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Are you checking your phone 40 times a day? Re-reading his last message, trying to figure out what he really meant? Building a whole future out of three dates?

That's not love. It's limerence.

In this episode, I explain what limerence is, the signs to watch for, and why it can feel so much bigger than it really is.

In this episode:

• What limerence means and why it's so often mistaken for love
• The signs: intrusive thoughts, over-analyzing everything he says, and a mood that depends on whether he's in contact
• Fantasizing about a future with someone you barely know
• The physical symptoms, like your stomach dropping when the phone rings
• Why limerence runs hottest when the other person is inconsistent
• How uncertainty keeps the intensity burning
• Why a steady, available man can feel like the "lesser" choice
• What real love feels like by comparison

The intensity you're feeling is not proof that he's the one. It may only mean he's unpredictable.

Real love is steadier. It's calmer. You're not wondering, you're not analyzing, and you're not having to build a case.

So the next time it feels enormous, ask yourself: Is this intensity about him, or is it not knowing where I stand?

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