• 202 - Designing a Life That Works with ADHD: Time, Transitions & the Juice with Alexia Hetzel
    2025/05/24
    What if thriving with ADHD isn’t about fixing yourself—but redesigning your life around what actually works for your brain?In this week’s Social Saturdays episode of Beyond Chronic Burnout, I’m joined by ADHD and neurodiversity coach Alexia Hetzel for a powerful, paradigm-shifting conversation on how high-achieving ADHDers can create sustainable success—on their own terms.Based in Luxembourg, Alexia blends research, coaching, and lived experience to help ADHDers (and those who support them) move beyond burnout and into alignment.In this episode, we explore:💡 What Alexia’s research reveals about high-achieving ADHDers🔄 How to use transitions as a strategy—not a stumbling block🕒 Why "neuronormative time" doesn’t work for ADHD brains (and what to do instead)🎨 Life Design: building a rhythm that aligns with how your brain works🍋 Finding your JUICE: why not all ideas need to become outcomes to be valuable🔔 Subscribe + turn on notifications so you never miss an episode of Beyond Chronic Burnout—where we explore what it really means to thrive as autistic women.This is the episode that finally gives you permission to stop fighting your brain—and start celebrating it.🎁 Grab free burnout tools & weekly bonuses for your journey:⁠ https://energize.whittingtonwellbeing.com/therecharge🔗 Subscribe to The Recharge: https://energyuplevel.kit.com/becomeafan 🔗 ALIGNMENT SUNDAYSHave you ever felt that Sunday evening dread, knowing another week is looming? 🌟As someone who has been there, I understand the feeling of your to-do list spiraling out of control. That's why I'm thrilled to introduce Alignment Sundays - a sanctuary designed just for you. Join Us! Get a FREE trial starting today Then just $11 monthly. This could be the change you've been seeking. Together, let's turn Sunday evenings into a time of peace and preparation, rather than dread.Ready to reclaim your week? Let's embark on this journey together.Get Started this Sunday: https://energize.whittingtonwellbeing.com/products/courses/view/1180659 🌿 Ready to reconnect with your authentic Self and finally step into your Comfort Zone? Get your copy of Living Unmasked: An Autistic Woman’s Guide to Get Into Your Comfort Zone—and start your journey out of burnout and into sustainable well-being.✨ Your $9.99 digital + audio bundle includes the full book, exclusive bonus meditations, printable worksheets, and your personalized Roadmap to Energy Mastery.📘 Grab it here:https://energize.whittingtonwellbeing.com/products/courses/view/1182513 You don’t have to hustle your way to healing. Let’s unmask gently, together. 💛#AutisticBurnout #SelfDiscovery #AutisticWomen #WellBeing #SelfHelp🌐 Connect with Alexia and explore her work at:Website - mondaycoachhttps://www.mondaycoach.me/Research Paper - How Positive Deviance in High-Achieving Adults with ADHD can Inform Strength-Based Coaching and Life Design to Complement Traditional ADHD ManagementUniversity-approved version: https://papers.ssrn.com/sol3/papers.cfm?abstract_id=4985832 Extended version (because I realized last minute I had written double the word count!): https://papers.ssrn.com/sol3/papers.cfm?abstract_id=4986555
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  • 201- I Don’t Know Who I Am: Using the Enneagram for Autistic Self-Rediscovery
    2025/05/21

    What if understanding your burnout starts with understanding your why?

    In this week’s episode of Beyond Chronic Burnout, Carole Jean Whittington shares how the Enneagram became a powerful guide for self-rediscovery during autistic burnout—and how it can help you or your clients finally make sense of your inner world.


    Whether you’ve felt emotionally disconnected, chronically misunderstood, or simply unsure of who you are anymore... this conversation offers clarity, compassion, and practical tools for reconnecting with your true self.


    💬 In this episode, you’ll explore:

    • What the Enneagram really is—and why it works for autistic minds

    • How it supports those who experience alexithymia (difficulty identifying emotions)

    • Why self-understanding is key to burnout recovery

    • How to identify your Enneagram Type

    • Ways helping professionals can integrate Enneagram work with neuro-affirming care

    ✨ Plus: A gentle meditation, a downloadable Energy-Honoring Enneagram Assessment, journal prompts, and tips for translating these insights into both your personal healing and your professional practice.


