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Are you a business owner, freelancer, or 1099 contractor navigating divorce without a lawyer? In this episode of Self-Represented in Family Court, Tracey B. dives into the unique challenges—and real opportunities—for self-employed individuals handling their own divorce or custody cases.

Whether you're running an LLC, consulting on the side, or juggling multiple streams of income, this conversation is for YOU. Tracey breaks down how your financial structure impacts your divorce, what documents you must have ready, and how to shift your business mindset into legal strategy mode.

📌 Topics covered:

✅ When being Pro Se does and doesn't make sense

✅ Mindset shifts needed for business owners going through divorce

✅ Key legal and financial documents to organize

✅ How to protect your credibility and assets without a lawyer

✅ The truth about representing yourself in high-conflict divorce situations

Whether you’re just starting to think about divorce or already deep in the process, this episode is packed with valuable insights to help you make informed decisions.

🎧 Tune in now and learn how to get the right support for your journey.

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Family Court can be traumatic! And trying to handle your case on your own can be even more catastrophic. There are twists & turns at every stage that you need to be aware of and to prepare for. Having a solid Gameplan and someone to help you execute it effectively can make all the difference in the Universe (not just the world.) We know all about the bias, corruption, and dysfunction being handed out by the system. We just want you to have a fighting chance by leveling the playing field.

Need help in handling your Family Court case on your own?

We have services that are specifically geared toward helping self-represented litigants like you understand the common mistakes that lead to the most disappointing outcomes.

To find out more about our services and to stay informed of our FREE workshops by joining our email & visit us at www.TheDivorceSolutionist.com.

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The way divorce services are delivered is evolving, and in this episode, we’re diving into the major shifts happening in the industry. From legal professionals and paralegals to divorce coaches and financial organizers, we explore the different types of support available and how they can help you navigate your divorce more effectively.

We’ll discuss:
✅ The role of attorneys and when to seek legal consultation
✅ How financial professionals, like bookkeepers, can help you stay organized
✅ The rise of divorce coaches—who’s actually helpful and who’s not
✅ The importance of mental health professionals in the divorce process
✅ How to build a strong case as a pro se litigant

Whether you’re just starting to think about divorce or already deep in the process, this episode is packed with valuable insights to help you make informed decisions.

🎧 Tune in now and learn how to get the right support for your journey.

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Family Court can be traumatic! And trying to handle your case on your own can be even more catastrophic. There are twists & turns at every stage that you need to be aware of and to prepare for. Having a solid Gameplan and someone to help you execute it effectively can make all the difference in the Universe (not just the world.) We know all about the bias, corruption, and dysfunction being handed out by the system. We just want you to have a fighting chance by leveling the playing field.

Need help in handling your Family Court case on your own?

We have services that are specifically geared toward helping self-represented litigants like you understand the common mistakes that lead to the most disappointing outcomes.

To find out more about our services and to stay informed of our FREE workshops by joining our email & visit us at www.TheDivorceSolutionist.com.

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Have you ever wondered if representing yourself in family court is the right move for you, your family or your goals ?

In this episode, I dive into the complexities of self-representation in family court cases. Using my experience as a former family law attorney and mediator, I’ll share my insights on when it makes sense to handle your case on your own and when it’s best to seek professional legal help.

What You'll Learn:

• Understanding Self-Representation: Explore why more individuals are choosing to self-represent, especially in the wake of the pandemic.
• The Bold Move: Discover why self-representing is a courageous choice and the factors that might drive individuals to represent themselves.
• Key Factors to Consider: Learn about the six critical factors that can influence whether self-representing is a suitable option for your case.
• The Role of Research: Emphasis on the importance of conducting thorough research and how it plays a crucial role in successful self-representation.
• Effective Communication: Understanding how to communicate clearly and efficiently is key when self-representing in court.
• Case Types and Complexity: Different case types and complexities can impact the decision to self-represent—Tracey breaks down what you need to know.
• Avoiding Pitfalls: Avoid common traps and mistakes when considering self-representation, especially in high-conflict cases.
• Resources and Support Systems: Identifying available resources and building a strong support system can make or break your self-representation journey.
• Long-term Implications: Consider how your representation choices today can affect future family court cases and outcomes.

If you want to take my quiz to determine if self-representing is for you, feel free to get it here.

