Story time! I'm sharing a personal story from my early triathlon days that still shapes how I coaches lifters today. What started as a scary open-water swim became a powerful lesson about progress, patience, and why perfection is not required to move forward.

In this episode, you'll reframe how you think about missed workouts, imperfect weeks, and all-or-nothing thinking in fitness. If you've ever felt like skipping one session meant you blew it, this episode offers a grounding reminder: that forward progress counts, even when it doesn't look pretty.

What you'll learn in this episode:

• Why stopping completely doesn't get you any closer to your goals – but imperfect effort does

• How all-or-nothing thinking quietly sabotages long-term strength training consistency

• What "just keep swimming" really looks like inside a lifting program

• Why flexibility is a skill – not a lack of discipline

• How minimum effective effort can keep momentum alive during hard seasons

• What strength training consistency actually looks like for women over 40

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If I could go back and talk to beginner-me in 2010, there are a handful of strength training lessons I would absolutely whisper in her ear. Not because I did everything wrong, but because so much frustration, second-guessing, and spinning my wheels could've been avoided with a little context and coaching.

In this episode, I'm reflecting on more than 15 years of consistent lifting, coaching, and learning the hard way. Whether you're brand new to strength training, a few years in, or coming back after a break, these lessons will help you train smarter, progress more confidently, and stop getting stuck in common traps that hold so many women back, especially after 40.

What you'll learn in this episode:

• Why chasing "perfect form" can quietly stall your strength progress

• How staying in your comfort zone with weights limits adaptation over time

• What the research actually says about rep ranges for muscle growth

• Why recovery becomes a non-negotiable as we get older

• A surprisingly simple way to gauge whether your sets are hard enough

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Is it really never too late to start strength training – even if you're in your 80s and you've never touched a barbell? You'll hear from journalist Clare Johnston of the "Rebuilding Mum and Dad" project, about what happens when older adults begin true progressive strength training from scratch – and why the results can feel straight-up miraculous (without being magic).

Clare shares how her parents started lifting in their 80s after years of mobility decline, osteoporosis concerns, and "we've tried everything" frustration. Together, they built a simple garage setup, worked with a coach remotely, and documented the entire journey. If you've ever wondered whether muscle, bone density, balance, and independence can improve later in life, this conversation is for you.

What you'll learn in this episode:

• What actually happens when someone starts strength training for the first time in their 80s

• Why muscle keeps showing up in every serious conversation about aging well

• What surprised Clare the most once her parents started lifting regularly

• How slow progression and coaching changed what seemed "impossible" at first

• What this journey reveals about fear, confidence, and who strength training is really for

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If you've been feeling like women's fitness over 40 is a nonstop back-and-forth debate - like you're courtside at Wimbledon watching the ball whip from one hot take to another - you're not imagining it. Social media is loud right now, especially when it comes to what women should or shouldn't be doing in midlife. That noise can make it hard to trust your instincts or know what actually matters for building strength and aging athletically.

In this episode, I'm joined by strength for hypermobility & nutrition coach Nikki Naab-Levy. Together, we unpack the most confusing fitness narratives floating around right now and give you context that brings you back to center court so you feel confident, grounded, and clear on what works.

• What if "feeling the right muscle" isn't the best way to judge your lift?

• Are you training for strength… or just training to get tired?

• Do rest periods actually matter, or is that all overblown?

• If hypertrophy works across a huge rep range, how do you choose what you should do?

• What happens when aesthetic fears collide with long-term strength and aging well?

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Life is life-ing especially in midlife. One day you're fired up, smashing your lifts, and thinking the whole week will be a highlight reel; two days later you're sleep-deprived, stressed, and wondering who parked a bus on your quads. In this episode, you'll learn a structured-yet-flexible strategy to use with your lifting to ride the wave of real-life energy swings so you can keep showing up, build muscle, and actually enjoy the process.

We'll break down how to anchor your week with strength, layer in cardio, and use auto-regulation (RPE/RIR) to dial intensity up or down without ditching your plan or your progress. If you're an athletic woman 40+ navigating perimenopause, career, caregiving, and sport hobbies, this practical framework will help you train smarter, recover better, and stay consistent long term.

• Why the "go hard every day" mindset backfires once you hit your 40s and what to focus on instead.

• The approach that keeps lifters consistent even when life is chaos.

• How to tell if it's a day to push or pull back without second-guessing your training plan.

• The simple two-day strength & cardio framework that delivers results without burning you out.

• The mindset shift that turns "I missed a workout" guilt into sustainable long-term progress.

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If you've ever heard a coach say "it's not wrong, but it's not right either," you'll resonate with this episode. Dive into the nuance that gets lost in punchy social media hot takes – especially for athletic women over 40 who want strength, muscle, and better performance without the fluff.

Get insight into why your progress may feel stuck, what to do about it, and how to build muscle with less frustration. Get practical coaching on progressive overload, program hopping, hypertrophy, auto-regulation, and why DIY training isn't actually "free."

• What happens when you've been lifting for a while… but the weights (and results) haven't really changed?

• Why "switching things up" might be the reason you're stuck in place.

• The truth behind words like toned, sculpted, and long and lean and what they really mean for your training.

• How chasing the number on the scale can quietly derail your performance and progress.

• The real cost of trying to make up your own workouts, and what it's stealing from your gains.

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Life doesn't always respect your perfectly planned training week. If you're a woman over 40 following a strength training program, you might be juggling sleep swings, work crunches, hormonal shifts, caretaking, and everything in between. This episode breaks down how to keep your momentum without falling into the all-or-nothing trap so you still get a damn good training stimulus on busy days.

Steph explains a simple framework for structured flexibility – keeping the big-picture plan while adapting the day's session. You'll learn three practical ways to modify workouts using RPE / RIR, so you can train smarter, protect progress, and stay consistent in midlife.

• Why "all or nothing" thinking keeps sabotaging your strength progress after 40

• The simple shift that lets you keep momentum even when life gets chaotic

• Three creative ways to make workouts shorter without losing results

• How to know if you're still training hard enough on those scaled-back days

• The mindset reframe that makes consistency possible long-term

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Feeling like the Tin Man when your feet hit the floor – and winded on a single flight of stairs – doesn't have to be "just your 40s." In this episode, we call BS on the idea that midlife means inevitable decline and lays out a clear, doable plan for rebuilding strength, muscle, and pep in your step over the next six months. No doom and gloom here – just evidence-informed training that respects your real life.

You'll learn exactly how to structure your workouts for results: which compound lifts to prioritize, how to sprinkle in isolation work the smart way, and why adding power and plyometrics helps you feel quick and athletic again. We'll also touch on where cardio fits for women over 40 so you can train wisely without living in the gym.

• The base of your lifting should be this

• Should you do cardio with your lifting?

• Why avoiding power work or impact over 40 backfires

• When to use isolation exercises

• Why 6 day a week bro splits aren't working for women 40+

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Ready to have the plan done for you – with full-body strength, smart power progressions, and cardio that actually fits your life? Grab a 7-day sample of Strong with Steph at stephgaudreau.com/workout – then join the program and let Steph lay it out so you can just open the app and lift.