    🔗 Resources Mentioned:


    • The Energy-Honoring Enneagram Assessment (in this week’s issue of The Recharge)
      Living Unmasked book + bonus tools: whittingtonwellbeing.com

    • Subscriber bonus: Enneagram Overview


    • 🧠 This episode is for you if:

      • You’re autistic and feel emotionally disconnected or unsure of who you are

      • You’re a therapist, clinician, or coach supporting neurodivergent women

      • You want a deeper, more compassionate lens to navigate burnout and healing

      🔔 Subscribe + turn on notifications so you never miss an episode of Beyond Chronic Burnout—where we explore what it really means to thrive as autistic women.


      🔗 Connect with Carole Jean Whittington:


      How to get out of burnout - STEP 1: Take the Spicy Pepper Burnout Quiz and discover if you are in burnout or not, and if so, what’s your burnout level from a Poblano Pepper Level 1, where there’s just a bit of heat up to the Ghost Pepper Level 5 when “you’re so hot, you’re not.” You’ll get the opportunity to join our free Step 2 Class after you take the quiz.

      Take the Spicy Pepper Quiz: https://energize.whittingtonwellbeing.com/products/courses/view/1155744


      Subscribe to The Recharge Newsletter and receive weekly burnout recovery insights, tools for yourself or to use with your autistic clients, and learn about upcoming workshops at Whittington Well-Being.


      🔗 Subscribe to The Recharge:

      https://energyuplevel.kit.com/becomeafan


      🌿 Ready to reconnect with your authentic Self and finally step into your Comfort Zone? Get your copy of Living Unmasked: An Autistic Woman’s Guide to Get Into Your Comfort Zone—and start your journey out of burnout and into sustainable well-being.


      ✨ Your $9.99 digital + audio bundle includes the full book, exclusive bonus meditations, printable worksheets, and your personalized Roadmap to Energy Mastery.


      📘 Grab it here

      :https://energize.whittingtonwellbeing.com/products/courses/view/1182513


      You don’t have to hustle your way to healing. Let’s unmask gently, together. 💛


      #AutisticBurnout #SelfDiscovery #AutisticWomen #WellBeing #SelfHelp

      #NeuroaffirmingCare #BurnoutRecovery #AutisticWomen #TraumaInformedPractice #Enneagram #HelpingProfessionals #ClinicalTools #BeyondChronicBurnout

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  • EPISODE 200 — What’s Possible When We Unmask Celebrating 200 Episodes of Beyond Chronic Burnout + the Release of "Living Unmasked"
    2025/05/14

    What if peace came from unmasking?


    This milestone 200th episode of Beyond Chronic Burnout is a celebration in every sense—of unmasking, of sustainable energy, of thriving as our whole selves, and of YOU, the listener who’s been on this journey with us.


    In this powerful episode, host Carole Jean Whittington shares what’s possible when we let go of performance, push past the myth of the “comfort zone,” and step into the version of ourselves that’s been waiting to exhale. You’ll hear insights from readers of Living Unmasked, stories from the healing journey, and reflections from 200 episodes of exploring what it really means to live without burnout.


    PLUS: A behind-the-scenes look at Carole Jean’s new book Living Unmasked, how it’s changing lives, and why this podcast continues to be a sacred space for autistic women and the professionals who support them.


    💡 What you'll discover:

    • The real comfort zone and why it’s your gateway to healing

    • What unmasking actually looks and feels like

    • The Optimum Steady State and how it reverses spicy burnout

    • Why this podcast exists—and what’s coming next

    🔗 Get Living Unmasked (Digital + Audio):

    https://energize.whittingtonwellbeing.com/products/courses/view/1182513


    Thank you for being part of 200 episodes. Here’s to 200 more.


    #BeyondChronicBurnout #LivingUnmasked #AutisticWomen #BurnoutRecovery #200EpisodesStrong #NeurodivergentSupport #UnmaskingJourney #SustainableEnergy #EnergyMastery

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  • Episode 199 - Over 85% of Autistics Might Be in Spicy Burnout Right Now with Burnout Researcher Carole Jean Whittington
    2025/04/30

    Could you—or someone you care about—be in burnout and not even know it?