If you need help understanding the results of the quiz or preparing for any stage of your pro se divorce/custody case, don’t forget to schedule a FREE 15 min call TODAY.

📚 Timestamped overview

00:00 DIY in Family Court?

04:38 Self-Handling Legal Cases Options

08:09 Paid Legal Advice is Best

10:54 Problem-Solving in Legal Cases

14:59 Litigation Challenges in Family Law

19:25 High Conflict Cases: Escalation Dynamics

21:29 Lawyer Influence in Conflict Cases

27:41 Pro Se Risks in Family Court

32:02 Attorney Vetting Services Offered

33:18 Contact and Resources Summary

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Family Court can be traumatic! And trying to handle your case on your own can be even more catastrophic. There are twists & turns at every stage that you need to be aware of and to prepare for. Having a solid Gameplan and someone to help you execute it effectively can make all the difference in the Universe (not just the world.) We know all about the bias, corruption, and dysfunction being handed out by the system. We just want you to have a fighting chance by leveling the playing field.

Need help in handling your Family Court case on your own?

We have services that are specifically geared toward helping self-represented litigants like you understand the common mistakes that lead to the most disappointing outcomes.

To find out more about our services and to stay informed of our FREE workshops by joining our email & visit us at www.TheDivorceSolutionist.com.

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Is Your Lawyer Crossing the Line? Ethical or Unethical Practices in Family Court

Do you trust your lawyer's motivations and methods? It's time to take a deeper look. In today’s episode, we dissect the fine line between ethical and unethical practices by lawyers in family courts, especially when emotions and tensions run high.

This episode dives into a contentious issue many overlook or misunderstand: how lawyers maneuver within family court settings. I invite you to explore the behind-the-scenes tactics that could alter the trajectory of your case, revealing how the actions of your lawyer and their counterparts can impact your family court experience.

What You'll Learn:

• The ethical boundaries lawyers must adhere to when contacting parties, and what to do when those lines are blurred.
• Distinguishing between unprofessional and unethical practices by family lawyers.
• Why your lawyer’s approach can make or break your case – and how to determine if they are truly on your side.
• The importance of understanding ethical rules specific to your jurisdiction and the challenges of filing complaints.
• The critical role of strategy in self-representation, even when represented by counsel.
• How to effectively use AI in family court, when it can be beneficial, and the potential pitfalls.
• Why family court is akin to a chess game and the necessity of preparing for your opponent's moves.
• The emotional and professional dynamics influencing family lawyers’ performance in court.

📚 Timestamped overview

00:00 Unethical Lawyer Contact Controversy

05:01 Lawyer Texting Clients: Ethical Concerns

09:17 Filing Complaints Against Lawyers

10:36 Challenges of Pro Se Litigants

14:45 Filing Complaints Against Lawyers

19:20 Question Your Legal Strategy

23:25 Unethical Lawyer Impact Explained

26:31 Lawyers' Challenges in Family Cases

29:54 "Strategize: Filing Complaints Wisely"

33:48 Empowering Family Court Course

37:02 Lifetime Access Family Court Course

38:18 Family Court Strategy Insights

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Family Court can be traumatic! And trying to handle your case on your own can be even more catastrophic. There are twists & turns at every stage that you need to be aware of and to prepare for. Having a solid Gameplan and someone to help you execute it effectively can make all the difference in the Universe (not just the world.) We know all about the bias, corruption, and dysfunction being handed out by the system. We just want you to have a fighting chance by leveling the playing field.

Need help in handling your Family Court case on your own?

We have services that are specifically geared toward helping self-represented litigants like you understand the common mistakes that lead to the most disappointing outcomes.

To find out more about our services and to stay informed of our FREE workshops by joining our email & visit us at www.TheDivorceSolutionist.com.

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In this episode of Self Represented in Family Court, I’m diving deep into the power of strategy in family court proceedings. Whether you're representing yourself or working with legal counsel, having a solid strategy—and the right support—is key to navigating this complex system successfully.

Family court isn't something you should go through alone. In this episode, I’ll break down the different types of support—emotional, financial, and beyond—that help you stay focused and objective. From professionals to community groups and online resources, having the right people in your corner can make all the difference.

