30 years ago we married the men we divorced.

Clearly that wasn't the plan, but we have been through a LOT, and we sure have learned a lot. Whether you're thinking about it, going through it or coming out of being divorced, we have lessons we've learned and want to share, so you have an easier time than we did. Plus, we have so much good going on, that it'll give you a bright light to see at the end of your tunnel!

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Are you often doing things where you're influenced by the judgments and decisions of other people? We know what that's like - especially when it comes to everything you're going through and navigating when you're getting divorced. Everyone seems to have an opinion on what you should do.

In this episode, T.H. and Jess talk about Mel Robbins' new book "The Let Them Theory," and ways to keep going on your own path, while letting everyone else stay in their own lane.

Giving up control in your divorce and from your ex is the only way to move forward. Of course, we talk about how incredibly hard that is! We always want to be loved more, cared for more and seen as the best parent - but that's the problem!

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We're starting 2025 by giving ourselves - and you! - what we're calling permission to pivot. Things change, life, kids, relationships, jobs, what makes us happy...and it's important to always listen to yourself and be true to what your guts is saying. What once worked may change, and that's ok! In this episode, T.H. talks to one of our OG exEXPERT faves, Susan Guthrie, about permission to pivot and how we're making some changes and focusing on things that bring us joy (and money!) in a different way. It's a reminder that you don't always have to stay in the same place, because life moves quickly and you have every right to take advantage of every opportunity. (Guest: Susan Guthrie, host "Turns Out" podcast, Family Law attorney & mediator).

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