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Welcome back to Self-Represented in Family Court! In this Season 3 opener, Tracey Bee (your host, former family law attorney, mediator, and strategist) sets the stage for the most empowering season yet. After a summer of building new tools, connecting with advocates, and expanding her nonprofit, Tracey is ready to dive into fresh conversations on empowerment, strategy, technology, and advocacy for self-represented litigants.

What You’ll Hear in This Episode:

• Why empowerment is the theme of Season 3, and how it can shift your case and mindset.
• The hard truths about Family Court, the bias, dysfunction, and injustice, and why you can’t afford to “just give up.”
• A new spiritual component incorporated into her work as a strategist which will help restore faith.
• Sneak peek into guest features: vetted professionals, proactive litigants, and maybe even retired judges.
• Special announcements:
  • Free AI Workshop – How to Use AI to Beat the Rigged Family Court System (Sept 24 @ 6PM EST via Zoom).
  • VIP Add-On ($77) – Limited to 10 spots, with live Q&A, exclusive tools, and course discounts.
  • Wednesday Office Hours – Free calls with Tracey (9:30AM–4PM EST).

Episode Timeline

• 00:00 – 01:00 | Welcome back! Why strategy is everything.
• 01:00 – 03:00 | Season 3 focus: empowerment + tools for self-represented litigants.
• 03:00 – 07:00 | Why giving up is not an option (Tracy’s NYC fighter mindset).
• 07:00 – 10:00 | Spiritual and practical practices for staying grounded.
• 10:00 – 13:00 | New this season: guest appearances from vetted professionals & pro se advocates.
• 13:00 – 21:00 | Big announcement: Free AI workshop + $77 VIP add-on.
• 21:00 – 23:00 | Wednesday Office Hours: free strategy calls for new voices.
• 23:00 – 26:00 | Call to action: Subscribe, share with 10 people, and suggest future topics.

This season is about empowerment, persistence, and practical strategy. If you’re pro se—or even represented but want to be more proactive, you’ll find hope and hardcore strategy here.

🔗 Sign up for the free AI Workshop here: https://attractwell.com/TheDivorceSolutionist/page/using-ai-to-beat-a-rigged-family-court-system

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Family Court can be traumatic! And trying to handle your case on your own can be even more catastrophic. There are twists & turns at every stage that you need to be aware of and to prepare for. Having a solid Gameplan and someone to help you execute it effectively can make all the difference in the Universe (not just the world.) We know all about the bias, corruption, and dysfunction being handed out by the system. We just want you to have a fighting chance by leveling the playing field.

Need help in handling your Family Court case on your own?

We have services that are specifically geared toward helping self-represented litigants like you understand the common mistakes that lead to the most disappointing outcomes.

To find out more about our services and to stay informed of our FREE workshops by joining our email & visit us at www.TheDivorceSolutionist.com.

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In this insightful episode your host, Tracey Bee, founder of The Divorce Solutionist, former family law attorney, and your go-to pro se strategist — pulls back the curtain on one of the most misunderstood tools in the family court system: mediation.

Though often seen as a peaceful alternative to litigation, mediation is not a guaranteed fix especially for self-represented litigants. With her trademark candor and deep legal insight, Tracey shares why strategy must be at the core of every mediation attempt, and how blindly entering into mediation could cost you more than you realize — financially, emotionally, and in terms of your case outcomes.

From cost myths to hidden risks, Tracey emphasizes the importance of knowing your why, having a strategic plan, and vetting your mediator just as carefully as you would a lawyer. Whether you’re court-mandated to try mediation or considering it as a conflict-resolution tool, this episode will reshape how you view the entire process.

Key Topics Covered:

• Why Tracey supports mediation — when used strategically
• Common misconceptions: Mediation isn't always faster or cheaper
• When mediation isn’t the right move
• Real talk: $20,000+ mediation bills and what went wrong
• How to vet a mediator and prepare like a pro
• Mediation in co-parenting: setting the stage for long-term collaboration
• Why the “cost-saving” narrative doesn’t always apply to pro se litigants
• Strategy first: How to use mediation to set yourself up for success — not more conflict
• The different types of mediators and why credentials matter
• Power imbalances, DV history, and red flags to watch for

Tracey’s Takeaway:
You don’t need to avoid mediation — but you do need to approach it with clarity, preparation, and a game plan. Pro se doesn’t mean powerless — it means you need to be even more intentional.

🎧 Tune in now and learn how to make mediation work for you — not against you.

Support the show

Family Court can be traumatic! And trying to handle your case on your own can be even more catastrophic. There are twists & turns at every stage that you need to be aware of and to prepare for. Having a solid Gameplan and someone to help you execute it effectively can make all the difference in the Universe (not just the world.) We know all about the bias, corruption, and dysfunction being handed out by the system. We just want you to have a fighting chance by leveling the playing field.

Need help in handling your Family Court case on your own?

We have services that are specifically geared toward helping self-represented litigants like you understand the common mistakes that lead to the most disappointing outcomes.

To find out more about our services and to stay informed of our FREE workshops by joining our email & visit us at www.TheDivorceSolutionist.com.

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The family court battlefield can feel overwhelming, but in this episode, Tracey Bee is arming you with a secret weapon: workarounds. Designed for pro se litigants and anyone looking to take charge of their case, we’re unpacking clever, strategic alternatives to navigate the system without breaking the bank or losing your sanity. Fresh off last week’s deep dive into divorce professionals, Tracy shifts gears to show you how to sidestep—or supplement—those costly services with practical, game-changing solutions.

We’ll cover:

• Workarounds for attorneys—like limited-scope roles, mediation, or document preparers
• Budget-friendly alternatives to forensic accountants, from DIY financial sleuthing to affordable apps
• Sidestepping guardian’s ad litem or custody evaluators with solid evidence and smart prep
• Co-parenting hacks that don’t require pricey coordinators (hint: mindset matters)
• How to leverage free resources, from financial literacy webinars to online tools like Glassdoor

With over two decades of family law wisdom, Tracey delivers actionable tips to boost your confidence and control, whether you’re dodging exorbitant fees or outsmarting courtroom curveballs. Plus, snag her free PDF workaround checklist/guide by emailing tracey@thedivorcesolutions.com or divorcecoachesq@gmail.com—your roadmap to staying strategic and empowered.

Episode Chapters:

• Introduction - 00:00
• Recap of Previous Episode: Divorce Professionals - 00:54
• Workarounds for Self-Represented Litigants - 02:46
• Cost-Effective Alternatives to Legal Professionals - 06:47
• Exploring Therapy Alternatives - 16:11
• Real Estate and Vocational Evaluations - 18:30
• Co-Parenting Strategies and Mindset Shifts - 21:39
• Custody Evaluations - 24:13

Tune in now, grab a notebook, and get ready to kick ass in family court with Tracey by your side.

Need more information on how I can help you? Feel free to schedule a FREE 15 min call at www.calendly.com/divorcecoachesq/15min

Support the show

Family Court can be traumatic! And trying to handle your case on your own can be even more catastrophic. There are twists & turns at every stage that you need to be aware of and to prepare for. Having a solid Gameplan and someone to help you execute it effectively can make all the difference in the Universe (not just the world.) We know all about the bias, corruption, and dysfunction being handed out by the system. We just want you to have a fighting chance by leveling the playing field.

Need help in handling your Family Court case on your own?

We have services that are specifically geared toward helping self-represented litigants like you understand the common mistakes that lead to the most disappointing outcomes.

To find out more about our services and to stay informed of our FREE workshops by joining our email & visit us at www.TheDivorceSolutionist.com.