Just when you've finally built trust with a case worker, therapist, or visit supervisor...they're gone.

If you've been in foster care for any length of time, you know the feeling. You're explaining the history all over again, rebuilding relationships, and wondering if anyone else remembers what your child has already been through.

In this episode, we share some very real frustrations from our own current foster care journey and talk honestly about the constant turnover that seems to define the system. We discuss why it happens, why it hurts so much, and some practical ways foster parents can survive the revolving door without becoming cynical.

Most importantly, we remind ourselves that while people come and go, Jesus never changes. Your consistency may be one of the greatest gifts a child ever experiences.

Whether you're a foster parent, adoptive parent, or someone who simply wants to better understand the challenges families face, we hope this conversation encourages you to keep showing up faithfully, right where you are.

In This Episode

• Why turnover is so common in foster care

• The emotional toll of constantly rebuilding relationships

• Why documentation can become one of your greatest tools

• Leading with grace while still holding people accountable

• The importance of staying child focused

• How new people can sometimes bring fresh perspective and renewed hope

• Why Christ remains our foundation when everything else changes

Scripture

Hebrews 13:8

"Jesus Christ is the same yesterday and today and forever."

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Music Credit

"Paradise Found" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)

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Summer is supposed to be the season of slowing down, making memories, and enjoying extra time together as a family.

But for many foster, adoptive, and biological families, summer can quickly feel overwhelming. The routines disappear. The schedules change. The snacks never end. The laundry piles up. The house is never quite clean. And somehow everyone is hungry again twenty minutes after they just ate.

In this episode, Jason and Whitney share an honest conversation about navigating summer as foster parents raising a large family. From managing camps, appointments, technology, and chores to handling emotional dysregulation, changing routines, and the unique challenges children from hard places often face, they discuss practical ways to survive the summer season while still enjoying it.

Summer can be especially challenging for children who thrive on predictability. For many foster and adoptive families, the structure provided by school creates a sense of safety and stability. When that routine suddenly disappears, children may struggle with increased anxiety, emotional outbursts, boredom, or behavioral challenges. At the same time, parents often feel pressure to create the "perfect summer" filled with activities, trips, and memorable experiences.

Jason and Whitney challenge that mindset by encouraging families to focus less on perfection and more on connection. Some of the most meaningful memories are often found in the simplest moments: family walks, backyard adventures, jumping on the trampoline in the rain, or spending uninterrupted time together.

In This Episode:

• Why summer can feel more difficult than expected for foster and adoptive families

• The importance of balancing freedom with structure

• How routines create safety and stability for children

• Why boredom can actually be healthy and productive

• Managing technology and encouraging creativity

• Practical tips for camps, appointments, transportation, and scheduling

• Pool safety reminders every parent should hear

• Setting healthy boundaries and protecting your family's peace

• Why children often remember simple moments more than expensive experiences

• How to create meaningful summer memories without exhausting yourself

Our Challenge For You This Week

Take a few minutes as a family and ask a simple question:

What do we want this summer to feel like?

Not what you want to spend. Not what you want to accomplish. Not what everyone else is posting on social media.

What memories do you want to make? What family rhythms do you want to build? What moments of connection do you want to create?

Then choose one simple step this week that moves your family in that direction.

Maybe it's a family walk. Maybe it's a backyard movie night. Maybe it's a tech-free evening. Maybe it's simply being more present with your children.

The most meaningful summers are rarely the busiest ones.

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Music Credit

"Paradise Found" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)

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What Happened After We Said Yes To Foster Care

Eight years ago, we said yes to foster care.

At the time, we had no idea how much that simple decision would change our lives. We couldn't have imagined the children who would come through our home, the adoptions that would follow, the reunifications we would celebrate, or the lessons God would teach us along the way.

For our 50th episode, we're taking a step back and sharing the story behind Dream Small.

What began after the heartbreak of a miscarriage eventually led us into foster care. We talk about how we first became licensed, what it was like welcoming our very first placement, the trauma that opened our eyes to realities we had never fully understood, and the moments that shaped our family over the past eight years.

Along the way, we've welcomed 14 foster placements into our home, adopted three incredible children, experienced both heartbreak and joy, and learned that God often works through ordinary acts of obedience.

In this episode, we share the hardest parts of foster care, the beautiful moments that made it worthwhile, the importance of community, and why we continue to trust God with whatever comes next.

Whether you've been listening since the beginning or you're brand new to Dream Small, this episode is the most complete version of our story we've ever shared.

In This Episode

• How a miscarriage helped launch our foster care journey

• Why we chose foster care before adoption

• The story of our first placement and the lessons that changed us forever

• What we've learned from eight years of foster care

• The hardest realities foster families face

• The beauty of reunification, adoption, and healing

• How community carried us through difficult seasons

• Why saying yes to God changed our family forever

• The Scriptures that sustained us throughout the journey

• The story behind the name Dream Small

Key Scriptures

Galatians 6:9

Luke 16:10

2 Corinthians 4:18

Romans 12:1

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Music Credit

"Paradise Found" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)

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