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Signaling

I want to tell you about something men do every single day without realizing it, and it's costing them.

You know the type. Angry on threads. Furious that nothing's working. Convinced women want a man who's six feet tall, has a six-pack, and pulls six figures. Blaming everyone but the signal he's actually sending.

He's not unlucky. He's broadcasting.

In this episode I get into:

Why every male in the animal kingdom has been signaling since the beginning of time, and why men are no different

The story men tell themselves about what women want, and why it's wrong

What you're actually broadcasting when you're angry online instead of building something

The real order of what matters: kindness first, not last

The "who pays" debate, and what it reveals about both of you

I dated for forty-one years before I got any of this right myself, so believe me, I've seen every version of this signal, sent and missed.

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Sharon Jenkins found me through ChatGPT of all things, reached out cold, and has been one of my favorite people ever since. She's back on the show today, and she's bringing an invitation.

She's turning 70 this year, and she'll tell you so without flinching. She'll also tell you exactly why that's the point.

Sharon has built a singles conference called Love On Purpose, October 9th and 10th in Houston, and I'm one of the speakers. What she's after isn't a room full of people hoping to bump into someone. It's something she calls being properly postured, and if you've ever bristled at the word "pursuit," her distinction is worth hearing.

In this conversation we get into:

Why so many of us give up on love without ever deciding to, and what Sharon means when she says make hope alive again

The difference between pursuing and positioning, which lets you off a hook you may not have known you were on

What I'll be teaching in Houston, and why my Dating Safely program looks different this year

The two objections I hear more than any others from women over 50, and the question I'd like you to ask about both of them

What actually happens over the weekend, including the exercise where somebody who loves you stands up and tells a room why you're a catch

And Sharon's guarantee, which is bolder than most people would dare to make

Also a conversation about what it costs to invest in love, and the number nobody adds up: what it costs to do nothing at all.

Love On Purpose is October 9th and 10th, 2026, in Houston, Texas. Find everything at loveonpurpose.fun

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The Man Goggles

I want to tell you about a pair of glasses you might be wearing without realizing it.

You know the scan. Walking into any room and running the assessment. Checking his left hand before you've checked his face. Deciding whether the hardware store was a good idea after all.

You're conducting surveillance.

In this episode I get into:

Why you started doing this in the first place, and why it isn't your fault

The difference between being open and being on duty, which is a much bigger difference than it sounds

What it does to your energy when you never get to clock out.

I dated for forty-one years before I married for the first time at fifty-eight, so believe me, I wore those glasses.

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