Hi friend, in today’s episode, I’m so excited to welcome my very first podcast guest ✨ Jenn Blair ✨ a board-certified nurse practitioner and functional medicine coach who works with driven, high-achieving women who feel like they’re doing everything right… yet still feel exhausted, bloated, foggy, and burnt out.

Jen and I dive into what’s really going on beneath the surface when ambitious women hit a wall… from chronic stress and gut issues to hormone imbalance and the flaws of conventional “eat less, move more” advice. We talk about why burnout is so common for high performers, how functional medicine looks at the body as a whole, and the small, sustainable shifts that can help you feel back in control of your health without sacrificing your goals.

Plus, stay to the end for our fun rapid-fire wellness questions! There are some sweet, easy, and fun little things you’ll definitely want to steal for your own routine :)

Episode Highlights

• Why Jen shifted from conventional medicine to functional medicine after experiencing burnout firsthand

• The biggest gaps in traditional healthcare when it comes to chronic symptoms in women

• How stress, sleep deprivation, and ambition impact gut health, hormones, and blood sugar

• Jen’s 6-pillar functional medicine framework for sustainable healing

• Simple lifestyle shifts busy, high-achieving women can start today to reduce bloating and brain fog

• Why slowing down, eating mindfully, and prioritizing protein actually boosts productivity

• The mindset shift every ambitious woman needs: you don’t have to choose between health and success

[45:13] 🧘‍♀️🍵🌿 Rapid-Fire Wellness Favorites 🧘‍♀️🍵🌿Jenn’s healthy comfort foods, movement practices, productivity hacks, cozy home joys, and grounding rituals

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Instagram: @JennBlairWellness

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Email: sara@sarashum.com

If this episode resonated with you, it would mean so much if you rated, reviewed, and shared it with a friend who’s ready to feel calm and energized again.

And if you’re ready to go from burnt out to chilled out, book a free consultation. I'd love to help you build a chaos-proof health system that fits your real life and brings you joy, levity, and energy.

Cheers to being happy, healthy, being good people, and doing great and amazing things!

💫Sara

So, you’ve been asking yourself, “Why tf am I getting sick all of the time?” You eat well. You move your body. You try to do everything “right.” And yet… you’re still getting knocked out by colds every few months… then this episode is for you.

I also share the exact shifts that helped me stop getting sick this year, despite living in the midst of chaos… this really is ✨magic ✨coming from someone who used to get sick every 2–3 months, dealt with chronic joint pain, and had way too many surgeries before anyone connected the dots and realized stress was manifesting in my body.

I’m breaking down why so many ✨ good girl, high-achieving, perfectionist women ✨ end up chronically sick and why the answer usually isn’t that you just have a sh*tty immune system.

We’re talking about how go-go-go conditioning, chronic stress, and hustle culture wire your nervous system into survival mode, leading straight into burnout and the Letdown Effect (aka why you crash the second you finally slow down).

✨ What I Yap About in This Episode ✨

• “Why am I getting sick all the time? (and why the answer isn’t what you think)

• Good girl, high achiever, and perfectionist conditioning

• Chronic stress manifesting as sickness, joint pain, and injury

• Why doctors and adults in my life missed stress as the root cause

• Burnout symptoms in women that get normalized and brushed off

• Loving an addicted partner, chronic stress, and how caretaking roles impact your health

• The letdown effect (aka why you get sick after the stress ends)

• The non-negotiable shift that changed everything for me: sleep first, then exercise second

• ✨ How to be happier and healthier ✨ (always 😜)
  

Quick note: there’s a heavier personal story in the first part of this episode. If you’d rather skip ahead, feel free to use the timestamps below

[6:31] – My story: growing up chronically sick, burned out, and overworked, then loving someone with active addiction

[17:20 – The letdown effect explained

[23:44] – Exactly how I stopped getting sick this year

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Email: sara@sarashum.com

If this episode resonated with you, it would mean so much if you rated, reviewed, and shared it with a friend who’s ready to feel calm and energized again.

