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Do you have big emotional reactions that don't seem to match the situation?

Feel like you're "too broken" to heal?

Maybe you've been telling yourself you're fundamentally damaged when life gets messy.

In this episode, I'm sharing a personal story about having an intense reaction to my husband's playful tickling—and the powerful revelation it sparked about healing and identity.

I’m hoping this conversation will shift your perspective from feeling "broken" to understanding you're God's masterpiece being restored.

We'll explore the beautiful Japanese art of Kintsugi and how it perfectly illustrates God's healing process in our lives.

You're not broken—you're buried under life's hardships, but your foundation remains strong.

It's time to move from "I'm a problem to solve" to "I'm an experience to live." You are God's masterpiece, created for good works, and your healing journey is part of His beautiful design.

So much love to you,

Dani

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Hey beautiful soul!

Welcome to Episode 197 of A Holy Mess Podcast! 🎉

Quick note: Yes, I mentioned episode 200 in the recording, but some things shifted with our posting schedule—and honestly, what's more fitting for a podcast called "A Holy Mess" than a little mix-up? 😉

I hope today's episode encourages you wherever you find yourself on this journey of life.

I'm officially launching The Third Act—a coaching program to help you step into your future with more confidence and clarity.

It's designed for those ready to release life's conditioning and step into who they were created to be before the world told them who they should be.

This is for those of us who have done a lot of the personal growth work—read the books, done therapy, attended the workshops, etc…—yet still long for the "more" from life.

I genuinely believe YOU and I were created with purpose, and sometimes navigating our next steps can feel overwhelming. That's exactly why I created The Third Act.

If you're ready to stop playing small and stop letting your circumstances control you, let's talk. Schedule a free discovery call and see if The Third Act is right for you.

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With love, Dani 💕

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Does your life ever feel like you're navigating a maze? Then I hope this episode encourages you! I'm just back from a retreat and a white water adventure, and I'm sharing a few insights today. I'm also talking about Exodus 14:14 - "The Lord himself will fight for you; you need only be still." If you're feeling overwhelmed or uncertain about your path forward, I hope this episode blesses you.

A gentle reminder: You don't need to have everything figured out right now. Sometimes we're not meant to have all the answers yet, and that's perfectly okay.

What You'll Discover:

• Why taking breaks is essential for personal growth
• How to navigate life's challenges when feeling stuck
• The practice of active surrender and staying present
• How nature can provide healing and clarity
• Finding your purpose and embracing self-discovery

Remember: Your past doesn't have to define your future, and you're not alone in your struggles.

Grateful,

Dani

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Ever feel the stress in your body? Welcome to the club! ;) A club I’d rather not be in, but I am here, so here we are. ;)

This by no means is an exhaustive list of ways to help, but I thought I would bring this subject around again on the show because so many of us are feeling the stress of life in our bodies. And I don't want to be a ‘victim’ of that stress and have been on a journey to really learn how to care for myself in this. It’s been quite the process, but soo worth it!

I mention "The Body Keeps the Score" by Bessel van der Kolk, a phenomenal book that triggered me the whole way through. But it taught me so much about why my body was feeling it and “keeping score.”

I hope this episode blesses you.

Understanding Body-Stress Connection

• How stress manifests physically in the body
• Personal examples of stress patterns (shoulder tension, hip pain)
• The importance of acknowledging rather than shaming physical stress responses

What Doesn't Work

• Self-shaming and harsh self-talk
• "Suck it up buttercup" mentality
• Ignoring your body's signals

Personal Evolution in Self-Care

• How body needs change over time
• Transitioning from ice baths to heat therapy
• Listening to your body's changing needs
• Honoring hormonal changes with age

1. Your body keeps score - Physical symptoms often reflect emotional and mental stress
2. Permission to prioritize - Self-care isn't selfish; it's necessary
3. Adaptation is normal - What worked before may not work now, and that's okay
4. Gentle approach - Choose loving, nurturing ways to care for your body
5. Individual needs - We're not one-size-fits-all; honor your unique body

Feeling a tug towards finding your purpose and learning to how prioritize yourself without the guilt? It’s probably time to deal with what’s actually holding you back so you can move forward with more joy and harmony in life. We invite you to schedule a complimentary call with Dani to explore if working together is the right fit for you.

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Glad you’re here,

Dani

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Key topics:

• Galatians 6:2 - "Carry one another's burdens"
• The difference between carrying WITH someone vs. carrying FOR someone
• How to steward your sensitivity as a gift, not a burden

1. Recognize - Notice when emotions aren't yours (taking your temperature before/after interactions)
2. Pray for them - Use your sensitivity to pray more specifically for others
3. Release it - Pray for protection and ask God to remove what isn't yours
4. Reset - Take action to recalibrate (walk, water, music, movement)

• Before your next difficult conversation, take note of how you're feeling
• Practice the pray-release-reset method when you absorb others' energy
• Identify relationships that consistently drain you and prepare accordingly
• Set healthy boundaries around news and social media consumption

Also, feeling a tug towards finding your purpose? It’s probably time to deal with what’s actually holding you back so you can move forward with more joy and harmony in life. We invite you to schedule a complimentary call with Dani to explore if working together is the right fit for you.

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Enjoy!

Dani

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What if I told you that feeling incomplete, anxious, or sad isn't a sign you're broken—but a sign you're beautifully, perfectly human?

Today we're talking about embracing our triggers as teachers instead of enemies. Therapist Jim Beebe is with us and you're going to LOVE his Grace filled honest approach. Enjoy this conversation and our time with Jim.

So grateful you're here.

Much love,

Dani

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Hi!

Are you struggling with that negative voice in your head telling you you're not worthy? In this episode, I'm talking about some practical ways to help you with the negative self-talk that's holding you back. Learn why traditional affirmations often fail, how to identify the root of unworthiness beliefs, and practical steps to stop fighting yourself and start fighting for yourself. If you're dealing with self-doubt, imposter syndrome, or feeling unworthy of God's love and calling--this episode will help!

So glad you're here!

Dani

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Hello you beautiful soul!

If you're feeling overwhelmed by negative thoughts, stuck in loops of fear and self-doubt, or just plain exhausted, this episode is for YOU.

We're talking about God's incredible power to transform the wilderness places in our lives into streams of living water.

✨ Why you're NOT broken if you struggle with negative thoughts

✨ How to begin the process of rewiring your brain from negative patterns to healthier thinking.

✨ The vision of boats on the lake - letting resentment and anger sail on by

✨ Why healing takes time and that's perfectly okay

✨ The difference between pouring out empty vs. giving from overflow

"The desert and the parched land will be glad. The wilderness will rejoice and blossom... Water will gush forth in the wilderness and streams in the desert."

• You're not doing anything wrong if transformation feels slow
• Your overactive imagination can be trained for good instead of fear
• God wants to speak to ALL of us - you're not a unicorn!

Ready to Go Deeper? 🚀

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Glad you’re here,

Dani

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