Join us on the Curious Curmudgeon podcast as we explore the multifaceted journey of parenting through life transitions. With nearly two decades of experience raising children, we reflect on our transition into parenthood and the continuous evolution that comes with each stage of our children's lives. From the sleepless nights of infancy to the bittersweet moments of preparing our children for college, we share invaluable lessons learned, the shifting priorities over time, and the wisdom and humility gained along the way. Discover the relentless changes that define parenting and the values that have become more precious to us, along with our hopes for the future.

Listen in as we discuss the steep learning curve and shift in responsibilities that accompany early parenthood, highlighting the importance of teamwork and mutual support. As our children grow, we explore the dynamics of parenting through their elementary and middle school years, focusing on the challenges and joys of guiding them through social situations, developmental changes, and the quest for self-identity. We emphasize the significance of maintaining open communication, setting clear expectations, and balancing high standards with forgiveness and mercy. Through personal anecdotes, we highlight the meaningful conversations that provide glimpses of growth and grace amidst the chaos.

As our children transition to high school and beyond, we address the unique challenges of nurturing their independence while fostering critical thinking and individuality. We share our experiences of parenting with humility and prayer, emphasizing the importance of consistent faith and openness about our shortcomings. Tune in for engaging discussions about the pressures of air travel with toddlers, the need for understanding and grace towards parents, and the importance of supporting children in discovering their identities. Join us for thought-provoking insights and a bit of entertainment on the Curious Curmudgeon podcast.

Leaving a church is never a simple decision. Remember when we had to make that tough call? We felt the emotional and spiritual weight bearing down on us, wrestling with whether it was the right time to move on. This episode is all about those moments—whether you're leaving due to painful experiences or positive life changes, we’ve got strategies to ensure a Christ-honoring exit. We share personal stories to reveal the complex dynamics of quietly disappearing versus formally saying goodbye, and how one’s role in the church and its size can influence these decisions.

Before deciding to leave, approaching church leadership with questions rather than accusations can be a game-changer. We delve into the importance of open, humble communication and how a leadership's response can reflect the church's culture. If you're married, we talk about the crucial role of prayer and thoughtful consideration with your spouse before making such a significant decision. Personal anecdotes underscore the ongoing struggle to forgive and the profound impact of God’s grace in healing and forgiveness, illuminating the path to moving forward with a clear conscience.

Once you’ve decided to leave, the next step is finding a new church that feels like home. We discuss the essential elements to look for, from gospel-centered preaching to genuine community warmth. Be prepared for some honest reflections on making a commitment to a new church, exploring beyond the services to truly gauge its focus and alignment with Christ. And for a bit of fun, we wrap up with a conversation about music preferences—our nostalgic ties to old favorites and how those early influences shape our current tastes. Join us for a heartfelt blend of practical advice and personal stories aimed at helping you navigate this pivotal journey.

In this episode of the Curious Curmudgeon Podcast, Barnabas Piper and co-curmudgeon, Adam Read, take a stroll through their church histories, examining the fabric of their faith from childhood to the present. They reflect on their formative years in the pews, the nuances of congregational life across different geographies, and the profound impact of long-term church relationships. From San Diego's sun-soaked sanctuaries to the Bible Belt's abundance of worship, listen in as they unpack the beauty and trials that come with being entrenched in the Body of Christ.

In this heartfelt conversation, Barnabas and Adam navigate the ebb and flow of church life and the intricate dance of church transitions. With personal stories of denominational shifts, crises of faith, and the grappling with the realities of church politics, they explore the landscape of church involvement. You'll hear how journeys through job losses, divorce, and a call to ministry have been underpinned by the support of local church families. This is a narrative of resilience, demonstrating how, even amid life's upheavals, the grace of God maintains our connection to this unique community.

Lastly, they delve into the complex dynamics of church membership, from the challenges of over-politicization within congregations to the role of church music and community engagement. The conversation also offers a contemplative pause, inviting you to imagine witnessing pivotal historical events. So tune in for an episode that's as much about the heart and soul of the church experience as it is about the soul-stirring moments that define our faith journey. Whether you're rooted in a church, searching for one, or somewhere in between, this episode speaks to the enduring quest for a vibrant, Christ-centered fellowship.