What You’ll Learn:

🔹 How to identify and embrace support systems that strengthen your emotional, mental, and physical well-being.
🔹 The importance of setting realistic short-term and long-term goals to stay on track.
🔹 Why understanding the other party’s objectives can help you position your case strategically.
🔹 How to recognize and navigate external challenges using available resources.
🔹 The importance of having a contingency plan in place for unexpected situations.
🔹 Creative ways to find support—whether through personal connections, online groups, or local resources.
🔹 The dangers of isolation during court proceedings and how to avoid them.
🔹 Why emotional stability is crucial in court and how strong support systems can help you maintain clarity and focus.
🔹 How online and in-person support groups can provide a sense of community and shared experience.

Join me as I break down these essential strategies and share insights to help you move through family court with confidence and support.

📚 Timestamped overview

00:00 "Family Court Strategy & Support"

06:50 Strategic Planning and Resource Utilization

09:11 Prepare Support for Family Court

11:59 Seeking Support Through Various Channels

16:49 Divorce Support Meetup Groups

21:21 Finding Suitable Support Resources

22:36 Caution: Avoid Unqualified Legal Advice

25:41 Family Court Strategy Podcast

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Family Court can be traumatic! And trying to handle your case on your own can be even more catastrophic. There are twists & turns at every stage that you need to be aware of and to prepare for. Having a solid Gameplan and someone to help you execute it effectively can make all the difference in the Universe (not just the world.) We know all about the bias, corruption, and dysfunction being handed out by the system. We just want you to have a fighting chance by leveling the playing field.

Need help in handling your Family Court case on your own?

We have services that are specifically geared toward helping self-represented litigants like you understand the common mistakes that lead to the most disappointing outcomes.

To find out more about our services and to stay informed of our FREE workshops by joining our email & visit us at www.TheDivorceSolutionist.com.

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Navigating family court can deplete you of every ounce of energy, every sense of sanity and every dime you have, especially when you're representing yourself. In my latest episode of Self Represented in Family Court, I spend time going into details about the realities of managing legal costs and share practical workaround tactics to minimize or avoid some of these costs. Having a clear understanding of the legal costs associated with your Family Court case should be an integral part of your overall strategy.

📌 Here’s what you’ll take away:

• Understand All Potential Costs: From filing fees to process server charges and mediation expenses, it’s important to plan ahead for the financial aspects of your case. Knowing what to expect can help you avoid delays or surprises along the way.
• Use Legal Consultations Efficiently: Free consultations often only scratch the surface. Instead, invest in at least two paid consultations with reputable attorneys. It’s worth it to get tailored advice and a variety of perspectives for your case.
• Strategically Allocate Your Resources: Whether it’s hiring a private investigator, using specialized apps, or working with a strategist, focus your spending on the tools and services that will have the biggest impact on your case outcome.

Tune in to learn more about strategies that include how to navigate the enormous legal costs, how to gain the confidence you need to present the best case possible despite these costs and how to create the best Gameplan incorporating these costs.

📚 Timestamped overview

00:00 Family Court Legal Costs Overview

03:52 Assessing Costs in Decision-Making

07:57 Affordable Legal Consultations Guide

10:29 Process Server Costs Explained

15:45 Court Mediation Costs and Alternatives

19:46 First Court Appearance: Temporary Orders Explained

21:49 Gathering Evidence for Court Cases

24:46 FOIA Request Costs Explained

28:44 Caution: Choosing Coaches and Experts

33:45 Strategic Moves to Avoid Regret

36:03 Court Fees Challenge for Pro Se Litigants

40:40 Beware Emotional Financial Decisions

42:42 Trial Stage: Scrutiny and Preparation

45:36 Cost Challenges of Legal Appeals

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Family Court can be traumatic! And trying to handle your case on your own can be even more catastrophic. There are twists & turns at every stage that you need to be aware of and to prepare for. Having a solid Gameplan and someone to help you execute it effectively can make all the difference in the Universe (not just the world.) We know all about the bias, corruption, and dysfunction being handed out by the system. We just want you to have a fighting chance by leveling the playing field.

Need help in handling your Family Court case on your own?

We have services that are specifically geared toward helping self-represented litigants like you understand the common mistakes that lead to the most disappointing outcomes.

To find out more about our services and to stay informed of our FREE workshops by joining our email & visit us at www.TheDivorceSolutionist.com.