    In this powerful episode of Beyond Chronic Burnout, Carole Jean Whittington, Lead Burnout Researcher and Chief Well-Being Officer at Whittington Well-Being, brings her recent presentation from the 2nd Annual International Autism Summit straight to you. 🔥


    She introduces the Spicy Pepper Scale, a new tool to help identify the stages of burnout, from barely-there to blazing-hot. With over 85% of autistic individuals potentially experiencing Spicy Burnout, it’s time we start calling it what it is—and more importantly, doing something about it.


    You'll learn:

    • 🔎 Why burnout often goes unrecognized in autistic people

    • 🌶️ How the Spicy Pepper Scale helps you pinpoint where you are

    • 🧠 The impact of masking, sensory overwhelm, and health overlap

    • ⚙️ How The UnVeiling Method + Rapid Recharge Lab are changing the game in burnout recovery

    This is more than a conversation—it’s a wake-up call filled with practical strategies and hope. Plus, Carole Jean shares tools, quizzes, and a sneak peek at her upcoming book to support your journey toward sustainable energy and safety.


    🎧 Listen now and start turning down the heat on your burnout.


    🔗 Connect with Carole Jean Whittington:

    🎉 You're Invited to the Birthday Book Launch Party! 🎉 Friday, May 2nd | 3 PM CT | MY VIBE Network


    This isn’t your usual book launch. This is a celebration of you, your energy, and what becomes possible when we stop hiding and start living—unmasked.


    Join hostess Michelle Pecak of the MY VIBE Network and author Carole Jean Whittington for the launch of Living Unmasked: An Autistic Woman’s Guide to Get Into Your Comfort Zone — a groundbreaking book written just for autistic women navigating burnout, masking, and reclaiming their joy.


    💬 “We’ve been told to mold, conform, be helpful, and not make a fuss…” And that led to decades of masking—often so well we didn’t realize the slow, quiet burnout setting in. We told ourselves:


    “It’s just a stressful season.” “It’ll get better soon.” But that day never came.


    Instead, we slipped into the Restoration Illusion Trap—thinking we were okay because it was better than total collapse… but far from thriving.


    🚨 It’s time to flip the script.

    • 🎁 FREE Preview of Chapter 1

    • 🧘 Bonus Guided Meditation: “Coming Home to Your Self”

    • 🔥 Key insights from the book that will shift how you see burnout and masking

    • 💬 Live Q&A with Carole Jean—bring your juiciest burnout questions!

    • 🎉 Birthday Vibes! Carole Jean is turning 51, and she’s sharing the spotlight with YOU

    • 💎 Special Launch Discount to Purchase the Book

    • 🎈 PLUS: The first 50 registrants receive a Birthday Gift! — Carole Jean’s exclusive Sensory Rest Tool Kit

    👯‍♀️ Come as you are. Come feeling burned out, curious, celebratory, or quiet. Just don’t miss it.

    🪑 Spots are limited!Register now to save your seat!

    This is more than a book launch. It’s a coming home—to yourself, your power, your joy.

    Registration for Birthday Book Launch Party, May 2, at 3 pm central

    https://energize.whittingtonwellbeing.com/products/courses/view/1182845


    #SpicyBurnout #AutisticBurnout #UnmaskingAutism #BeyondChronicBurnout #TheUnVeilingMethod #AutismSummit #BurnoutRecovery #NeurodivergentWellBeing #AutisticAdults