And if you’re ready to go from burnt out to chilled out, book a free consultation. I'd love to help you build a chaos-proof health system that fits your real life and brings you joy, levity, and energy.

Cheers to being happy, healthy, being good people, and doing great and amazing things!

💫Sara

Hi friend. If you’re ending the year feeling a little sad, a little chaotic, or low-key spiraling about all the goals you didn’t hit… this episode is your invitation to exhale, clear that sh*t out, and reset with a little ✨ magic ✨

This is stuff I don’t see anyone talking about.

To all of my big-brained, over-achieving, overwhelmed, burnt out, overstimulated ladies, today, I’m sharing the most important thing you need to do before setting any New Year’s goals: reset your vessel.

When your nervous system is dysregulated and your mental + energetic bandwidth are maxed out, no habit, intention, or resolution will stick. Nor will it be any fun.

I’m also inviting you into my free December challenge: 30 Days of Tiny Magic: simple, gentle rituals for grounding, clarity, and creating a clean, supported portal into 2026 ⏾⋆.˚

✨ What I Yap About in This Episode ✨

• How to make your New Year’s resolution stick

• Why burnt-out, overwhelmed women can’t set aligned goals from a dysregulated state

• The December emotional hangover + how residue from the year drains into your New Year’s Resolutions

• How clutter (digital, physical, emotional) becomes cognitive load and stress

• Why I’m finally blending science with the witchy rituals I’ve always used

• What “resetting your vessel” means and why making room for capacity matters more than discipline

• How to avoid creating busy work disguised as productivity

• How the 30 Day Portal Challenge helps you feel grounded, regulated, and ready

• ✨ How to be happier and healthier ✨ (always 😜)

  
  

🦝 Unhinged Story of the Week 🦝

A raccoon broke into a liquor store, got drunk, and passed out in the bathroom 💕

Start: 6:06

End: 9:18

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Email: Sara Shum

If this episode resonated with you, it would mean so much if you rated, reviewed, and shared it with a friend who’s ready to feel calm and energized again.

And if you’re ready to go from burnt out to chilled out, book a free consultation. I'd love to help you build a chaos-proof health system that fits your real life and brings you joy, levity, and energy.

Cheers to being happy, healthy, being good people, and doing great and amazing things!

💫Sara

Hi friend. Whether you're debating quitting a job, taking a class that sounds fun but super scary, or just wondering if you are on the right path, I have a magical tool that helps you get clarity fast.

I know when you are stuck in a season of overwhelm, burnout, or a low point in your life, sometimes it can be super hard to know which direction to take BUT I promise you this might be your weirdly helpful new decision-making hack.

When life feels chaotic and nothing makes sense logically, sometimes you just need a little nudge from God, the universe, Source, spirit guides…whoever’s handling your case file today.

In this episode, you’ll learn exactly how to ask for a clear, specific sign when you’re unsure what to do, plus the wild real-life examples of signs that were major turning points in my life.

What I Yap About in This Episode

• How to ask God/the universe for a clear, specific sign

• How to make decisions during burnout, overwhelm, or mental exhaustion

• What to do when something feels aligned but makes zero logical sense

• The common mistakes people make when asking for signs and how to avoid them

• Why taking action on signs creates clarity, momentum, and confidence

• ✨ How to be happier and healthier ✨ (always 😜)

  
  

🤪 Unhinged Fact of the Week 🤪

True or false: the safest way to microwave a cup of water is to put a metal spoon in it? TRUE. Haha we will get into the science behind this, plus why it is perfectly okay (and holistic) for you to use the microwave, especially if you are tired and have little energy.

Start: 6:43

End: 14:05

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If this episode resonated with you, it would mean so much if you rated, reviewed, and shared it with a friend who’s ready to feel calm and energized again.

And if you’re ready to go from burnt out to chilled out, book a free consultation. I'd love to help you build a chaos-proof health system that fits your real life and brings you joy, levity, and energy.

Cheers to being happy, healthy, being good people, and doing great and amazing things!

💫Sara

Hi friend. If you are burnt out, overwhelmed, surviving off DoorDash and junk food… and feel like you have zero bandwidth to cook homemade meals, this episode is for you.

