There is a woman in the Bible whose story reads like it could have been posted on Twitter yesterday. Her name is Leah. And she is the Bible's original pick me.

In this episode of Dear Single Christian Girl KB reads through the full Leah and Rachel passage from Genesis and stops to comment on every moment — because there is so much in this story that every Christian woman in 2026 needs to hear.

We talk about what Leah was really doing when she named her sons after desperate hopes that Jacob would love her. We talk about the moment she literally hired her own husband with mandrake plants just to spend a night with a man she was already married to. We talk about what pick me culture looks like in 2026 and why it is the exact same spirit as Leah's — playing wife before you have the ring, making yourself easy to avoid losing him, getting pregnant hoping it will secure him, competing with other women for a man who has not declared himself to anyone.

And then we talk about the most powerful moment in Leah's entire story. The moment she stopped performing and started praising God. And what God did with that surrender that literally changed the course of human history — because from that moment came the lineage of Jesus Christ.

Because you were never meant to earn love. You were created to receive it. And this episode is going to show you the difference. 💛

This episode is for you if you are:

💛 A single Christian woman who has been performing, producing or making yourself small to try to earn a man's love

💛 Someone who has been playing wife before you have the ring and wondering why it is not working

💛 Tired of competing for the attention of someone who has not chosen you

💛 Ready to stop auditioning for love and start walking in your God-given worth

💛 Looking for a Christian podcast for single women that goes deep into scripture and makes it completely relevant to your real life today

Because Leah's story is four thousand years old. And it is playing out in situationships and group chats and bedrooms all over the world right now. Let's talk about it. 💛

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In this episode of Dear Single Christian Girl KB gets into one of the most important and most avoided conversations in the church today. Why do Christian women keep falling prey to spiritually gifted but deeply wicked men? And how do you make sure you are never one of them?

The episode starts with the story of Mica Miller — the 30 year old worship leader and pastor's wife whose tragic death is now the subject of the Netflix documentary Death of the Pastor's Wife. A woman who loved God, served faithfully and deserved to be safe. She was not. And her story is not as rare as we want to believe.

From there KB gets into the real conversation. The critical difference between gifts of the Spirit and fruit of the Spirit and why a man can be genuinely anointed and genuinely abusive at the same time. The five specific patterns that lead Christian women into dangerous relationships with spiritually gifted but untransformed men — focusing on gifts instead of fruit, worshipping the title, over-spiritualising red flags, the saviour complex and protecting his image at the cost of your own safety. And the most important question you will ever ask about a man — not is he a Christian, not is he a pastor, not is he anointed — but is he transformed?

Because the gifts will impress you from a distance. The character is what you will live with every single day. And you deserve both. 💛

This episode is for you if you are:

💛 A single Christian woman who wants to make sure she never mistakes gifts for character

💛 Someone who has been in or witnessed a relationship with a spiritually gifted but deeply broken man

💛 A woman who has been over-spiritualising red flags and needs permission to call them what they are

💛 Someone who watched the Netflix documentary Death of the Pastor's Wife and needs to process what it raised

💛 Any Christian woman who wants to learn how to vet for transformation not just for anointing

This episode contains discussions of domestic abuse and suicide. Please be gentle with yourself as you listen. 💛

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How do you know he is the one God has for you? How do you resist compromise when the reasons to compromise are genuinely good? And how do you balance real emotions and loneliness with faith while trying to stay content?

Three of the biggest questions single Christian women carry — answered honestly, biblically and without filter in Round 3 of the Dear Single Christian Girl Q&A series.

We talk about why good reasons to compromise are the most dangerous kind and what Joseph and Potiphar's wife teaches us about reverence for God. We talk about why faith and emotions are not enemies and why David is the greatest biblical example of emotional honesty before God. And we talk about how to vet someone against the Word of God before you even take them to prayer, how to use 1 Corinthians 13 as a practical relationship vetting tool and what the inner witness of the Holy Spirit actually feels like when it comes to knowing the right one.

