This week, Good Moms are joined by attorney, media personality, author, and the first Black Bachelorette, Rachel Lindsay. From growing up in Texas with a federal judge for a dad to navigating heartbreak, law school, and the search for "love" on reality TV, they get into love, loss, legacy and what she wishes more reality stars knew.

You can expect to hear:

(09:00) Growing up in a strict, achievement-focused Black family—and how being a judge’s daughter shaped her mindset

(11:30) Going to law school, pledging Delta, and the moments that made her question everything she thought she knew

(12:30) Her first heartbreak, losing her virginity at 20, and why she believes purity culture is dangerous

(17:50) Her “athlete era,” chasing fun, and realizing what she didn’t want in a relationship

(20:30) How she ended up on The Bachelor, and the gut feeling that told her she had to do it

(23:50) The truth about being the first Black Bachelorette, respectability politics, and how she was chosen to be “palatable” for white audiences

(25:00) Her master plan to stay quiet during filming and speak out after the season aired

(27:00)The power of being seen: why Black women deserve the fairy tale, too ( and why she felt called to bring that to screen)

(28:00) Her advice to future reality TV stars: be strategic and own your narrative

(30:00) Why she’s not rushing into dating post-divorce and how she felt as a woman paying alimony to her EX-HUSBAND to maintain HIS lifestyle.

(31:00) Why she refuses to watch Love Island, and how most dating shows still miss the mark on diversity

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Erica and Milah continue their sit down with bestselling author Elizabeth Oveson (AKA Karrine Steffans) as she unpacks the emotional and physical labor of being a truth-teller in a culture addicted to fantasy.

Now two decades removed from the release of Confessions of a Video Vixen, Elizabeth reflects on the hollowness of fame, the cost of being first, and why men should marry the "slut".

The ladies chat about:

• Making trauma informed choices and hyper-sexualition
• Men lying about sleeping with Karrine to boost their SEO (not her SEO PUS*Y lol)
• They explore the question: Do you have a problem, or do you just have a baby daddy lol
• A special whorie from Milah & Karrine

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This is a 2 part episode. For early unedited access to Part 1 & 2 of this episode, sign up to Patreon now!

This week, Erica and Milah are joined by bestselling author Elizabeth Oveson (AKA Karrine Steffans) to reflect on the 20-year anniversary of her groundbreaking memoir, Confessions of a Video Vixen.

Elizabeth was one of the first women in the public eye to live unapologetically in her truth refusing to censor her experiences, her sexuality, or her voice. Two decades later, she returns to Good Moms Bad Choices to chat about what it means to reclaim her body, her story, and her peace.

In Part 1 of this two-part ep covers:

• The reaction to Confessions 20 years ago, and how telling her story reshaped the industry and even cost her safety
• Why she’s not interested in protecting men and upholding the wrong icons, and why you should stop also!
• What it means to “self-rescue” and why self care goes beyond massages and skin care
• & A fun game of Trigger!

For early unedited access to Part 2 of this episode, sign up to Patreon now!

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Motherhood doesn’t mean losing your identity, your sensuality, or your freedom.

This week, Erica and Milah confront the outdated “perfect mom” stereotype and challenge the idea that motherhood means: dressing conservatively, hiding your sex life, or being ashamed of smoking weed.

This episode is a reminder that you can be a loving, responsible parent and still show skin, smoke a blunt, and have good sex. It’s not about being reckless, it’s about being real.

You can expect to hear:

• The biggest lies society tells about “wild moms”
• Why it’s perfectly fine to smoke weed
• How to survive your hoe phase after motherhood
• The importance of showing kids how to properly clean themselves, even if you need to include props and Nutella
• Why Banana Republic and kitten heels might be a crime against moms everywhere
• The line between freedom and “put some damn clothes on, mom!”

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💊Take your Vitamins! 💊

In the spirit of growing up, it's also time for you to grow up and start taking your vitamins! Check out www.Blackvitamins.co and find the best vitamins for Black Women, by Black women. Use Promo code GoodMoms20 at check out!

See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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We know how hard it can feel to spend money on yourself so we're making it easier for you by offering payment plan options and a limited time offer of $800 off if you use the code ESCAPE at checkout.

Option 1: July 31st- August 5th

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WHEN: July 11th 10 AM PST -12:30 PM PST

WHERE: Lake Balboa, California.

PRICING + MORE INFO: https://www.spiritualwarriortribe.com/kids-summer-program

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In the spirit of growing up, it's also time for you to grow up and start taking your vitamins! Check out www.Blackvitamins.co and find the best vitamins for Black Women, by Black women. Use Promo code GoodMoms20 at check out!

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This week, the Good Moms catch up about their recent retreats in Costa Rica , some current events in this chaotic world, and how they moms are surviving summer by sending their daughters off to overnight camp!

In this episode, you’ll hear:

• Why America is still on its BS (10:00)
• What went down at the first ever Good Vibe Couples Retreat (28:45)
• Irie & Luna’s overnight camp era begins (55:00)
• Thoughts on B. Simone’s latest viral moment (50:00)
• A Good Mom's review of Straw the movie (1:10:00)

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Welcome back to Tribe Chat, our monthly bonus episode series!

This week, Good Moms light up and react to a mix of internet clips curated by their team. From INSANE and questionable reality TV shows like “Who’s Your Daddy” to parents who are NOT going to deal with their children’s foolishness this summer!

The ladies talk about if cursing is good for your kid's confidence and are surprised to find out the celebrities who have more kids than Nick Cannon.

Spark up and laugh with us!

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