There is a woman in the Bible whose story reads like it could have been posted on Twitter yesterday. Her name is Leah. And she is the Bible's original pick me.

In this episode of Dear Single Christian Girl KB reads through the full Leah and Rachel passage from Genesis and stops to comment on every moment — because there is so much in this story that every Christian woman in 2026 needs to hear.

We talk about what Leah was really doing when she named her sons after desperate hopes that Jacob would love her. We talk about the moment she literally hired her own husband with mandrake plants just to spend a night with a man she was already married to. We talk about what pick me culture looks like in 2026 and why it is the exact same spirit as Leah's — playing wife before you have the ring, making yourself easy to avoid losing him, getting pregnant hoping it will secure him, competing with other women for a man who has not declared himself to anyone.

And then we talk about the most powerful moment in Leah's entire story. The moment she stopped performing and started praising God. And what God did with that surrender that literally changed the course of human history — because from that moment came the lineage of Jesus Christ.

Because you were never meant to earn love. You were created to receive it. And this episode is going to show you the difference. 💛

This episode is for you if you are:

💛 A single Christian woman who has been performing, producing or making yourself small to try to earn a man's love

💛 Someone who has been playing wife before you have the ring and wondering why it is not working

💛 Tired of competing for the attention of someone who has not chosen you

💛 Ready to stop auditioning for love and start walking in your God-given worth

💛 Looking for a Christian podcast for single women that goes deep into scripture and makes it completely relevant to your real life today

Because Leah's story is four thousand years old. And it is playing out in situationships and group chats and bedrooms all over the world right now. Let's talk about it. 💛

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In this episode of Dear Single Christian Girl KB gets into one of the most important and most avoided conversations in the church today. Why do Christian women keep falling prey to spiritually gifted but deeply wicked men? And how do you make sure you are never one of them?

The episode starts with the story of Mica Miller — the 30 year old worship leader and pastor's wife whose tragic death is now the subject of the Netflix documentary Death of the Pastor's Wife. A woman who loved God, served faithfully and deserved to be safe. She was not. And her story is not as rare as we want to believe.

From there KB gets into the real conversation. The critical difference between gifts of the Spirit and fruit of the Spirit and why a man can be genuinely anointed and genuinely abusive at the same time. The five specific patterns that lead Christian women into dangerous relationships with spiritually gifted but untransformed men — focusing on gifts instead of fruit, worshipping the title, over-spiritualising red flags, the saviour complex and protecting his image at the cost of your own safety. And the most important question you will ever ask about a man — not is he a Christian, not is he a pastor, not is he anointed — but is he transformed?

Because the gifts will impress you from a distance. The character is what you will live with every single day. And you deserve both. 💛

This episode is for you if you are:

💛 A single Christian woman who wants to make sure she never mistakes gifts for character

💛 Someone who has been in or witnessed a relationship with a spiritually gifted but deeply broken man

💛 A woman who has been over-spiritualising red flags and needs permission to call them what they are

💛 Someone who watched the Netflix documentary Death of the Pastor's Wife and needs to process what it raised

💛 Any Christian woman who wants to learn how to vet for transformation not just for anointing

This episode contains discussions of domestic abuse and suicide. Please be gentle with yourself as you listen. 💛

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How do you know he is the one God has for you? How do you resist compromise when the reasons to compromise are genuinely good? And how do you balance real emotions and loneliness with faith while trying to stay content?

Three of the biggest questions single Christian women carry — answered honestly, biblically and without filter in Round 3 of the Dear Single Christian Girl Q&A series.

We talk about why good reasons to compromise are the most dangerous kind and what Joseph and Potiphar's wife teaches us about reverence for God. We talk about why faith and emotions are not enemies and why David is the greatest biblical example of emotional honesty before God. And we talk about how to vet someone against the Word of God before you even take them to prayer, how to use 1 Corinthians 13 as a practical relationship vetting tool and what the inner witness of the Holy Spirit actually feels like when it comes to knowing the right one.

This episode is for you if you are:

💛 A single Christian woman wrestling with whether to compromise on something you know matters

💛 Struggling with loneliness and trying to stay content while holding onto faith

💛 Wondering how to know whether the person you are with or considering is actually God's will for your life

💛 Looking for honest biblically grounded answers to the questions most Christian content is too afraid to address

💛 Ready to stop asking vague questions and start getting real practical spiritual answers

Because you deserve truth delivered with love. And that is exactly what this episode is. 💛

New episodes every Saturday. Q&A every last Saturday of the month where KB answers your real questions about faith identity relationships and life as a single Christian woman.