Our podcast turned 8 years old this week!!!!

In this anniversary episode, Erica and Milah take a moment to reflect on the journey from recording their first episodes on an iPhone to buying a studio space, growing a business, become published authors, and cultivating the community/tribe that they have today.

They ladies chat about what it’s really like building a life and brand together as friends, navigating business, therapy, growth, and the work it takes to maintain a relationship that’s both personal and professional. The number 8 keeps showing up for them lately, symbolizing power, abundance, and new beginnings!

In this episode they also share:

• A road trip story involving a diesel fuel mix-up and a reminder to trust your intuition about people

• Honest reflections on adult friendships and why community matters more than ever

• Stories from retreat attendees and listeners that show how powerful their tribe really is

• Dealing with validation, rejection, desirability, and Bad Choices of the Week from Discord

Thank you for all of our tribe members who have been rocking with us! We love and value your support more than you know!

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April 17th- April 22nd - Jamaica, Ganja Goddess Retreat

Whether you're seeking relaxation, adventure, or simply a sexy fun time, the Ganja Goddess Retreat promises an unforgettable experience of empowerment and sisterhood. Join us as we celebrate femininity, wellness, and the magic of Jamaica's natural splendor at the Ganja Goddess Retreat.

🇨🇷 COSTA RICA 🇨🇷

July 14th- July 19th - Mommy and Me Retreat in Costa Rica

Come join us in Costa Rica for our first-ever Mommy & Me Retreat! Six unforgettable days designed to help you and your child reconnect, slow down, and experience each other in a whole new way!!

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Happy Hump Day!

This week on Good Moms Bad Choices, Erica and Milah are joined by radio personality, DJ, mama of three, and certified Scorpio, Abby De La Rosa.

Before the world knew her as part of a headline, Abby was grinding in radio for nearly a decade street teams, voice work, overnight shifts, Starbucks side hustles, and building her name from the ground up. She opens up about carving out her identity in an industry that told her she didn’t “have the face for radio,” choosing her voice anyway. The three also chat about navigating a very public relationship dynamic, what people misunderstand, and what it feels like to step into a new season in life.

You can expect to hear conversations about:

• Cutting your hair and reclaiming your power
• The grind of radio life and building a career before podcasts were a thing
• Getting pregnant after being told you couldn’t have kids
• Back-to-back babies, twins, and adjusting to motherhood in the spotlight
• Growing up deeply religious and redefining partnership on your own terms
• Imposter syndrome, identity loss, and rebuilding confidence after pouring into everyone but yourself
• Preteen daughters, Philly parenting moments, and when gentle parenting goes out the window
• Why women need space to be wild, sensual, and taken care of

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Happy Hump Day, Tribe !

This week, Good Moms welcome a very special guest, Erica’s dad, NFL Hall of Famer Eric Dickerson. The three talk about love, legacy, and the beliefs we inherit.

Eric shares his old-school views on dating, masculinity, cheating, and how society views single mothers. Erica and Milah listen, challenge, and respond, creating space for a respectful but honest generational exchange.

In this episode you can expect to hear:

• Generational perspectives on relationships and gender roles

• A conversation about infidelity and double standards

• The judgment single moms face in dating

• “Bad Choice of the Week”: Advice for a stay-at-home mom feeling disconnected and tempted by her ex

• A father-daughter exchange about accountability, politics, and public platforms

• Reflections on apology, forgiveness, and rebuilding trust within family

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The Black Effect Presents... Good Moms Bad Choices!

💘 It’s Valentine’s Week Tribe!

This week, Erica and Milah sit down with relationship coach and author Marcus Black. Marcus breaks down his “Bulletproof Love” philosophy, what real accountability looks like after betrayal, and the difference between love that’s convenient… and love that costs you something.

You can expect to hear:

• What “Wild Woman” actually means (and why some men get triggered by it)
• The truth about submission + why it can take practice even with the right partner
• How trust is built (and how it gets destroyed)
• The green flags to look for if you’re considering staying after betrayal
• Emotional safety from a man’s perspective (and what NOT to do)
• Religion vs spirituality + why the institution has cooked so many of us

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Happy Hump Day, Tribe. This week, Good Moms talk about what dating actually looks like when you’re a parent (the boundaries, the red flags, the late-night texts). The balance between protecting your peace and still wanting to feel something.

Erica and Milah share five dating tips for single parents, not from a rule book, but from lived experience. If you’re outside, cautiously outside, or just thinking about stepping back in… this one’s for you.

In this episode the ladies talk about:

• Why dating to be “saved” always backfires
• Learning how to be alone (and why it becomes fun when you make it a vibe)
• Being honest from the start and dating from a friendship-first foundation
• How to spot double standards, and red flags before you’re attached
• Why you should never blend families too fast or “play house” too soon

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In this episode, Erica and Milah sit down with Lizzy Jeff. The ladies talk about what it’s like to build something over a long period of time, how priorities change as you get older, and the quiet shifts that happen when you stop forcing yourself into certain timelines.

The conversation moves through aging, work, creativity, femininity, and cannabis culture, with Lizzy sharing stories from her 10 years building Zen & Kush and what she’s noticing now about rest, embodiment, and how her body plays a role in decision-making. They also touch on relationships, partnership, and how being clear about what you want can look different in each phase of life.

In this episode, you can expect to hear:

• What it actually takes to sustain a creative project over a decade
• Conversations about getting older and rethinking timelines around success and life
• How femininity, leadership, and sensuality can exist at the same time
• Cannabis as part of ritual, culture, and community
• Thoughts on rest, embodiment, and listening to your body
• Reflections on love, dating, and clarity around relationships

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Can a toxic ex leave you physically itchy?

In this episode of Good Moms talk about energy transfer, "spiritually transmitted demons", and what it takes to reinvent yourself when the old version of you no longer fits. From de-centering men (and why that conversation is misunderstood) to centering yourself in a way that finally feels grounding, the girls unpack how survival identities can overstay their welcome.

The girls talk honestly about watching close friends finally leave relationships that no longer serve them, how one big decision can completely change your timeline, and why telling your friends the truth (even when it’s uncomfortable) can be an act of love.Erica shares a vulnerable mushroom realization that made her understand why an old, hyper-guarded version of herself needed to be laid to rest, not erased, not shamed, but honored and released.

Growth is messy, honesty matters, and sometimes the bravest thing you can do is let go of what once kept you safe.

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🇯🇲 JAMAICA 🇯🇲 (Sold Out)

April 17th- April 22nd - Jamaica, Ganja Goddess Retreat

Whether you're seeking relaxation, adventure, or simply a sexy fun time, the Ganja Goddess Retreat promises an unforgettable experience of empowerment and sisterhood. Join us as we celebrate femininity, wellness, and the magic of Jamaica's natural splendor at the Ganja Goddess Retreat.

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July 14th- July 19th - Mommy and Me Retreat in Costa Rica

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