In today’s episode, I’m sharing the 7 super simple, non-performative, ADHD-friendly meal prep hacks I use to make eating healthy way easier during chaotic seasons.

I’m also spilling my favorite FaceTime body-doubling ritual and the three free games I play with my family long-distance every Sunday that turn meal prep into a time to connect with people you can take your mask off around and literally just f*ck around with.

Let’s make the ritual of creating nutritious, supportive meals something you actually look forward to.

This is chaos-proof wellness. :)

🥗 What I Yap About in This Episode 🥗

• How meal prep reduces decision fatigue for overwhelmed, burnt-out brains

• Why meal prep can be so much simpler than you think.

• Using rituals + grounding to make cooking feel stable (even during chaotic times)

• How FaceTime body doubling makes healthy habits actually stick

• The 3 free games we play every Sunday to make meal prep fun (Jeopardy, CodeNames, Wavelength)

• ADHD-friendly shortcuts for cooking when you have no energy

• What to do with produce that’s dying a slow, quiet death in your fridge

• ✨ How to be happier and healthier ✨ (always 😜)

  
  

  🍵 A Small Cozy Win From This Week 🍵

  Finding a cute $7 journal at Michaels that made getting back into paper journaling feel easy again . Plus a quick call-out about the “perfect planner” trap ADHDers fall into and why intuitive organizing actually works.

  Start: [3:45]

  End: [6:12]

✨ Links & Resources ✨

Episode 8: Haunted or Dysregulated? (the Alexa story 👀)

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If this episode resonated with you, it would mean so much if you rated, reviewed, and shared it with a friend who’s ready to feel calm and energized again.

And if you’re ready to go from burnt out to chilled out, book a free consultation. I'd love to help you build a chaos-proof health system that fits your real life and brings you joy, levity, and energy.

Cheers to being happy, healthy, being good people, and doing great and amazing things!

💫Sara

Hi friend, if you feel yourself slipping into sad, sleepy, depressing (and literally dark) times, and dreading the winter, this one’s for you.

In today’s very value-packed episode, I’m sharing the 10 things you can start doing TODAY to fight off Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD) aka seasonal depression or the winter blues like your life depends on it… because it literally does.

❄️ What I Yap About in This Episode❄️

• What is seasonal affective disorder (SAD)

• The symptoms of seasonal affective disorder

• Which supplements actually help with winter depression

• Does protein impact your mental health? (Yes. And I explain how.)

• ADHD-friendly ways to remember your vitamins, meds, and hydration

• Layers 🧅

• How to make winter actually enjoyable with movement, hobbies & connection

• Why decorating for the season can literally regulate your nervous system

• ✨ How to be happier and healthier ✨ (always 😜)

  
  

🧠✨ Unhinged but Wholesome Fact of the Week

• Neurographic Art Meditation: A weirdly calming, ADHD-friendly way to meditate

• Start: [3:22]

• End: [8:06]

  
  

✨ Links & Resources

• What Is Neurographic Art Meditation

• Neurographic Create & Meditate Creator on Youtube

• Creatine & Depression: PubMed

• Episode 1: How I Built Chaos-Proof Health

• Episode 7: Why Fall Has Such a Chokehold On Us (And How to Lean Into It to Heal and Ground Us)

  
  

✨ Work with Me ✨

• Book a Free Consultation

• Instagram: ⁠@ChillButDriven⁠

• TikTok: ⁠@ChillButDriven⁠
  

If this episode resonated with you, it would mean so much if you rated, reviewed, and shared it with a friend who’s ready to feel calm and energized again.

And if you’re ready to go from burnt out to chilled out, book a free consultation. I'd love to help you build a chaos-proof health system that fits your real life and brings you joy, levity, and energy.

Cheers to being happy, healthy, being good people, and doing great and amazing things!

💫Sara

Hi friend. If you’re feeling like caca but don’t know why… like you're doing all the right things (therapy, meds, gyms, caffeine), but still just don’t feel great, this episode is for you.