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Do you think representing yourself in family court is an uphill battle or a strategic advantage? Well, it's both—and more. In this episode, I’m going to uncover the nuances of navigating family court as a pro se or self-represented litigant. I’ll dive deep into the concept of pro se representation, sharing the difference between those who choose to represent themselves and those who are forced into it.

From the personal toll it can take to the systemic challenges you’ll face, I’m offering guidance on maneuvering through family court without formal legal representation. But remember, this content is here to support you, not replace legal advice.

📚 Timestamped overview

00:00 Not legal advice, just assisting lawyered clients.

03:15 2024 reflection led to personal and professional reassessment.

07:09 Navigating family court cases when self-represented.

10:04 Pro se often means self-representing by necessity.

15:42 Pro se by choice requires various skills.

17:19 Exploring pro se options before hiring attorneys.

22:57 Strategic skills vital for decision-making, communication.

25:36 Nationwide family court statistics are often unreliable.

28:55 Avoid social media advice; it's often unhelpful.

32:51 Helping clients emotionally through family court challenges.

33:46 Pro se rewarding if skilled at researching.

39:25 Choosing between new attorney or pro se representation.

42:39 Experienced in family court's flaws and realities.

45:09 Strategizing pro se litigants without legal advice.

Family court can feel like a labyrinth of complexities, with each case presenting its own set of challenges and strategic opportunities. Tune in to gain valuable insights that could make all the difference in your family court journey.

Stay tuned for future episodes where I’ll continue to unravel the intricacies of self-representation in family court. And don’t forget to visit www.thedivorcesolutionist.com to schedule your free 15-minute strategy call!

Support the show

Family Court can be traumatic! And trying to handle your case on your own can be even more catastrophic. There are twists & turns at every stage that you need to be aware of and to prepare for. Having a solid Gameplan and someone to help you execute it effectively can make all the difference in the Universe (not just the world.) We know all about the bias, corruption, and dysfunction being handed out by the system. We just want you to have a fighting chance by leveling the playing field.

Need help in handling your Family Court case on your own?

We have services that are specifically geared toward helping self-represented litigants like you understand the common mistakes that lead to the most disappointing outcomes.

To find out more about our services and to stay informed of our FREE workshops by joining our email & visit us at www.TheDivorceSolutionist.com.

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In this episode, we confront a critical yet often overlooked aspect of domestic violence: coercive control. As a form of abuse that manipulates an individual's freedom and decision-making, coercive control includes behaviors like monitoring spending, isolating victims from social interactions, and controlling personal movements. Originating from Dr. Evan Stark’s work on power dynamics in relationships, this form of abuse has recently gained legal recognition.

We're highlighting how states like California are pioneering efforts to address coercive control in family courts, facing significant challenges and inconsistencies. Despite laws criminalizing coercive control in about ten states, its practical impact on family court decisions is still evolving. We'll discuss California's rebuttable presumption against granting custody to proven abusers and the broader implications of DV in custody battles.

Join us as we shed light on the complexities and shortcomings of the current family court system, advocate for better integration of coercive control legislation, and provide strategies for those affected by domestic violence to navigate these tumultuous legal waters.

📚 Timestamped overview

00:00 Coercive control's impact limited in family courts.

07:06 Coercive control broader than existing abuse categories.

09:57 Ten states criminalize coercive control as abuse.

12:08 Domestic violence impacts custody and visitation decisions.

18:02 Coercive control convictions vary, complicating criminal process.

19:06 Connecticut specifies coercive control; family court varies.

24:20 Application of law differs; judge discretion critical.

27:33 Judges' roles vary; no one-size-fits-all solution.

31:08 October focus: Domestic violence awareness; upcoming topics.

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Family Court can be traumatic! And trying to handle your case on your own can be even more catastrophic. There are twists & turns at every stage that you need to be aware of and to prepare for. Having a solid Gameplan and someone to help you execute it effectively can make all the difference in the Universe (not just the world.) We know all about the bias, corruption, and dysfunction being handed out by the system. We just want you to have a fighting chance by leveling the playing field.

Need help in handling your Family Court case on your own?

We have services that are specifically geared toward helping self-represented litigants like you understand the common mistakes that lead to the most disappointing outcomes.

To find out more about our services and to stay informed of our FREE workshops by joining our email & visit us at www.TheDivorceSolutionist.com.