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From Betrayal To Breakthrough

From Betrayal To Breakthrough

著者： Dr. Debi Silber
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 The betrayal of a family member, partner, friend, etc. can create physical, mental and emotional challenges. If left unhealed, it impacts us personally and professionally. The From Betrayal to Breakthrough podcast shares insights from the best therapists, coaches, healers, thought leaders and everyday people, combined with the findings of a recent Ph.D. study on betrayal to help you move forward and heal...once and for all.Debi Silber ©2025 個人的成功 心理学 心理学・心の健康 自己啓発 衛生・健康的な生活
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  • Episode 470: The Wall That Protected You Is Now Your Prison

    Episode 470: The Wall That Protected You Is Now Your Prison
    2026/04/20
    TRIGGER WARNING: CHILDHOOD SEXUAL ABUSE In this powerful and important episode, Dr. Debi sits down with Chris Yadon, Executive Director of Saprea, a nonprofit dedicated to the prevention of childhood sexual abuse (CSA) and healing for survivors. Chris shares his own journey — growing up amid instability, learning to emotionally numb as a child — and how that personal experience became the foundation for his professional mission at Saprea. Together, Dr. Debi and Chris explore why childhood sexual abuse is such a uniquely devastating betrayal: in 80% of cases, the perpetrator is someone the child knows and trusts. They unpack the psychology of trauma bonding, betrayal blindness, and why survivors often don't recognize the abuse as abnormal until young adulthood. Chris explains the three forces that keep CSA under-reported — shame, trauma bonding, and perpetrator threats — and why these silencers persist well into adulthood. They also discuss the lasting impacts of unhealed childhood sexual abuse, including sobering statistics: 85% of survivors who don't address their trauma will develop a mental health disorder by age 30, and survivors are three times more likely to attempt suicide than the general population. From substance use to eating disorders, anxiety to depression, the cost of not healing is profound — and it shows up at work, in relationships, and in every corner of life. Chris shares Saprea's prevention model, the role parents and caregivers play in reducing risk on both sides, and how healing can begin at any age. He closes with a beautiful, hope-filled story of Kaya Noah — a survivor whose emotional walls came down in a snowfall — and three memorable takeaways about connection, community, and courage. If you or someone you love is a survivor, this episode carries a clear and compassionate message: healing is possible. And the resources are free. 🔗 Learn more: saprea.org 📌 Find Chris on LinkedIn or Substack: search "Yadon" Dr. Debi sits down with Chris Yadon of Saprea to explore childhood sexual abuse — what makes it so psychologically damaging, why it stays hidden, how it shows up in adult relationships and the workplace, and most importantly, how healing is possible at any age.
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    33 分
  • 469: What Do You Want to Be When You Grow Up?

    469: What Do You Want to Be When You Grow Up?
    2026/04/13
    In this reflective solo episode, Dr. Debi Silber shares an unexpected gift that came from a two-week battle with pneumonia — the forced stillness to ask herself one of life's most enduring questions: What do you want to be when you grow up? With her daughter's wedding just days away, Dr. Debi opens up about how illness slowed her down enough to take stock of what she's outgrown, what she's still settling for, and what she truly wants in this season of life. The result is a warm, honest, and deeply practical conversation about becoming more intentional — with your time, your energy, your relationships, and yourself. In This Episode, You'll Hear: Why the question "What do you want to be when you grow up?" deserves a second (and third) look — at every age What a recent unprepared interview guest taught Dr. Debi about standards and saying no The "Sit in the Seat" game Dr. Debi played with her family — and what it revealed about how she actually shows up The yes/no confusion that keeps so many of us stuck — and how to start untangling it How to use your body as a meter for who and what is truly good for you The "cake ingredients" framework: what you're putting into your life, and why the outcome makes perfect sense Why we become more of whatever we already are as we age — and why that's both a warning and an invitation Reflection Questions from This Episode: What have you outgrown? What are you still settling for? What do you want your life to look, feel, and sound like now? What are you saying yes to — and what does that force you to say no to? If your highest and best self were watching, what would she say? Key Insight: "It starts with awareness. The next step is action." Connect with Dr. Debi Silber: 🌐 thepbtinstitute.com 📲 Follow on social: @DebiSilber 🎙️ Subscribe to From Betrayal to Breakthrough wherever you listen to podcasts If this episode resonated with you, Dr. Debi would love to hear from you — what do YOU want to become more of as you grow?
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    20 分
  • 468: From Stuckness to Self-Love: A Journey Through the Stages

