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  • Soft Landing After Childhood Trauma Triggers: End the Day Without Relive

    Soft Landing After Childhood Trauma Triggers: End the Day Without Relive
    2026/08/26
    In this episode of Childhood Trauma Podcast, Bella shares a gentle “soft landing” practice to help you close the day after triggers surface, without forcing a full emotional relive or memory review. Drawing on insights from Bessel van der Kolk and the Cloitre et al. 2021 study, the technique uses the final twelve minutes before bed to shift attention into the present moment so the nervous system can settle.

    Key takeaways:
    - Begin with a physical location check by naming your room and noticing surfaces to anchor attention outward.
    - Make one small temperature adjustment, like pulling up a blanket, to signal control over your immediate environment.
    - Complete a present-focused 5-4-3-2-1 sensory exercise using only objects in the room.
    - Close with one short safety statement: “I am safe in this room right now.”

    This repeatable sequence reduces leftover activation and supports rest without adding pressure.
    https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/childhood-trauma-podcast--7148800/support

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    9 分
  • Navigate Childhood Trauma: Self-compassion progress feels slow

    Navigate Childhood Trauma: Self-compassion progress feels slow
    2026/08/21
    In this episode of Childhood Trauma Podcast, Bella dives into self-compassion when progress feels slow after childhood trauma. She shares how the frustration of stalled healing often echoes early caregiver patterns that dismissed needs and rewarded speed, turning ordinary pacing into self-doubt. Listeners hear practical tools to catch the inner push for quicker results and respond with presence instead of pressure, plus personal stories of moving from kitchen-floor frustration to treating slow stretches as normal recovery information rather than failure.

    Key takeaways:
    - Notice how old wiring labels slowdowns as weakness and reframe them as integration time.
    - Replace self-criticism with the patience you'd offer a friend during setbacks.
    - Track subtle shifts without measuring against an invisible deadline.
    - Let the nervous system continue its work without adding blame.
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    If you or someone you know is in crisis, call or text 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline) or text HOME to 741741 (Crisis Text Line). In an emergency, call 911. This podcast is not a substitute for professional care.

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    35 分
  • Navigate Childhood Trauma: Managing stress at work

    Navigate Childhood Trauma: Managing stress at work
    2026/08/14
    In this episode of Childhood Trauma: Making Sense of It, we explore managing stress at work and home when childhood trauma shapes how pressure shows up in both spaces. Old survival patterns can trigger sudden tension from a late email or a partner’s comment, even when the current moment is safe. By recognizing these links, you create space to respond differently and prevent the day from spiraling.

    Key takeaways include:
    - Pause for three slow breaths and name body sensations when stress spikes.
    - Set one clear boundary each workday, such as ending tasks at a set time.
    - Review the week on Friday to note heavy moments and adjust with intention.
    - Track situations that leave you calm versus on edge to spot environment-specific patterns without judgment.

    These small steps reduce how much the past interferes with the present.

    Support the podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podca...

    If you or someone you know is in crisis, call or text 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline) or text HOME to 741741 (Crisis Text Line). In an emergency, call 911. This podcast is not a substitute for professional care.

    📩 Have questions or want to share your experience? Reach out at childhood-trauma@senseofthisshit.com.
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    33 分
  • Build Childhood Trauma: Growing Gap Between Trigger and Reaction

    Build Childhood Trauma: Growing Gap Between Trigger and Reaction
    2026/08/06
    In this episode of Childhood Trauma: Let's Make Sense Of This Sht, we explore how early experiences shape those sudden mood shifts and quick reactions that catch you off guard in everyday moments. From a coworker’s comment landing like a blow to unexplained tension during a quiet evening, these responses often stem from patterns formed long before you could name them. You’ll learn simple, repeatable steps to spot the connection and create space between trigger and response, including noting the facts of a situation, tuning into bodily tension, and using a brief pause like counting breaths to interrupt old loops. Practice builds this gap through small, steady choices rather than dramatic change.

    Key takeaways:
    - Track one common trigger daily and label physical sensations to stay present.
    - Insert a three-breath pause before reacting to let choice enter.
    - End each day with a factual review to reinforce awareness without self-criticism.
    - Focus on repetition to grow your ability to respond from the present, not the past.

    These tools won’t erase what happened, but they empower real progress. 📩 Have questions or want to share your experience? Reach out at childhood-trauma@senseofthisshit.com. Support the show at https://www.spreaker.com/podca...

    If you or someone you know is in crisis, call or text 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline) or text HOME to 741741 (Crisis Text Line). In an emergency, call 911. This podcast is not a substitute for professional care.

