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  • E19: Working with Love Addiction, Limerence, Guilt, Shame & Disorganized Attachment using IFS Therapy & Parts Work - Akiva's Session
    2025/10/23

    In this episode, I help Akiva unpack and do a piece of healing around her persistent love addiction, limerence, guilt, shame, Disorganized Attachment & Relationship OCD using the Internal Family Systems Therapy Model. Watch Akiva go from a shut down, dissociated state to being able to access her parts and do a piece of healing, leading her to feel a lot better at the end.

    Upcoming workshop "Bridging the Divide Within" https://www.rocdcourse-forloveweheal.com/sales-page-page

    Need one-to-one therapy or coaching? Book a Free Discovery Call - https://forloveweheal.com/relationshipocd-therapy/

    Questions? Email me - alex@forloveweheal.com

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    1 時間 11 分
  • E18: Profound Change from Avoidant Attachment to Openness with IFS Therapy - Kleo's Session & Exploring Relationship OCD (ROCD), Disorganized Attachment, Avoidant Attachment, Inner Resistance & more!
    2025/10/16

    In this episode, Kleo shares her journey of navigating Relationship OCD (ROCD) and Disorganized Attachment. During our session, we worked on helping Kleo connect with her avoidant parts, something she had long resisted due to the intense overwhelm these parts often triggered. In the past, their activation would lead to spirals of anxiety, helplessness, and eventually depression.

    By gently reassuring these parts and creating a sense of safety, we were able to facilitate a profound moment of healing. This episode offers an intimate look into the therapeutic process, illustrating how IFS Therapy can guide us toward deep emotional transformation, self-understanding, and resilience.

    Upcoming workshop "Bridging the Divide Within" https://www.rocdcourse-forloveweheal.com/sales-page-page

    Need one-to-one therapy or coaching? Book a Free Discovery Call - https://forloveweheal.com/relationshipocd-therapy/

    Questions? Email me - alex@forloveweheal.com

    Check out my Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/forloveweheal/

    Read My Articles on Substack - https://substack.com/@forloveweheal

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    51 分
  • E17: Chronic Anxiety, ROCD, Disorganized Attachment & Abandonment Healing - Andriy's Session
    2025/10/08

    In this episode, I help Andriy explore a chronic anxiety that he's been experiencing for most of his life, in addition to Relationship OCD and Disorganized Attachment. By focusing on this anxiety, Andriy was able to connect with a one and a half year old inner child that was abandoned by his mother due to her own mental health issues. Through Andriy bringing compassion and presence to this part of him, this inner child received the physical contact and loving embrace that he has been seeking for years.

    Need support? Book a Free Discovery Call - https://forloveweheal.com/relationshipocd-therapy/

    Check out my Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/forloveweheal/

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    36 分
  • E15: Relationship OCD (ROCD), Infatuation, Limerence & Disgust - Grace's Session
    2025/10/01

    In this powerful episode, I sit down with Grace, who courageously shares her journey of living with and healing from Relationship OCD (ROCD). Grace captures the wild oscillation between fantasy, infatuation, and limerence and intense disgust, anxiety, and obsessive thinking, which has gotten considerably better with all the healing work she has been doing over the years.

    If you've ever experienced any of this or you’ve ever wondered, “Am I in the right relationship?" or "Do I really love my partner?" then this episode is for you!

    Don't forget to leave me a comment, hit like, and subscribe, as it really helps!!

    If you would like to get on the waiting list for my upcoming 6-week ROCD healing circles, please send me an email at alex@forloveweheal.com

    Read My Articles on Substack - https://substack.com/@forloveweheal

    Book a Free Discovery Call - https://forloveweheal.com/relationshipocd-therapy/

    Check out my Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/forloveweheal/

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    1 時間 9 分
  • E16: Relationship OCD (ROCD) and the Shame that Fuels it - Emily's Session
    2025/09/29

    In this session, Emily shares her struggles with ROCD that began in her early years. We explored themes of guilt, shame, and the fear of making mistakes, which are deeply rooted in her past experiences, including family dynamics and personal relationships. Through our conversation, we discussed how these feelings impact her current relationship and how shame is really at the root of her obsessions, compulsions, and the oscillation between "stay" and "leave." The session concluded with a hopeful message about the power of love and the importance of perseverance.

    Have a question? Send me an email - alex@forloveweheal.com

    Read My Articles on Substack - https://substack.com/@forloveweheal

    Book a Free Discovery Call - https://forloveweheal.com/relationshipocd-therapy/

    Check out my Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/forloveweheal/

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    55 分
  • E14: "Two Weeks in, She Became Hideous," ROCD, Disorganized Attachment - Devin's Story
    2025/09/22

    In this episode, Devin discusses his experiences with Relationship Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (ROCD), which often manifests as feelings of disgust or lack of attraction towards his partners. He describes how these feelings can be sudden and intense, leading to confusion and anxiety about the relationship. Devin shares that these emotions are not necessarily reflective of the partner or the relationship itself but are symptoms of ROCD, which can distort his perception, creating a lot of anxiety and doubt.

    View this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/A_XL3c_cIpY

    If you would like to get on the waiting list for my upcoming 6-week ROCD healing circles, please send me an email at alex@forloveweheal.com

    Read My Articles on Substack - https://substack.com/@forloveweheal

    Book a Free Discovery Call - https://forloveweheal.com/relationshipocd-therapy/

    Check out My Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/forloveweheal/

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    1 時間 28 分
  • E13: Working Through Relationship OCD, Attraction and Intelligence Themes - Molly's Session
    2025/09/04

    In this conversation, Molly shares her journey with Relationship OCD (ROCD) and how it has impacted her relationships, particularly with her husband. She discusses the patterns of infatuation and fear of commitment, the role of attachment, and the challenges of vulnerability in her marriage. The conversation delves into childhood influences on her attachment style and the healing process she is undergoing, including the importance of self-compassion and embracing her authentic self. The session culminates in a therapeutic exploration of her feelings of humiliation and the journey towards joy and openness.

    Links:

    Watch our Session on YouTube - https://youtu.be/1DV8caHT85E

    Read My Articles on Substack - https://substack.com/@forloveweheal

    Book a Free Discovery Call - https://forloveweheal.com/relationshipocd-therapy/

    Check out My Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/forloveweheal/

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    54 分
  • E12: Fearful Avoidant Attachment, Numbness & Disconnection - Christine's Session
    2025/09/01

    In this episode of the For Love We Heal podcast, Christine shares her journey with Fearful Avoidant attachment. She discusses the complexities of emotional connection, the impact of trauma, and the role of intuition and spirituality in her healing process. The conversation delves into the cycles of numbness and disconnection that arise in relationships, the importance of self-discovery through therapy, and the challenges of being neurodivergent. Christine emphasizes the significance of acknowledging and caring for vulnerable parts of oneself while exploring the balance between protective mechanisms like masking and authentic self-expression. The episode concludes with reflections on the journey of healing and the choices we make in our relationships.

    Want to be a guest on the podcast? Email me at alex@forloveweheal.com

    Want to work with us? Book a free discovery call: https://forloveweheal.com/relationshipocd-therapy/


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    1 時間 6 分