If you keep dating the wrong people, it’s not “bad luck”—it’s wiring. In this episode, Olympia (Typevolution) and I unpack why chemistry ≠ compatibility and how your upbringing, culture, and shadow shape who you chase. We get tactical with Jungian types (MBTI), Enneagram, attachment styles, and Imago so you can stop repeating patterns and start picking partners that actually fit.

We cover:

• Why attraction often pulls anxious → avoidant (and “good girl” → “bad boy”)
• Compatibility on paper vs. your unconscious Venn diagram of desire
• Casual sex: why it rarely converts to long-term fit (and when it can)
• Polyamory, commitment, and avoidance—hard truths, no fluff
• Gottman’s “attack behavior, not character” rule for conflict that doesn’t kill love
• A practical gut-check for compatibility (beyond tests)
• Why most online type quizzes mistype you—and what to do instead

To find Olympia's coaching and articles, go to typevolution.com!

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In this powerful conversation, I sit down with Monkey, a self-described “nerdy computer scientist turned tantric guide,” who shares his incredible journey of transformation. Growing up in India, Monkey repressed his sexuality for decades—struggling with shame, a stutter, and a failed arranged marriage—before discovering healing through psychedelics, tantra, and radical self-acceptance.

We dive deep into his five pillars of intimacy: self-love, knowing yourself, communication, sensuality, and play. Monkey reveals how these principles helped him release people-pleasing, honor his boundaries, and turn what many would see as weaknesses—like his stutter—into authentic strengths.

This episode explores:

• How taking 100% responsibility for your reality creates freedom in relationships.
• Why self-love and self-knowledge are the foundation of intimacy.
• How tantra and embodiment practices can heal sexual shame.
• Practical tips for setting boundaries without guilt.
• Why playfulness and sensuality are essential to keeping attraction alive.

Whether you’re navigating dating, healing from heartbreak, or deepening intimacy with a partner, this conversation offers practical tools and inspiring insights to transform your love life.

You can find Naughty Monkeys workshops and book at https://artofintimacy.org/

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