This episode is for you if you are:

💛 A single Christian woman wrestling with whether to compromise on something you know matters

💛 Struggling with loneliness and trying to stay content while holding onto faith

💛 Wondering how to know whether the person you are with or considering is actually God's will for your life

💛 Looking for honest biblically grounded answers to the questions most Christian content is too afraid to address

💛 Ready to stop asking vague questions and start getting real practical spiritual answers

Because you deserve truth delivered with love. And that is exactly what this episode is. 💛

New episodes every Saturday. Q&A every last Saturday of the month where KB answers your real questions about faith identity relationships and life as a single Christian woman.

The streets are wild out here. And dating as a Christian woman in 2026 is not for the faint hearted.

In Part 2 of this special guest dating series KB and her friend Morayo get into the real conversation about how to date intentionally and godly in a culture that is doing everything possible to pull you in the opposite direction.

They talk about the "we are just hanging out" situation and why vagueness has no place in intentional Christian dating. They talk about what to do when someone says they are seeing you but also seeing other people. They talk about how culture has slowly redefined dating and how that is creeping into the church. And they talk about what godly intentional dating actually looks like in practice — with clarity, with standards and with God at the centre of the whole process.

Because the streets are wild. But you do not have to be lost in them. 💛

This episode is for you if you are:

💛 A single Christian woman trying to figure out how to date with intention in a culture that has made everything vague and undefined

💛 Tired of situationships and talking stages that go nowhere

💛 Wondering how to hold your standards when everyone around you seems to have dropped theirs

💛 Someone who wants to date in a way that honours God without feeling like you are from another planet

💛 Looking for a Christian podcast for single women that keeps it honest real and biblically grounded

Because godly intentional dating is still possible in 2026. And this episode is going to show you exactly what it looks like. 💛

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KB turns 28 and decided to give YOU a gift.

In this very special episode of Dear Single Christian Girl KB shares 28 things she desperately wants every single Christian girl to know. 21 lessons came straight from her own heart — on faith, identity, purpose, relationships, healing, self worth and life as a whole. And 7 came from 7 incredible women who poured their own wisdom into this episode.

But this episode is not just a birthday episode. Today also marks the ONE YEAR ANNIVERSARY of Dear Single Christian Girl. One year of showing up every Saturday. One year of having the conversations the church was too afraid to have. One year of building a community of single Christian women who are choosing to thrive and not just survive their single season.

28 years. 28 lessons. 0 filter. This one is for you. 💛

This episode is for you if you are:

💛 A single Christian woman who needs someone to tell her the truth about faith life and relationships with love and zero filter

💛 Someone who has been following Dear Single Christian Girl and wants to celebrate one year of this community

💛 A woman who needs 28 reminders that she is seen valued purposeful and deeply loved by God

💛 Looking for a Christian podcast for single women that goes deep keeps it real and never talks down to its listeners

💛 Anyone who needs a word today — because this episode has 28 of them

Happy birthday KB. And happy anniversary Dear Single Christian Girl. Here is to many more Saturdays together. 💛

New episodes every Saturday. Q&A every last Saturday of the month.

Is Christian dating dead in 2026? KB and her friend Morayo are having the honest conversation that most Christian content is too afraid to have.

In Part 1 of this special two part guest episode of Dear Single Christian Girl KB sits down with Morayo to talk about what dating as a Christian woman actually looks like in 2026. They talk about dating in your 30s and what that experience is really like. They talk about dating apps — whether they are worth it, what to watch out for, and the wild story of how Morayo almost got scammed on one.

They talk about whether Christian men are still pursuing or whether that culture has quietly died. They talk about societal pressure and how culture is gradually creeping into the church and changing how Christians date. And they talk about why intentional dating matters and why so many people have stopped practicing it.

This is Part 1. Part 2 drops next Saturday and covers how to actually date the right way as a Christian woman in 2026. Subscribe so you do not miss it.