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  • 198 - The ND Lovers Club: Reclaiming Relationships Through a Neurodivergent Lens with Bontle Senne & Sara Louise Ackrill
    2025/04/26
    In this Social Saturdays episode of Beyond Chronic Burnout, we’re joined by powerhouse co-authors Bontle Senne and Sara Louise Ackrill to talk all things love, healing, and neurodivergence in their new book, The ND Lovers Club.Together, we explore what it means to navigate relationships while autistic or otherwise neurodivergent. From the impact of masking and energy management to the pressure of societal norms and the journey to self-understanding, Bontle and Sara Louise open up about the deeply personal and often unspoken challenges of dating, intimacy, and connection.This conversation is not just about relationships with others—it’s also about the most important relationship of all: the one with yourself. 🔹 Why understanding your neurodivergent identity is essential in healthy relationships 🔹 How masking can drain connection—and how to step into authenticity 🔹 The emotional and physical health foundations of sustainable love 🔹 Personal stories of healing, growth, and finding joy while ND and dating 🔹 Behind the scenes of writing The ND Lovers Club and the power of storytelling for neurodivergent communities. Whether you’re ND and navigating love or a clinician supporting ND clients, this episode is a heart-centered look at connection through a truly affirming lens.🔗 Connect with Carole Jean Whittington: 🎉 You're Invited to the Birthday Book Launch Party! 🎉 Friday, May 2nd | 3 PM CT | MY VIBE Network✨ This isn’t your usual book launch. This is a celebration of you, your energy, and what becomes possible when we stop hiding and start living—unmasked.Join hostess Michelle Pecak of the MY VIBE Network and author Carole Jean Whittington for the launch of Living Unmasked: An Autistic Woman’s Guide to Get Into Your Comfort Zone — a groundbreaking book written just for autistic women navigating burnout, masking, and reclaiming their joy.💬 “We’ve been told to mold, conform, be helpful, and not make a fuss…” And that led to decades of masking—often so well we didn’t realize the slow, quiet burnout setting in. We told ourselves:“It’s just a stressful season.” “It’ll get better soon.” But that day never came.Instead, we slipped into the Restoration Illusion Trap—thinking we were okay because it was better than total collapse… but far from thriving.🚨 It’s time to flip the script.🎁 FREE Preview of Chapter 1🧘 Bonus Guided Meditation: “Coming Home to Your Self” Key insights from the book that will shift how you see burnout and masking💬 Live Q&A with Carole Jean—bring your juiciest burnout questions!🎉 Birthday Vibes! Carole Jean is turning 51, and she’s sharing the spotlight with YOU💎 Special Launch Discount to Purchase the Book🎈 PLUS: The first 50 registrants receive a Birthday Gift! — Carole Jean’s exclusive Sensory Rest Tool Kit👯‍♀️ Come as you are. Come feeling burned out, curious, celebratory, or quiet. Just don’t miss it.🪑 Spots are limited! ✨ Register now to save your seat!This is more than a book launch. It’s a coming home—to yourself, your power, your joy.Registration for Birthday Book Launch Party, May 2, at 3 pm central https://energize.whittingtonwellbeing.com/products/courses/view/1182845 🔗 Connect with GUEST: Bontle Senne is an AuDHD author, speaker, and consultant whose neurodivergent insights and lived experiences power her unique approach to leadership, coaching, writing, and publishing. Sara-Louise Ackrill is an AuDHD CEO, therapist, coach, speaker, and award-winning social entrepreneur.BOOK, The ND Lovers Clubhttps://amzn.eu/d/8K1kvu7CONTACT US: Built to Divergehttps://www.builttodiverge.com/contact SARA-LOUISE’S LINKEDIN https://www.linkedin.com/in/sara-louise-ackrill-frsa-9490871b3/ BONTLE’s LINKEDINhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/bontlesenne/ #NDLoversClub #NeurodivergentLove #AutisticWomen #NeurodivergentRelationships #SocialSaturdays #BeyondChronicBurnout #AuDHD #Neurodiversity #NeuroAffirmingCare
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  • 197 - Things That Really Matter: Protecting Your Spoons with Becca Lory Hector and Carole Jean Whittington
    2025/04/12

    What’s draining your energy—and how can you protect what little you have left?


    In this powerful first episode of our new monthly series Things That Really Matter, Carole Jean and Becca Lory Hector dive into the often invisible emotional and mental toll that autistic individuals face—especially in a world that can feel increasingly marginalizing.


    Together, they explore:

    ✨ How to identify and avoid spoon-stealing conversations ✨ The value of rest, self-care, and creating safe, sustainable routines

    ✨ Ways to build community that uplifts rather than drains ✨ Why now is the perfect time to build something new

    ✨ How internal reflection and creativity support long-term resilience


    Whether you're autistic yourself or support those who are, this conversation offers a validating, practical, and deeply heartfelt look at how we can protect our spoons—and use them with intention.


    🎧 Tune in now and join the conversation about what really matters.


