutritionist, and we’re naming the pattern so many of us live in: comparisonitis. It shows up as a quick glance at someone else’s body, business, relationship, money, or healing story, then turns into a spiral of “I’m behind” and “I’m not enough.”

We unpack the real danger: you never have the full picture, but your brain will happily fill in the blanks with harsh assumptions. Social media comparison makes it worse by feeding you highlight reels and peak moments while hiding the sacrifices, support, and stress behind the scenes. We talk about the moment comparison crosses the line into judgment, how it can flip into resentment and cruel commentary, and why that energy always comes back to drain you.

Then we pivot into what actually helps: using comparison as data instead of a weapon. If you feel envy, we show you how to ask what it’s pointing to, identify what you want for yourself, and make a 1% shift today. Real healing is active, and clarity comes from action, not from scrolling, affirmations, or waiting for the perfect mindset.

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If you’ve ever hit a hard season and immediately felt your brain build a case for why you can’t move forward, you’re not alone, and you’re not broken. We’re Kira and Denise, and we get real about what actually happens when life gets heavy: we blame circumstances, we hunt for proof that the world is against us, and we stand in our own way even harder. Then we shift the question from “who’s at fault?” to “what can I do from here?” because that’s where your power lives.

We also talk about a piece people skip all the time: nervous system regulation. Looking inward is valuable, but if you’re overwhelmed, you can’t process clearly. Sometimes the smartest thing you can do is step away to get grounded, not to avoid the truth, but to come back regulated enough to see it. We use a simple analogy from working with kids: no learning happens in a tantrum. The same is true for us when we’re flooded with stress.

From there, we dig into “getting comfortable with uncomfortable,” whether that’s putting yourself out there in business, breaking the habit of busyness, or learning to sit still without feeling unsafe. We also name comparisonitis, validate that your hard is still hard even if someone else has it worse, and talk about letting people cope in their own way without judgment.

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You’re on a road trip, you duck into a grocery store restroom, and there it is: a large stack of cash sitting out in the open. No owner. No explanation. Just a split second where your brain spins up a thousand stories and your body chooses before your logic catches up. We walk you through the exact moment it happened to us and why it turned into one of the most revealing conversations we’ve had about integrity, values, and healing in real life.

We don’t treat this like a morality play or a “what you should do” lecture. We get honest about how easy it is to form opinions from a distance, how quickly fear and scarcity show up, and why people reach for spiritual bypassing like “the universe sent you money” to justify a decision. We also explore the practical side: consequences, cameras, and what changes when the amount is clearly significant. Then we zoom out to the bigger takeaway: sometimes the real gift isn’t the money, it’s the moment that shows you who you are when no one is watching.

From there, we connect the dots to abundance mindset, money stories, and nervous system regulation. When you feel safe in your body, you can respond instead of react and make choices aligned with love over fear. We close with a simple values-based mantra, a calming 4-7-8 breathing practice, and a prompt for you to join the conversation and share what you think happened and what you would do.

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In this episode, business and marketing coach Lu Trujillo joins the conversation to unpack why so many high-achieving women feel unsafe holding money, praise, and momentum, even when success is clearly working. That internal pressure to spend, fix, or prove doesn’t come from a lack of strategy, but from a nervous system that associates success with risk.

Lu introduces a powerful framework of two inner narratives: the inherited voice shaped by upbringing and old wounds, and the intentional voice we author, the one that offers safety, steadiness, and self-trust. When that second voice is missing, success triggers over-delivering, people-pleasing, perfectionism, imposter syndrome, and avoidance of necessary boundaries.

This conversation reframes the solution, sharing that it’s not more hustle or self-optimization, but creating safety in the body so growth doesn’t feel threatening. When safety is present, wins can land, money can stay, and leadership becomes grounded instead of reactive.

If you’re a founder, practitioner, or ambitious professional who’s earning more yet feeling less regulated, this episode offers language, insight, and practical steps to rewrite your inner narrative, protect your energy, and lead from calm confidence rather than survival.

About Lu:
Lu Trujillo is a business and marketing coach who focuses on scaling female entrepreneurs who are on a mission to raise the standard of care while also getting paid their worth and tapping into their zone of genius. She has been in the marketing and sales space for over 10+ years and has worked with countless high achieving and career driven women who were ready to scale their impact, and has seen first hand how trauma shows up for these women as they advance in their career, in their relationship, in major life transitions even though the signs are not always obvious yet very much present.

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The “what if they don’t like me?” spiral can hit even when you’ve done years of inner work and that’s exactly why we wanted to talk about it. We’re Kira and Denise, and we’re unpacking how people pleasing, wanting to be liked, and self-judgment stack on top of each other until you’re no longer acting like yourself. If you’ve ever replayed a conversation, drafted the “perfect” follow-up text, or tried to manage someone else’s feelings so you don’t get judged, you’ll recognize this pattern fast.

We connect the dots back to childhood conditioning and conditional love, where approval can feel like survival. Then we bring it into real life: work meetings, authority figures, social media comment sections, and the quiet ways we perform to stay “safe.” The point isn’t to make triggers disappear forever. Healing is the journey of noticing the old identity show up, building awareness, and choosing a new response that protects your energy, your boundaries, and your authenticity.

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One tiny shift can make your whole life feel lighter, and it starts with a question we keep coming back to: why are we taking everything so seriously? Denise and Kira pull this thread from real everyday moments, from the weird tension people carry in public to the way we over-plan “fun” until it stops being fun. The point isn’t to ignore reality or pretend hard things don’t hurt. The point is to stop adding extra weight to experiences that don’t deserve it.

We talk about how seriousness becomes a default coping style, and what it costs your body and mind over time. Chronic stress impacts the nervous system, cortisol, blood sugar, sleep, and mood, which is why this conversation matters for functional medicine, holistic wellness, and emotional healing. We also connect joy to creativity and intuition: when your life is rigid and perfection-driven, your creativity shrinks, your intuition gets quieter, and even simple days start to feel exhausting.

If you’re ready to lighten the load and make your healing journey more livable, press play, subscribe, and share this with a friend who needs it. After you listen, will you leave a review and tell us what you’re going to enjoy more on purpose?

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