This episode is for you if you are:

💛 A single Christian woman trying to navigate dating in 2026 and feeling confused by it all

💛 Someone who has tried dating apps and is not sure what to make of them

💛 Wondering whether Christian men are still pursuing or whether that is a thing of the past

💛 Feeling the pressure of dating in your 30s as a Christian woman

💛 Looking for a Christian podcast for single women that keeps it honest real and biblically grounded

Because dating as a Christian in 2026 is complicated. And you deserve a space where someone is talking about it honestly. 💛

New episodes every Saturday. Q&A every last Saturday of the month.

This is the Q&A nobody was ready for. And we are having it anyway.

In this special guest Q&A episode of Dear Single Christian Girl KB is joined by her friend Mariah to answer three of the most real, most raw and most necessary questions this community has sent in yet.

A pastor said that a woman who fornicates is spoiled — but a man who does the same thing is not. We talk about that double standard, what the Bible actually says about holiness and whether it applies differently to men and women, and the honest conversation about adoption and what it means to parent from a place of healing rather than hurt.

A man wrote in about tribal marriage pressure from his mother and being born out of wedlock. We talk about parental expectations, cultural pressure and how to navigate a situation where the people you love are pushing you in a direction that may not align with God's will for your life.

And someone is in a relationship where the feelings have faded. They do not want to hurt their partner but their heart is no longer there. We talk about when to pull the bandaid off early and when to press through — and most importantly how to tell the difference between a temporary season and a permanent incompatibility.

This is the conversation the church needs to have. Honest, loving, biblically grounded and completely unfiltered. 💛

This episode is for you if you are:

💛 A single Christian woman who has been hurt by the double standards she has seen in the church around purity and fornication

💛 Someone navigating tribal or cultural marriage pressure from family

💛 In a relationship where your feelings have changed and you do not know what to do

💛 Looking for a Christian podcast for single women that goes to the real places and does not shy away from hard conversations

💛 Someone who wants honest biblically grounded answers to the questions most Christian content avoids

New episodes every Saturday. Q&A every last Saturday of the month where KB and sometimes a special guest answer your real questions about faith identity relationships and life as a single Christian woman.

You have a list of everything you want in a partner. But have you written the most important list of all?

In this episode of Dear Single Christian Girl KB gets into the conversation most people are too comfortable to have. Everyone is focused on finding the right person. But almost nobody is asking whether they are becoming the right person. And today we are changing that.

We talk about what the word suitable actually means in Genesis 2:18 and why not every Christian is suitable for every other Christian. We talk about the qualities list and why having one is not wrong but focusing only on it is dangerous. We talk about what you actually attract and why you mostly draw the kind of person you are becoming not just the kind of person you are praying for. We talk about healing and why God can send you the most wonderful person and if you are unhealed you will bleed on them and damage something beautiful. And we introduce the becoming list — the practical exercise that will completely change how you approach your single season.

This episode also includes the real story of a guy who wanted to marry a prayerful woman so she could pray for the family — because he was too busy to pray himself. And another sister with almost the exact same experience. Because this is more common than we think and it needs to be addressed.

The man you are praying for is also a son of God. God loves him too much to hand him to someone who is not ready for him. And God loves you too much to let you enter something you are not prepared for. That is not punishment. That is protection.

This episode is for you if you are:

💛 A single Christian woman who has a long list of qualities you want in a partner but has never turned the mirror on herself

💛 Someone who wants a whole healed partner but has not done their own healing work

💛 Ready to stop just praying for the right person and start becoming the right person

💛 Looking for a Christian podcast for single women that keeps it real honest and biblically grounded

💛 A woman who wants to arrive at her future relationship whole prepared and ready

Because the most powerful thing you can bring to your future relationship is not a perfect past. It is a prepared present.

New episodes every Saturday. Q&A every last Saturday of the month where KB answers your real questions about faith identity relationships and life as a single Christian woman.