We are going to talk about…drum roll please… ✨The Wellness Wheel ✨Haha, it sounds dry as hell, but it's actually an incredibly helpful tool that gives you a bird’s-eye view of your overall health. Surprise, physical health, like nutrition, exercise, and sleep, is just ⅛ of the wheel.

Plus, I share practical, seasonal ideas to nourish each area of your life/wellness wheel without overwhelming yourself further.

Grab your cozy blanket, a pumpkin thing of your choosing, and let’s fix your life …or at least figure out where to start.

🍂 What I Yap About in This Episode 🍂

• The Wellness Wheel lol

• “I’m doing everything right, so why do I still feel like shit?”

• Why high-functioning burnout doesn’t always show up in your physical health first

• ADHD-friendly tips

• Why your cute fall decor is actually regulating your nervous system

• How to feel more grounded when everything feels overwhelming and the world is on fire around you

• ✨ How to be happier and healthier ✨ (always 😜)
  

🐸💫 Unhinged but Wholesome Fact of the Week

• The Japanese Missing Cat Method

• Start: [3:47]

• End: [7:36]

  
  

✨ Links & Resources

• Episode 7: Why Fall Has Such a Chokehold On Us (And How to Lean Into It to Heal and Ground Us)

• Episode 8: 5 Ways to EXORCISE the Stress Right Out of Your Body

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• Application Page

• Instagram: ⁠@ChillButDriven⁠

• TikTok: ⁠@ChillButDriven⁠
  

If this episode resonated with you, it would mean so much if you rated, reviewed, and shared it with a friend who’s ready to feel calm and energized again.

And if you’re ready to go from burnt out to chilled out, book a free consultation. I'd love to help you build a chaos-proof health system that fits your real life and brings you joy, levity, and energy.

Cheers to being happy, healthy, being good people, and doing great and amazing things!

💫Sara

Okay, this one's a little different lol.

In the ✨spirit ✨of Halloween, I'm opening up with some of my spookiest, hardest-to-explain "haunted" stories from childhood to now…including a creepy Alexa moment, a guttural growl, and the ghost of a witch.

I’ll also share when I thought my townhouse was possessed... but spoiler alert: it was just me being dysregulated.

Don't worry, it's not just ghost stories.

I'll give you a value-packed list of 5 practical strategies to help you move stress (aka spooky evil ghosts) through your body and regulate your nervous system (no sage or priests required).

If you're feeling burnt out, overstimulated, or stuck in the doom-scroll to bed rot cycle, this episode is your nudge to get grounded and bring in the light.

👻🎃 What I Yap About in This Episode 🎃👻

• Ghost stories!

• How to make meal prep fun when you are busy and have long-distance family to catch up with

• When I thought a ghost was living in the crawl space and stealing my underwear

• Five simple ways you can move out of stress and regulate your nervous system

• How doomscrolling messes with your sensitive nervous system

• How to protect your energy when the world feels overwhelming

• ✨ How to be happier and healthier ✨ (always 😜)
  

🕰 Timeline Summary If You Want to Skip Away 🕰 [3:10] - Paranormal 101: The Alexa incident, Childhood ghost stories: creepy basements, growling closets, and missing flip-flops, and my grandma’s haunted Basque family home (with bonus witch lore) [20:13] - When I think my home was haunted... but it wasn’t [29:28] - 5 Ways to Exercise the Stress Out of Your Life (no holy water required)

✨Links & Resources

• Episode on News Overwhelm & Taking Back Your Power

✨ Work with Me ✨

• Tap Here for Application Page

• Instagram: ⁠@ChillButDriven⁠

• TikTok: ⁠@ChillButDriven⁠
  

If this episode helped you feel inspired to take back your mornings, it would mean so much if you rated, reviewed, and shared it with a friend who’s ready to feel calm and energized again.

And if you’re ready to go from burnt out to chilled out, book a free consultation. I'd love to help you build a chaos-proof health system that fits your real life and brings you joy and lightness.

Cheers to being happy, healthy, being good people, and doing great, and amazing things!

Happy Halloween!

💫Sara