    468: From Stuckness to Self-Love: A Journey Through the Stages
    2026/04/06
    In this deeply personal episode, Dr. Debi Silber is joined by her daughter Camryn for a candid, behind-the-scenes conversation about what it really looks like to get stuck in Stage Three — not because of a betrayal by someone else, but through our own patterns, thoughts, and avoidance. Camryn's story is one of extraordinary intelligence, world travel, and deep self-awareness ultimately leading to the most important journey of all: inward. If you've ever wondered what Stage Three looks and feels like from the inside — or suspected that your coping strategies might actually be keeping you stuck — this episode is for you. Meet Camryn Holds a Master's degree with a background in psychology Multilingual and a seasoned world traveler Deep empath with a gift for feeling collective emotion Now living in Asia — a move born from genuine inner clarity, not escape Camryn has always been the kind of person who sees the world differently — comfortable in spaces of authenticity (nature, animals, children, the elderly) and deeply uncomfortable with the masks and performance of social life. As a teenager, she deleted social media entirely because of how it made her feel. That instinct, long before it was a cultural conversation, tells you everything about who she is. Key Themes & Takeaways What Stage Three Really Looks Like Stage Three — that place of surviving but not thriving — doesn't always look like suffering from the outside. Sometimes it looks like adventure. Camryn's version of Stage Three involved living in different countries, absorbing languages and cultures, sleeping in hostels, spending every dollar on experiences. From the outside: impressive. From the inside: a beautifully camouflaged method of avoiding herself. Dr. Debi draws a powerful parallel: just as some people numb with TV, alcohol, or overwork (all things that can look productive), Camryn's distraction was world travel — something that genuinely fed her AND kept her from staying still long enough to look inward. The Belief That Starts It All Dr. Debi shares one of her most-used teaching examples: a little boy with exciting news, shushed by his mother on the phone. In that moment, he might decide: "I don't matter." From there, everything confirms it — the car that cuts him off, the door that closes in his face. That core belief shapes who he dates, what he accepts, what he tolerates. The takeaway: we all carry a story. The work is finding out what story we've been telling ourselves — and whether it's true. Escaping Yourself (And Why It Doesn't Work) No matter where you go, you take your thoughts with you. Camryn describes the experience of arriving somewhere new — forced to think differently because the environment demanded it — and then slowly, inevitably, watching the same unhealed patterns creep back in. The breakthrough moment came before a planned move to New Zealand. A quiet, honest question: What do you think New Zealand is going to do for you? The answer was nothing. And that nothing was everything. The New Zealand Moment: Recognizing the Pattern This is the kind of moment that changes things. Not dramatic. Not loud. Just a pause, a look between mother and daughter, and a recognition that the pattern had been named. That's the beginning of Stage Four — when the fog lifts just enough to see what's been happening. Fear vs. Intuition: How to Tell the Difference One of the most practical and powerful parts of this conversation: how do you know if a decision is coming from your gut or from your fear? Camryn shares her process — sitting with a decision, asking whether the pull is expansive or constricting, whether it comes from the head (noisy, arguing, rationalizing) or something quieter and steadier underneath. The mind can convince you of anything. Intuition doesn't need to argue. She also shares the question she comes back to when facing a big decision: What would my oldest self have wanted? That question cuts through the noise of other people's opinions, social pressure, and fear. Honoring Others' Opinions — Without Being Ruled by Them When Camryn decided to move across the world from a close, loving family, there were feelings. Dr. Debi shares honestly that it wasn't "don't go" — it was "we'll miss you." And Camryn learned to hold that with love, express gratitude for the input, take her time, and then follow her own inner compass anyway. This is self-love in action. Not selfishness. Knowing yourself well enough to trust what you know. Being an Empath: Gift and Challenge Camryn is a deep empath — someone who doesn't just sympathize but actually feels the emotional energy of people around her, including collective pain. This explains so much: her comfort with children and animals (no judgment, no masks), her discomfort with performative social ...
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    40 分
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