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    10 分
  • Understanding Childhood Trauma: Bonus: Try 3-Breath Pause Tension

    Understanding Childhood Trauma: Bonus: Try 3-Breath Pause Tension
    2026/08/06
    In this episode, we zero in on a common sticking point for adults with childhood trauma: the urge to freeze or overexplain the second a conversation turns tense. These old survival moves often run the show long after the original danger is gone. Discover how to test one new option at a time, starting with a simple three-breath pause that fits into everyday moments without drawing attention.

    Key takeaways:
    - Notice the first sign of tension in your chest or shoulders during low-pressure talks.
    - Pause for three full breaths before answering to register that you are safe, not trapped.
    - Write two private sentences about what you actually wanted to say to loosen the old pattern.
    - Shorten the practice to one breath or one sentence on tough days while staying consistent.
    - Track one situation daily where the pause helped, building evidence that a different response is possible.

    This practical approach focuses on repetition over perfection so the body learns new signals of safety.
    https://www.spreaker.com/podca...

    If you or someone you know is in crisis, call or text 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline) or text HOME to 741741 (Crisis Text Line). In an emergency, call 911. This podcast is not a substitute for professional care.

    📩 Have questions or want to share your experience? Reach out at childhood-trauma@senseofthisshit.com.
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    11 分
  • Navigate Childhood Trauma: Communication skills that reduce conflict

    Navigate Childhood Trauma: Communication skills that reduce conflict
    2026/07/31
    In this episode we explore communication skills that reduce conflict when childhood patterns trigger sudden reactions in everyday conversations. Old echoes of criticism or dismissal can turn neutral questions into arguments, but practical tools help catch those moments early and steer exchanges toward calmer outcomes. From naming feelings without blame to requesting a brief pause, these approaches keep present-day talks from repeating past cycles.

    Key takeaways include:
    - State specific observations first before sharing interpretations to avoid sounding accusatory
    - Name the emotion out loud without assigning fault to the other person
    - Request a short break when tension rises to prevent escalation
    - Focus on facts over assumed intentions to leave room for clarification

    These shifts do not erase the past but give current interactions a better chance to stay connected. 📩 Have questions or want to share your experience? Reach out at childhood-trauma@senseofthisshit.com. Support the show at https://www.spreaker.com/podca...

    If you or someone you know is in crisis, call or text 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline) or text HOME to 741741 (Crisis Text Line). In an emergency, call 911. This podcast is not a substitute for professional care.

    📩 Have questions or want to share your experience? Reach out at childhood-trauma@senseofthisshit.com.
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    36 分
  • Build Childhood Trauma: Sleep, rest, and nervous-system recovery

    Build Childhood Trauma: Sleep, rest, and nervous-system recovery
    2026/07/31
    In this episode we explore how childhood trauma rewires the nervous system, turning rest into a perceived threat and leaving many waking exhausted despite a full night in bed. You'll learn why high heart rates, room scanning, and racing thoughts persist long after danger ends, and how these automatic responses reflect an old survival program rather than personal brokenness.

    Key takeaways include:
    - A short breathing pattern to signal safety before bed
    - Simple room adjustments that reduce threat signals
    - Tracking one bedtime habit to reveal hidden patterns

    We emphasize treating the body as an ally, offering direct reassurance to the nervous system for steadier progress over perfect nights. Small, repeatable tools help shift from vigilance to genuine recovery, touching every area of healing.

    Support the show: https://www.spreaker.com/podca...

    If you or someone you know is in crisis, call or text 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline) or text HOME to 741741 (Crisis Text Line). In an emergency, call 911. This podcast is not a substitute for professional care.

    📩 Have questions or want to share your experience? Reach out at childhood-trauma@senseofthisshit.com.
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    32 分
  • Build Healthier Boundaries After Childhood Trauma Daily

    Build Healthier Boundaries After Childhood Trauma Daily
    2026/07/17
    In this episode of Childhood Trauma: Let's Make Sense Of This Sht, we explore how growing up without clear boundaries leaves you saying yes when every part of you wants to say no. From late-night family calls to draining favors that wipe out your calendar, these patterns often trace back to childhood environments where keeping the peace meant putting others first. Bella shares a personal story of overcommitted weekends and the exhaustion and resentment that followed, then offers three practical steps you can test this week: name the specific boundary challenge, practice a short reply like “I need to check my schedule,” and notice what happens in your body afterward.

    Key takeaways:
    - Weak boundaries carry hidden costs in energy, sleep, and resentment long before you label them.
    - People-pleasing skills that once protected you now override your own plans unless you pause and choose differently.
    - Small, repeatable changes protect your time and safety without requiring others to change.
    Support the show: https://www.spreaker.com/podca...

    📩 Have questions or want to share your experience? Reach out at childhood-trauma@senseofthisshit.com.
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    35 分