I am often asked how women can enjoy sex with their husbands when they are so uncomfortable with their bodies. So I knew I had to bring in Janioris Diaz Rodriguez, boudoir photographer, body & bedroom confidence coach to talk about it!

In this episode we mentioned:

Blue Letter Bible App

This is also an app you can download to your phone.

The Bible Knowledge Commentary by John F. Walvoord

(aff link)

You can connect with Janioris here:

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FemByJanioris Instagram

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Today we are talking about the connection between a mother's feelings of burnout and her seemingly lost libido!

I am chatting with Cierra Tipton, a reformed angry mom and Motherhood Burnout Coach about what motherhood burnout is, how it impacts a marriage, and how we can recover!

You can connect with Cierra here:

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Reclaimed Mama Mornings
Coaching
Biblical Self Care for Moms

In this episode I reference a Marriage Hierarchy of Needs Pyramid from the book: The Marriage You Want by Sheila Wray Gregoire.

I also referenced Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski - this is so worth reading!

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Do you feel more intimate with your spouse after a conflict? If you are doing it right, you SHOULD! I'm chatting with Nicole Lee, license marriage and family therapist, licensed professional counselor, and certified sex therapy-informed professional today about Conflict Intimacy! But really, y'all know how we roll here. There was a lot of fun, and a lot of ADHD!

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Heart & Honey Counseling Facebook

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Her Journal:
1+1=3, You, Me, & Our Relationship

She is licensed in PA, so if you need someone to teach you to conflict well, and you are in PA, hit her up!

In the chat, she mentions the work of the Gottmans. If you haven't read The Seven Principles of Making Marriage Work, I highly recommend it!

I want to add my own note here. In Evangelical circles conflict is sometimes extra spicy because of theological issues. If you think one of you needs to have the final vote in conflicts and disagreements, and that is causing stress in the marriage, I encourage you to check out the new book, The Marriage You Want, as it addresses those issues!

And don't forget my 31 Days of Intimacy!

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Are you ready to become a better flirt (with your spouse, of course!)? Ready to up your sexting game!? Brittany Broaddus-Smith, international Sexologist, and founder of The Intimacy Firm, is ready to teach you in this week's episode!

A few things we talked about in episode:

Marriage PLAYdate

You can find Brittany's Erotic Communication Blueprint in the Help We Don't Have Enough Sex Workshop she did for husbands here (and the episode for wives here)!

You can reach Brittany through her website!

My Sex Journal, Intimate Conversations, is available here.

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If you've followed my socials for any length of time, you know I talk about sex as the celebration of intimacy you've established before you ever reach the bedroom - and there are 13 types of intimacy you can experience in marriage.

One of those intimacies is parenting intimacy, and today we are talking to Kristi Crosson, Jai Certified Parenting Coach about how our parenting impacts the intimacy in our marriage.

If you are ready to get on the same parenting page, and need some support to do so, don’t hesitate to reach out to Kristi, her links are below:

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Children’s Book: My Room is Too Messy

Children’s Book: I’m Not Ready for Bed

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I mentioned another podcast in this episode about a study on women consenting to unwanted sexual touch. You can find that on the show Sex Therapy 101 with Cami Hurst.

Other parenting resources:

Flourishing Homes & Families

Mr. Chazz

Destini Ann

The Occuplaytional Therapist

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Did you know that women raised in purity culture are TWICE AS LIKELY to experience female sexual dysfunction as their non-purity culture counterparts?

One such issue is vaginmisnus - and in this episode we discuss what it is, what causes it, and how it can be treated!

Dr. Leslie had me as a guest on her podcast, and you can find that episode here!

You can reach out to Dr. Leslie through her website, her IG, or her Facebook!

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"How do I talk to my kids about sex without the shame and trauma of purity culture?" is one of my most frequently asked questions. So I brought in Ashley Hudson, LCSW to help answer it!

We cover everything from sex education beginning at birth, to talking to your kids about masturbation, so buckle in - today is a wild ride!

A few notes on today's podcast:

I recommended the book She Deserves Better - you can get it here.

At one point I reference a song - I said "Hall and Oates" - it is not - is Garfunkel and Oates, and I had apparently repressed how offensive the song potentially is. If you are easily offended, do NOT look it up - for those of who now want to hear it even more - it is called "The Loophole." I warned you. Don't yell at me.

We also mentioned in this episode the books Good Pictures, Bad Pictures and Good Pictures, Bad Pictures, Jr. for talking about pornography with your kids. You can get them here and here.

Ashley recommended the following books and resources for more information:

Shameless Parenting by Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers

Sex, God, and the Conservative Church by Tina Schermer Sellers

Recovering from Purity Culture by Dr. Camden Morgante

Sexual Shame: An Urgent Call to Healing by Karen A. McClintock

I recommended Body Boundaries, Consent, and Respect by Jayneen Sanders

You can also check out my whole recommended list of books for talking to your kids about sex here.

Make sure you are following Ashley everywhere, and reach out to her for therapy services if you are in CO, TX, or NC!

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Did you know that a wedding ring is not automatic consent for sex, or any specific sexual activity in a Christian marriage?

We should be seeking to obtain consent for specific activities, as well as each sexual encounter.

In this episode, we talk about ways to discuss consent, without "ruining the mood"!

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