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What do you do when someone you love judges your faith or questions your calling from God? Dani recorded this one in the car on the drive home from LA, still processing a moment from the night before. A family member called her faith "Diet Coke" to his "Coke," and it hit a nerve. She gets honest about why it triggered her, and about what she found in herself once the sting wore off.

The opinions that cut deepest rarely come from strangers. They come from the people you love and respect most. Dani shares the story of a client who was at the top of his career in his 30s, felt called into ministry, and got pulled back into business because family and colleagues drowned out his own voice. She also revisits the priest whose words at 16 carried more weight than God or her own intuition, and what that cost her.

Here's the truth: your call from God is not a conference call. The people who love you don't get a vote. If you're ready to hear your own still small voice again, 1:1 coaching with Dani is where that work starts. Book at aholymess.com.

In this episode, Dani talks about:

• Why a "Diet Coke" comment about her faith triggered her, and why the anger didn't last
• The opinions that wound you most come from people you love, not strangers
• A client who left the top of his career for ministry, and what pulled him back
• How a priest's words at 16 outranked God and Dani's own intuition for years
• What to do with well-meaning people who weren't on your call from God
• Why seeking counsel from people who play small keeps you small too

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