    🔗 Connect with Becca Lory Hector:

    https://beccalory.com/


    🔗 Connect with Carole Jean Whittington:

    https://whittingtonwellbeing.com/


    #ProtectYourSpoons #AutisticWomen #NeuroaffirmingCare #BeyondChronicBurnout #BeccaLoryHector #CaroleJeanWhittington #ThingsThatReallyMatter

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  • 196 - Your Autistic Blueprint: Building Foundations for Well-Being with Carole Jean Whittington
    2025/04/09

    Beware of the Restoration Illusion Trap! Have you ever thought you were out of burnout, only to find yourself back in it?


    Many autistic women face this sneaky trap where temporary relief feels like recovery. But it's just a return to baseline burnout.


    Today, we're exploring the concept of your "autistic blueprint" and how building foundations for a deeply connected relationship with yourself can transform your life and keep you out of that sneaky Restoration Illusion Trap.


    In this episode:

    - Understanding unique needs as an autistic woman.

    - Importance of creating a personal autistic blueprint.

    - Avoiding burnout through self-awareness and compassionate curiosity.

    - Introduction of the Restoration Illusion Trap.

    - Key foundations: identity, values, strengths, and boundaries.

    - Guided meditation and exercises for self-connection.


    🌱 Plant the Seed -

    Today’s action moment is to begin a list of the following: your core values, your strengths, the things you are naturally good at, and a list of what you need to be at your best. Take a moment to reflect and make a note of which need from your list you would like to set a rule for first to support your energy?


    💦 Water & Nourish -

    Ask yourself:

    What am I clear on about who I am, my unmasked values, my strengths and the needs that require a boundary to ensure they are supported consistently?


    Where are the gaps between what is on my lists and what is actually happening in my life?


    What components of my 'autistic blueprint' resonate most with me?" "How can I begin to build a stronger foundation for that area?


    🔗 Connect with Carole Jean Whittington:

    STEP 1: Take the Spicy Pepper Burnout Quiz and discover if you are in burnout or not, and if so, what’s your burnout level from a Poblano Pepper Level 1, where there’s just a bit of heat up to the Ghost Pepper Level 5 when “you’re so hot, you’re not.” You’ll get the opportunity to join our free Step 2 Class after you take the quiz.

    Take the Quiz: https://energize.whittingtonwellbeing.com/products/courses/view/1155744


    #AutisticBurnout #SelfDiscovery #AutisticWomen #WellBeing #SelfHelp

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  • 195 - Navigating Autism Awareness Month with Sara Bradford (SJ Childs)
    2025/04/05

    What happens when autistic women take the mic during Autism Awareness Month—on their terms?

    In this Social Saturdays episode, we’re joined by powerhouse advocate, educator, and fellow autistic woman Sara Bradford for a real conversation on shifting the narrative of Autism Awareness Month from external education to internal empowerment.


    🔹 Highlights you won’t want to miss:


    • A behind-the-scenes look at the International Autism Summit happening April 25–26

    • How Sara’s entire autistic family informs her work and advocacy

    • Insight into the SJ Childs Global Network and its mission for family support

    • Ways the Summit embraces entrepreneurship, tech, and inclusive education

    • Why representation from autistic women globally matters more than ever this April

    This episode isn’t just about awareness—it’s about reclaiming space, amplifying stories, and building community that thrives year-round.


    🎧 Tune in on Spotify, YouTube, or wherever you love to listen.


    📲 Grab your seat at the International Autism Summit (April 25–26) and be part of the movement.


    📅 Coming Next on Social Saturdays:


    APRIL 12: Join me align with my new co-host, Becca Lory Hector, for our new series “Things That Really Matter” Saturday, April 12


    APRIL 29: “The ND Lovers Club” with authors Bontle Senne and Sara Louise Ackrell join me on Saturday, April 29 with all the juicy goodness on love, dating and relationships in their new book.


    📢 Join me at the International Autism Summit! April 25-26 (I’m speaking Friday at 12 PM CT) – RSVP for Free HERE: https://sjchilds.betterworld.org/events/2nd-annual-international-autism


    🔗 Connect with Carole Jean Whittington:

    Take the Masking Styles Quiz and discover if you’re The Chameleon, Observer, Script Reader, Performer or Integrator: https://whittingtonwellbeing.com/


    🔗 Connect with Sara Bradford:

    www.sjchilds.orgwww.sjchilds.betterworld.org


    #AutisticWomen #SocialSaturdays #AutismAwarenessMonth #BeyondChronicBurnout #Neurodiversity #SaraBradford #AutismSummit2025

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    32 分