What would happen if you pressed pause on every “should” in your life?

In this episode of Beyond Chronic Burnout, Alice—one of our Accelerate members and a founding participant in The UnVeiling Method—shares the radical two-week experiment that completely shifted her relationship with burnout. With guidance from Carole Jean, Alice stopped all non-essential activities and only did what brought her joy.

The results?

✨ Eye-opening realizations about how much energy guilt and duty were draining.

✨ The power of journaling and compassionate curiosity during rest.

✨ How partner support and household task division created lasting change.

✨ Practical advice for those who can’t step away completely but want to start reclaiming their energy.

If you’ve ever felt crushed by obligations, guilty when you rest, or stuck in a cycle of burnout, Alice’s story will show you what’s possible when you let go of “shoulds” and start listening to your body.

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This is your starting line. Don’t guess. Assess.

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So many autistic and ADHD women find themselves stuck in the same cycle: trying program after program, searching for the one that will finally “fix” the burnout, overwhelm, and constant self-doubt.

But what if the problem isn’t you—it’s that most programs are too surface-level, never addressing your unique needs, identity, and lived experience?

In this episode of Beyond Chronic Burnout, Michelle, a participant in the UnVeiling Method’s Accelerate Membership, shares her journey from anxiety, self-criticism, and feeling lost… to discovering peace, gratitude, and a deep connection to her authentic autistic/ADHD self.

Through journaling, group support, and tools like the Enneagram, Harmony Cycle, and Rest Modules, Michelle learned how to:

• Ask herself meaningful questions that brought clarity
  

• Recognize her true needs (without guilt)
  

• Release the pressure of “fixing” herself
  

• Embrace her neurodivergent identity with compassion
  

Her story is proof: you don’t have to keep guessing, masking, or settling for burnout.

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This is your starting line. Don’t guess. Diagnose.

And IF you haven’t taken the quiz in the last 30 days, now is the time to re-evaluate where you are—so you don’t find yourself in the same place 30+ days from now.

Stillness doesn’t have to mean sitting perfectly still—or emptying your mind completely. In this episode, Carole Jean Whittington explores what stillness really is, why it matters for your nervous system and sensory system, and how to practice it in ways that feel safe, trauma-sensitive, and accessible for neurodivergent brains.

You’ll learn:

• Common myths about stillness—and why they can make it feel intimidating
  

• How small, gentle pauses support your nervous system and restore energy
  

• Practical, playful ways to explore stillness without pressure or judgment
  

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Summer heat, humidity, and hormone shifts can turn POTS (Postural Orthostatic Tachycardia Syndrome) into a perfect storm—especially for autistic women navigating perimenopause.

In this episode of our Things That REALLY Matter series, Carole Jean Whittington and co-host Becca Lory Hector get real about living through POTS flare-ups and how they collide with energy, self-care, and internal beliefs about productivity.

We cover:

• 🌡️ How heat and humidity intensify POTS symptoms—and the early signals to watch for
  
• 🧃 Practical self-care tools that make flares more manageable (salt, electrolytes, compression, cooling strategies)
  
• 🛑 The hidden battle with shame and guilt around resting during flare days
  
• 💬 Language that helps others understand what’s happening when you “look fine” but aren’t
  
• 🌱 Why redefining success and celebrating micro-wins matter during flare seasons
  
• 🔄 How perimenopause adds another layer to managing energy and resilience
  

If you want to go deeper into building energy-friendly routines—ones that restore your nervous system and support burnout recovery—my Recharge Newsletter + Resource Library is the place to start.

You’ll get access to our Clinical Companion Toolkit, packed with tools, worksheets, and guides you can use for yourself or with clients including this month’s Routine Building with Your Enneagram for all 9 types PLUS resources from today’s episode including - A Guide for Autistic Women- Navigating POTS, MCAS, EDS & Hormones .

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You’ll also receive early notification to register for Becca and Carole Jean’s upcoming workshop series The Journey of Self Renewal.

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Are you constantly showing up for others, but no one sees what it’s costing you? This episode is a powerful acknowledgment of the invisible exhaustion that autistic and AuDHD women often carry—emotionally, mentally, and physically.

You’ll explore:

• 12 core truths about what’s really draining your energy
  

• How emotional suppression leads to burnout and disconnection
  

• Why masking creates deep internal confusion (and what to do instead)
  

• How helping professionals can support without adding pressure or shame
  

Whether you're an autistic woman ready to reclaim your emotional world—or a therapist or coach supporting neurodivergent clients—this episode offers practical Root-to-Practice insights you can use today.

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In Episode 209 of our “Things That REALLY Matter” series on Beyond Chronic Burnout, Carole Jean Whittington and Becca Lory Hector dive deep into the often-overlooked world of subtle trauma—especially how it uniquely impacts autistic women.

Together, they explore how lifelong patterns like people-pleasing, hyper-vigilance, emotional suppression, and the fear of being “too much” are often rooted in trauma we were never taught to recognize. From personal stories to practical tools, this episode is a must-watch if you’re navigating burnout, masking, or the struggle to prioritize your own needs.

💬 “People-pleasing at the expense of your own well-being is a giant trap. It masquerades as politeness or kindness.” — Becca Lory Hector

💬 “I reclaim calm. It is mine. It belongs to me.” — Carole Jean Whittington

🔎 Topics Covered:

• Subtle trauma in autistic women
  

• The impact of masking and emotional suppression
  

• Communication, boundaries, and burnout recovery
  

• Self-worth without performance
  

• How to reclaim calm and rest without guilt
  

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In this powerful episode of Things That REALLY Matter, Carole Jean Whittington and Becca Lory Hector dive deep into one of the most toxic messages autistic women have been fed: that we must hustle to be worthy of rest.

From masking-induced guilt to inherited scarcity mindsets, this episode explores how internalized capitalism, neurodivergent nervous systems, and societal pressure collide—leaving us burnt out and disconnected from our natural rhythms.

✨ Carole Jean shares her personal story of panic responses to rest

✨ Becca opens up about growing up in survival mode and redefining value

✨ Together they unpack the myth of “earning rest” and offer pathways to healing

You’ll hear how living in alignment with seasonal and moon cycles can help autistic women move away from hustle culture and back into the comfort of their own bodies. Plus, they offer micro-challenges and self-awareness practices you can try today.

Whether you're an autistic woman unmasking your values or a helping professional guiding others through burnout, this conversation will ground you in what really matters.

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Redefine unmasking. Reclaim your comfort zone. Restore your Optimum Steady State.

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In this cozy and personal solo episode, Carole Jean Whittington shares her real-life journey of rest, healing, and unexpected adventures—including a nasty bee sting, a crooked pool, and an invitation to direct the very first CASY Summer Camp through Cultural Autism Studies at Yale.

Tune in as Carole Jean offers a beautiful reflection on what it means to truly listen to your body, honor your limits, and embrace a new kind of rest—one layered with play, creativity, and self-discovery.

🌹 Plus, she pulls a card from her Rose Deck (The Fertile Void) and explores how this sacred season of becoming is guiding her—and maybe guiding you, too.

🔥 BONUS: Learn all about CASY Summer Camp: Your Compass to Self Care—a 6-week, free, on-demand experience created by autistic adults for autistic adults. There’s still time to register and join the Campfire Kickoff this Sunday!

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💌 And don’t forget—our Social Saturday episodes continue all summer, and your UnVeiler Kaleidoscope Community meets this Sunday!

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