You have a list of everything you want in a partner. But have you written the most important list of all?

In this episode of Dear Single Christian Girl KB gets into the conversation most people are too comfortable to have. Everyone is focused on finding the right person. But almost nobody is asking whether they are becoming the right person. And today we are changing that.

We talk about what the word suitable actually means in Genesis 2:18 and why not every Christian is suitable for every other Christian. We talk about the qualities list and why having one is not wrong but focusing only on it is dangerous. We talk about what you actually attract and why you mostly draw the kind of person you are becoming not just the kind of person you are praying for. We talk about healing and why God can send you the most wonderful person and if you are unhealed you will bleed on them and damage something beautiful. And we introduce the becoming list — the practical exercise that will completely change how you approach your single season.

This episode also includes the real story of a guy who wanted to marry a prayerful woman so she could pray for the family — because he was too busy to pray himself. And another sister with almost the exact same experience. Because this is more common than we think and it needs to be addressed.

The man you are praying for is also a son of God. God loves him too much to hand him to someone who is not ready for him. And God loves you too much to let you enter something you are not prepared for. That is not punishment. That is protection.

This episode is for you if you are:

💛 A single Christian woman who has a long list of qualities you want in a partner but has never turned the mirror on herself

💛 Someone who wants a whole healed partner but has not done their own healing work

💛 Ready to stop just praying for the right person and start becoming the right person

💛 Looking for a Christian podcast for single women that keeps it real honest and biblically grounded

💛 A woman who wants to arrive at her future relationship whole prepared and ready

Because the most powerful thing you can bring to your future relationship is not a perfect past. It is a prepared present.

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